I fell out of love when I realized that the girl I liked was dumber than a brick wall.
Not much to work with in America.
Not much to work with in America.
Is there a way to fall OUT of love?
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Can I send you a friend request? You make me laugh a lot. Im hysterically laughing as I type.Judas Iscariot said:
That was really obscure, but funny.HippySecond said:use V.A.T.S and shoot him/her in the heart?
"Fall out" of love... see what i did there?
Well, I guess I should have expect this when I saw the last post was by you. loldathwampeer said:Have dirty, raw doing it in the bathtub sex with her.
Then you'll realise what you were actually feeling was intense lust... This will either sate the lust. Or make it stronger.
Either way you'll have boned the shit outa each other and feel better for it.
I don't have this problem. I can only develop family like love, I've never actually had romantic feelings towards anyone. The weird thing is that there are plenty of people I find attractive, but in the end I could never see myself having any other feelings towards them.
I've never had any form of romantic relationship in my entire life, and it will remain that way for the foreseeable future.
No real advice from me, seeing as I've never had this problem, but I can only offer up the wonders of time. Time heals all wounds, and severes all ties... you just have to let it work its magic.
I've never had any form of romantic relationship in my entire life, and it will remain that way for the foreseeable future.
No real advice from me, seeing as I've never had this problem, but I can only offer up the wonders of time. Time heals all wounds, and severes all ties... you just have to let it work its magic.
Let me make it more clear what I mean: Imagine a ball of insanity and madness, thats basically me. Imagine a chain wrapped around it that keeps it from being released, thats basically her. Without the chain the ball would be able to freely act. In other word, I'm probably insane.Cheveyo said:
Ok I'm a bit of a heart breaker and have been in several situation alike yours.
Love and lust are two very easy subjects to get confused. One can think about another person with the idea of love in their own mind, but in actual fact, due to the nature of the situation (eg You think a girls hot or cool and want to dick her)its actually lust. It can also be visa/versa.
For your situation, you need to distinguish weather what you are feeling is love or lust. Its not easy and probably the best way to distinguish it, is to ask yourself how you feel about this girl and be honest with yourself.
Then again, just to complicate things a bit further;
If you love her, let her go.
If you crave her, let her know
Both fantastic lines that can be put in use in this situation.
I myself and going thru the same patterns with a girl a met.
Not sure weather I want to start a relationship or if what I am feeling for her is just a friendship bond. Very confusing.
Love and lust are two very easy subjects to get confused. One can think about another person with the idea of love in their own mind, but in actual fact, due to the nature of the situation (eg You think a girls hot or cool and want to dick her)its actually lust. It can also be visa/versa.
For your situation, you need to distinguish weather what you are feeling is love or lust. Its not easy and probably the best way to distinguish it, is to ask yourself how you feel about this girl and be honest with yourself.
Then again, just to complicate things a bit further;
If you love her, let her go.
If you crave her, let her know
Both fantastic lines that can be put in use in this situation.
I myself and going thru the same patterns with a girl a met.
Not sure weather I want to start a relationship or if what I am feeling for her is just a friendship bond. Very confusing.
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This is what worked for me..
One night, July 7th, actually, I had told her I liked her, not on purpose, but her friend had kind of figured out and made me tell her over Skype.. needless to say, things got awkward, but within a month we started to text eachother and such. She asked me one day if I had still liked her, I still had feelings for her, but I said no. Over the past month she has showed me that she likes me better as a friend, and me, therefore losing my feelings for her, we are still pretty good friends though.
This is what worked for me..
One night, July 7th, actually, I had told her I liked her, not on purpose, but her friend had kind of figured out and made me tell her over Skype.. needless to say, things got awkward, but within a month we started to text eachother and such. She asked me one day if I had still liked her, I still had feelings for her, but I said no. Over the past month she has showed me that she likes me better as a friend, and me, therefore losing my feelings for her, we are still pretty good friends though.
Do what Kurt Cobain did.
Worked for him.
I went there.
Seriously: You're in the state of infatuation. The first stage of love that's responsible for getting you attached to that person. You feed infatuation by seeing that personal, physical contact, speaking to that person and the like. The good thing about infatuation is that it only lasts a few weeks; nature gives you just enough time to do what nature wants you to do with her.
After that, if you can't reach the long-term emotional attachment (aka, love) status, it goes away.
Worked for him.
I went there.
Seriously: You're in the state of infatuation. The first stage of love that's responsible for getting you attached to that person. You feed infatuation by seeing that personal, physical contact, speaking to that person and the like. The good thing about infatuation is that it only lasts a few weeks; nature gives you just enough time to do what nature wants you to do with her.
After that, if you can't reach the long-term emotional attachment (aka, love) status, it goes away.
Ok well then tomorrow, tell her you really need to talk to her about your relationship. Worse case scenario: she realizes you have some kind of relationship issues and dumps you. Best case scenario: she realizes you really care for her and she'll do whatever she can to reciprocate the same feeling. Also, as a psychology major I would suggest seeking a counselor. It most likely will help you in the long run.Judgement101 said:
In his case, it would probably make it worse. Sex helps with emotional attachment to an individual. When they stop having sex and she expects a relationship, he finds out how annoying she actually is and then realizes he just had a non-alcoholic version of beer-goggles, he'll snap out of it.dathwampeer said:Am I so predictable? D:Judgement101 said:Well, I guess I should have expect this when I saw the last post was by you. loldathwampeer said:Have dirty, raw doing it in the bathtub sex with her.
Then you'll realise what you were actually feeling was intense lust... This will either sate the lust. Or make it stronger.
Either way you'll have boned the shit outa each other and feel better for it.
In sincerity. How old are you?
Because if you're fairly young I would be willing to be this 'love' is nothing more than a passing infatuation. Honestly.
Don't get so worked up over it.
Either tell her you like her. Or move on and idealise some other woman.
.......... Either way you need to get laid. That solves most problems.