Is it childish to wear band shirts?

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Ryan Minns

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Wearing Band shirts = Not childish

Preferring a certain clothing choice on men/women = Perfectly fine

Thinking people SHOULD wear what you prefer does however = childish
 

Fox12

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Oh, who the hell cares? My 63 year old Lit teacher wares nothing but biker shirts, and she's covered in tattoos. She won't shut up about Sons of Anarchy. We're all a little childish, embrace it, love it. It really shouldn't matter. That said, there must be something she likes in you. If she wasn't too condescending then keep talking to her. If she was then oh well, plenty of other fish in the sea. Fish that probably wear band shirts.

Besides, I love band art. I'm an RA, for instance, and all of my doordecks are band covers. Most of my residents really liked them.
 

Imperioratorex Caprae

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I still dress about the same as I did in high school because its comfortable to me, and it does include band shirts. I also am a musician at heart, have been in a few bands myself and am currently trying to start another. So being 35 myself, I don't necessarily think its childish, but then I'm of the mind that growing up doesn't mean you have to lose the things you treasured as a kid.
I'm never going to wear a suit and tie, I do own a few button up shirts, and some nice khakis though and CAN dress nice. But you'll still catch me wearing either my army-style boots with that ensemble or my skate shoes because I will always choose comfort over anything else and fuck anyone who thinks I should dress otherwise.
 

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Nah, that's just the opinion of some. At least you don't have a brother who thinks that when you are over 21, you're too old for watching cartoons and drinking chocolate milk. Being reminded constantly. And then you have the people who like to tell you what is 'normal', like they're the judge. Ugh
 

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Well if it's a Kidz Bop T-shirt (do they make these?), it probably would be. An AxCx shirt might be as well for entirely different reasons. But generally no.
 

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Considering my personal belief regarding clothes is "If it's free or cheap, what's the point of looking 'nice' most of the time?" Who really cares? I basically didn't have hot running water until I was twenty, what my clothes look like is pretty much the last thing I really care about.

Wear what you want, unless it's a work uniform or special event, it really shouldn't matter.
 

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Personaly, outside of formal events I think its a bit childish to care what other people are wearing. I wear jeans and a T-shirt when I'm out unless I going to something fancy like a wedding or a job interview, and the only people who have ever given me shit about it have been uptight arrogant blowhards, and just generally toxic people I didn't need in my life. (and 2/3s of them wear fedoras, go figure)
 

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Er. I wear what I'm comfortable in and what I like, which is usually jeans and a t-shirt or hoodie, unless I'm attending something that requires a more professional state of dress. I'm about to turn 27.

I was under the impression that this was how 95% of people operated...perhaps I was mislead?

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Going on 28 in two days and I'm still wearing band shirts around town. I have just as many collared shirts as I do band shirts, but I honestly don't care what other people think or say about me. If I want to look nice, I'm doing it for me and my girlfriend, not for anyone else.
 

BathorysGraveland2

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Lol, that girl would hate the fuck out of me as I have a denim vest with band logos sewn onto it.

No, it isn't childish to visualise yourself off of your passions or hobbies. It can even be seen as a way to support what you love - the money for that shirt goes to help finance the band and it may even cause someone to ask what is on the shirt, showing another potential fan their music.

Childish? For all of the above? Fuck that noise, man.
 

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I tend to wear more "fancy" clothes because I like lolita fashion, and kimonos and other odd stuff. But it's the sort of stuff I often find comfortable. Still while I don't wear band tees, I will wear graphic tees related to my favourite movies/shows/anime/video games/books/etc with a comfortable skirt.

Kenbo Slice said:
I was talking to this girl I sort of was into...until she decided to try to tell me how to dress. Apparently 23 year old guys should dress nice all the time and look "manly." Band shirts are childish according to her. First off, I don't wear band shirts all the time. Second off, I don't see the issue with wearing jeans or shorts with a band shirt, especially if I'm not doing anything special or going out.
I guess I'm not mature (even though I work full time, don't live at home, and pay my own bills.) But no, it's the way I dress.

What do you guys think?
Calling it childish and demanding you dress to her standards is rather passive aggressive, shallow, absurdly status conscious, and childish. Really if you're in conflict on such a small thing, I wouldn't count on this relationship lasting.
 

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crimson5pheonix said:
Well if it's a Kidz Bop T-shirt (do they make these?), it probably would be. An AxCx shirt might be as well for entirely different reasons. But generally no.
<link=http://shop.kidzbop.com/Category.aspx?categoryid=6&sort=&viewall=1>Yes, they do... and then some...

OT: Fuck no! As an adult, the only person you should worry about in this kind of situation is you own damn self... With that said, unless you have a good reason to wanting to not wear a particular band shirt (or even a band shirt at all) on a certain day, keep wearing what you like to wear and, as long as you're not hurting anybody while doing it, stop caring what others around you think...

