Is there a way to fall OUT of love?

[Judgement101]

Every time you see her. Imaging she's got like a seriously fucked up nose and when she's around, smell something pungent to associate her with putrid smells

Tried it and tried it. It's almost like my brain is hardwired to only love her and block all other thoughts.

Imagine she's a huge biggot and share nothing in common with you.

Huh, haven't tried those yet.

 

[Rasputin1]

The thing is, she is the only thing making me less depressed. If it wasn't for her I would be emotionless and probably psycotic. I just want to not love her because I run every bad senario through my head constantly.

In that case, I suggest psychological help.
No, I'm not joking. Everything you've said so far indicates that there is something very wrong with you.
Go seek professional help.

Let me make it more clear what I mean: Imagine a ball of insanity and madness, thats basically me. Imagine a chain wrapped around it that keeps it from being released, thats basically her. Without the chain the ball would be able to freely act. In other word, I'm probably insane.

You need to drop these thoughts. Now.

When you imagine you and her in such a way, you're pretty much just justifying your actions/thoughts to yourself. I don't know your specific relationship with this girl, but if you think that way, then you and her will not have any chance. Obsessiveguys get absolutly nowhere.

If you want to keep her, or go out with her at all, you just need to be yourself. And don't tell me that your normal self is "insane" cause I'll have none of it.

 

[Bruin]

*sigh*
like the first replier said:

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

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needn't I remind you that the whole "hard-wired" thing is BS and a very over done cliché although we are "hard-wired" to reproduce we are not "hard-wired" to "love" a specific person other than that, professional help is the only option if it's making you a danger to you and/or others.

We are "hard wired" to love, in a sense. Nature wants us to produce more babies with somebody that we find physically attractive--because they're probably genetically attractive as well.

But he could find that with any other girl he gets emotionally attached to. Compatibility things like having things in common go a long way to this as well, but still.

You're spot on. I already do see professional help but the anti-depressant wore off for the night so yeah...

Tired of this "I'm depressed" bullshit.

Everybody is depressed these days. Everybody has ADHD and is dark and mysterious yet caring and loving and beautiful at the same time.

Reminds me of a piss-poor paperback airport novel.

 

[Judgement101]

The thing is, she is the only thing making me less depressed. If it wasn't for her I would be emotionless and probably psycotic. I just want to not love her because I run every bad senario through my head constantly.

In that case, I suggest psychological help.
No, I'm not joking. Everything you've said so far indicates that there is something very wrong with you.
Go seek professional help.

Let me make it more clear what I mean: Imagine a ball of insanity and madness, thats basically me. Imagine a chain wrapped around it that keeps it from being released, thats basically her. Without the chain the ball would be able to freely act. In other word, I'm probably insane.

You need to drop these thoughts. Now.

When you imagine you and her in such a way, you're pretty much just justifying your actions/thoughts to yourself. I don't know your specific relationship with this girl, but if you think that way, then you and her will not have any chance. Obsessiveguys get absolutly nowhere.

If you want to keep her, or go out with her at all, you just need to be yourself. And don't tell me that your normal self is "insane" cause I'll have none of it.

I hope you do know that I'm borderline psycopathic right? I thought I made that common knowledge, I'm not kidding.

 

[Bruin]

I hope you do know that I'm borderline psycopathic right? I thought I made that common knowledge, I'm not kidding.

Lol.

Seriously, I did laugh out loud at this.

Good joke, fellow.

 

[Judgement101]

*sigh*
like the first replier said:

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

.

needn't I remind you that the whole "hard-wired" thing is BS and a very over done cliché although we are "hard-wired" to reproduce we are not "hard-wired" to "love" a specific person other than that, professional help is the only option if it's making you a danger to you and/or others.

We are "hard wired" to love, in a sense. Nature wants us to produce more babies with somebody that we find physically attractive--because they're probably genetically attractive as well.

But he could find that with any other girl he gets emotionally attached to. Compatibility things like having things in common go a long way to this as well, but still.

You're spot on. I already do see professional help but the anti-depressant wore off for the night so yeah...

Tired of this "I'm depressed" bullshit.

Everybody is depressed these days. Everybody has ADHD and is dark and mysterious yet caring and loving and beautiful at the same time.

Reminds me of a piss-poor paperback airport novel.

How am I being dark an mysterious? I'll shed light on this then. I'm 16, average student, cynical, depressed (medically diagnosed, not self diagnosed), only social with my close friends, and tend to stay out of any unwanted happenings.

 

[Rasputin1]

The thing is, she is the only thing making me less depressed. If it wasn't for her I would be emotionless and probably psycotic. I just want to not love her because I run every bad senario through my head constantly.

In that case, I suggest psychological help.
No, I'm not joking. Everything you've said so far indicates that there is something very wrong with you.
Go seek professional help.

Let me make it more clear what I mean: Imagine a ball of insanity and madness, thats basically me. Imagine a chain wrapped around it that keeps it from being released, thats basically her. Without the chain the ball would be able to freely act. In other word, I'm probably insane.

You need to drop these thoughts. Now.

When you imagine you and her in such a way, you're pretty much just justifying your actions/thoughts to yourself. I don't know your specific relationship with this girl, but if you think that way, then you and her will not have any chance. Obsessiveguys get absolutly nowhere.

If you want to keep her, or go out with her at all, you just need to be yourself. And don't tell me that your normal self is "insane" cause I'll have none of it.

I hope you do know that I'm borderline psycopathic right? I thought I made that common knowledge, I'm not kidding.

Even if you are, everything I said still stands. This girl may help you in alot of ways, but if you can see there's nothing between you, you need to let it go. Trust me I know how hard that can be..

Maybe you need to elaborate a little more on your standing with her so I know what I'm commenting on?

 

[Judgement101]

Have dirty, raw doing it in the bathtub sex with her.

Then you'll realise what you were actually feeling was intense lust... This will either sate the lust. Or make it stronger.

Either way you'll have boned the shit outa each other and feel better for it.

Well, I guess I should have expect this when I saw the last post was by you. lol

Am I so predictable? D:

In sincerity. How old are you?

Because if you're fairly young I would be willing to be this 'love' is nothing more than a passing infatuation. Honestly.

Don't get so worked up over it.

Either tell her you like her. Or move on and idealise some other woman.


.......... Either way you need to get laid. That solves most problems.

I'm 16 but I'm an oddty compared to other 16 year old boys. (Mainly because I'm not the sort of person who only likes girls for apperence and such)

Yea. It will just be an infatuation.

Fuck her and move on.

Honestly. It will work.

I think we have completely different ideologies on how to treat women.

No. You like to think we do.

Everything boils down to sex.

If you both get your rocks off. What's the problem.

Sex is not this magical soul connecting thing people make it out to be.

It's just sex. It's for recreation and procreation. In that order.

Actually I'm probably as close to gay as possible for a staright guy.

 

[Bruin]

How am I being dark an mysterious? I'll shed light on this then. I'm 16, average student, cynical, depressed (medically diagnosed, not self diagnosed), only social with my close friends, and tend to stay out of any unwanted happenings.

You're the same misanthropic, House-watching teenager that thinks mental disorders are cool to mock and mimic.

Any time a human being describes themselves as "cynical" it generally means they want you to believe they are. I don't believe you're cynical. I believe you want me to think you are. I think the same doctors that slap "ADD" labels on toddlers are the same ones slapping "depressed" labels on kids these days.

 

[Judgement101]

The thing is, she is the only thing making me less depressed. If it wasn't for her I would be emotionless and probably psycotic. I just want to not love her because I run every bad senario through my head constantly.

In that case, I suggest psychological help.
No, I'm not joking. Everything you've said so far indicates that there is something very wrong with you.
Go seek professional help.