Now, if you excuse me, I have to set up which of my MLP shirts I should wear for tomorrow's afternoon outing... (The AC/DC parody shirt or the Gangnam Style parody shirt?)
 

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KyuubiNoKitsune-Hime said:
I tend to wear more "fancy" clothes because I like lolita fashion, and kimonos and other odd stuff. But it's the sort of stuff I often find comfortable. Still while I don't wear band tees, I will wear graphic tees related to my favourite movies/shows/anime/video games/books/etc with a comfortable skirt.

Kenbo Slice said:
I was talking to this girl I sort of was into...until she decided to try to tell me how to dress. Apparently 23 year old guys should dress nice all the time and look "manly." Band shirts are childish according to her. First off, I don't wear band shirts all the time. Second off, I don't see the issue with wearing jeans or shorts with a band shirt, especially if I'm not doing anything special or going out.
I guess I'm not mature (even though I work full time, don't live at home, and pay my own bills.) But no, it's the way I dress.

What do you guys think?
Calling it childish and demanding you dress to her standards is rather passive aggressive, shallow, absurdly status conscious, and childish. Really if you're in conflict on such a small thing, I wouldn't count on this relationship lasting.
Oh yeah. I called it quits there. I just thought it'd be a good thing to discuss. But apparently everybody agrees it's okay.

Edit: Not just for that reason, just her extremely condescending attitude about any of my interests was a factor too.
 

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To each their own, I don't think it's a good look beyond your teenage years though.

I mean, lounging around at home in one is grand but wearing one outside of the home is not something I would be into.

I like guys who dress well but, unless you want to get into my pants, that isn't really relevant. I stopped wearing band shirts around age fourteen but I'm fairly into clothes and fashion so that may be part of it. That said, it can depend on the shirt, a big logo saying Dying Fetus is really naff but some shirts, especially subtle designs that aren't obviously band shirts, can be okay.


Basically, you can take her opinions on board but ultimately you should wear what you want.
Making me feel like a chump over here, CS. I wear super hero t-shirts still, LOL
 

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You are an adult. Wear what you feel. Its like saying wearing a sports team jersey/kit is childish. Nope. And does this attitude of "I will only meet or have interest in someone professional" still exist? Okay, everyone has their type which is fine. But wearing a band shirt, sports jersey, or icon of a comic book character isn't childish. You can still have interest as an adult. There will be time for business and smart wear but god, are they just boring.
 

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Bear in mind that this is coming from a guy wearing a Hawaiian shirt and a kilt, so perhaps I'm not the best source for fashion advice.

As I see it, there are three priorities you should have when it comes to clothing: safety (don't go glassblowing in shorts), comfort (don't go out when it's 20 below in shorts), and utility (don't forget the importance of pockets, even in shorts). Life has shown me, however, that you should be aware that people will have expectations based on what you're wearing, and expect you to be aware of this. An illustrating example:

Several years ago, I lived in a town with an enormous number of bars (it at one point held the world record for most bars per square mile). As you might imagine, many people in such a community work late; I'd go for walks early in the morning and the streets would be deserted. One day, out for a morning stroll, I spot a guy in a Ghostbusters shirt. He's standing on the corner, apparently waiting for someone. As I approach, I see him reach into his pocket and pull out a cell phone. I think "No, it can't be; he must just be checking the time". But sure enough, he starts dialing- not just running through a contact list, actually punching in a number. Fate doesn't hand you an opportunity like this every day; so I as I walk up to him, I say "Hey! Who you gonna call?"

And he turns to me with a "what the hell do you care?" expression on his face, and replies, vaguely confused, "My friend".
 

jklinders

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I'm 39 and only just started wearing band t-shirts. If it's childish, I kinda missed that boat.

Frankly this girl sounds like some kind of passive aggressive ***** to me but I'm not there to see the whole context. most of the time clothing is a matter of context and I see no issue here as long as that clothing is left at home for black tie events.
 

Guffe

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Listen mate!

I just turned 24... Band shirts are 70% of my wardrobe, 20% are LiverpoolFC related stuff and the rest 10% are clothing meant for work and "nicer occasions". Anyone telling me how to dress can just straight out fuck off, I dress how I feel comfortable. Besides anyone seeing me in a band/gaming/football shirt immediately gets a first impression of me and can start a conversation based of that, in stead of having to second guess what type of person I am.

And age has what to with this? I walk during summers in shorts and a bandshirt with my dad (both dressed accordingly) through town and go to stores and do everything else on our freetime in those kind of clothing.

I know when I can not dress like "the normal me", work being one and then of course parties and weddings and funerals and the sort. Of course I always have my Liverpool tie when I wear a suit, and my dad has either his KISS or IronMaiden tie, but they get more positive feedback if anything.

Be yourself, if someone can't handle that, you're just too cool for them :p