Let me make it more clear what I mean: Imagine a ball of insanity and madness, thats basically me. Imagine a chain wrapped around it that keeps it from being released, thats basically her. Without the chain the ball would be able to freely act. In other word, I'm probably insane.

You need to drop these thoughts. Now.

When you imagine you and her in such a way, you're pretty much just justifying your actions/thoughts to yourself. I don't know your specific relationship with this girl, but if you think that way, then you and her will not have any chance. Obsessiveguys get absolutly nowhere.

If you want to keep her, or go out with her at all, you just need to be yourself. And don't tell me that your normal self is "insane" cause I'll have none of it.

I hope you do know that I'm borderline psycopathic right? I thought I made that common knowledge, I'm not kidding.

Even if you are, everything I said still stands. This girl may help you in alot of ways, but if you can see there's nothing between you, you need to let it go. Trust me I know how hard that can be..

Maybe you need to elaborate a little more on your standing with her so I know what I'm commenting on?

I'll just let it go. If she causes this much of an issue for me she really isn't worth it.

 

[Paulie92]

You can't control this but if someone demands "Do this, or I'll dump you." that instantly kills any emotional attatchment to them

 

[quantum mechanic]

Ummm. You could talk to her about how you feel and see if that helps.

 

[Judgement101]

How am I being dark an mysterious? I'll shed light on this then. I'm 16, average student, cynical, depressed (medically diagnosed, not self diagnosed), only social with my close friends, and tend to stay out of any unwanted happenings.

You're the same misanthropic, House-watching teenager that thinks mental disorders are cool to mock and mimic.

Any time a human being describes themselves as "cynical" it generally means they want you to believe they are. I don't believe you're cynical. I believe you want me to think you are. I think the same doctors that slap "ADD" labels on toddlers are the same ones slapping "depressed" labels on kids these days.

I didn't really know the definition of a cynic soooooo yeeaaahhhh...Actually I have the textbook definition of depression, not the "I'm sad all the time" depressed, the "I have zero motivation and find little to no joy in activies that normally cause joy" depressed.

 

[Rasputin1]

The thing is, she is the only thing making me less depressed. If it wasn't for her I would be emotionless and probably psycotic. I just want to not love her because I run every bad senario through my head constantly.

In that case, I suggest psychological help.
No, I'm not joking. Everything you've said so far indicates that there is something very wrong with you.
Go seek professional help.

Let me make it more clear what I mean: Imagine a ball of insanity and madness, thats basically me. Imagine a chain wrapped around it that keeps it from being released, thats basically her. Without the chain the ball would be able to freely act. In other word, I'm probably insane.

You need to drop these thoughts. Now.

When you imagine you and her in such a way, you're pretty much just justifying your actions/thoughts to yourself. I don't know your specific relationship with this girl, but if you think that way, then you and her will not have any chance. Obsessiveguys get absolutly nowhere.

If you want to keep her, or go out with her at all, you just need to be yourself. And don't tell me that your normal self is "insane" cause I'll have none of it.

I hope you do know that I'm borderline psycopathic right? I thought I made that common knowledge, I'm not kidding.

Even if you are, everything I said still stands. This girl may help you in alot of ways, but if you can see there's nothing between you, you need to let it go. Trust me I know how hard that can be..

Maybe you need to elaborate a little more on your standing with her so I know what I'm commenting on?

I'll just let it go. If she causes this much of an issue for me she really isn't worth it.

That's the way to think =] . Although its probably easier said than done. If a girl causes you nothing but grief, no matter how much you like her, you need to stop feeling for her(as fucked as that sounds).

A good saying for this situation is "Passion rules Reason."

 

[JaredXE]

Yes. It involves copious quantities of alcohol, tits(preferably not hers), and friends reminding you of all of her faults so that you can't think of her without remembering them.


Or kill her with fire. You can't love a charred corpse.