Is there a way to fall OUT of love?

[Judgement101]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

 

[Free Thinker]

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

 

[Judgement101]

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

Trust me, I've tried, I have a lot of willpower but it's all focused on making me not go murderous.

 

[Gxas]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

I'm in the same boat. I'm just learning to live with it. The worst part is that she is also my closest friend and I cannot go more than three days without talking to her.

 

[Free Thinker]

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

Trust me, I've tried, I have a lot of willpower but it's all focused on making me not go murderous.

The point is not murderous rage. It's severing all ties. Painful or not. I'd have to repeatedly tell myself either, "No way in hell.", "It'll never happen.", or "There's always other people."

 

[Thaius]

It is possible, but it's also really difficult, and can only really happen easily if shocked out of it by a betrayal or something (even then there's a grieving process), or by a long process of everything falling apart during which you can accept that it's over.

However, I'm not sure I want to give advice without knowing more. The question isn't "is it possible," but also "should you." So what's going on?

 

[Judgement101]

Have someone else burst your bubble.

Assuming this girl isn't perfect the easy way would be to have one of your more dickish friends list all her faults. Eventually one will click or your doubts will grow.

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

Also, epic icon for this kind of reply.

If anyone lists any of her faults I just go insane and attack them.

 

[gmaverick019_v1legacy]

Can someone awnser this please. (No experimental brain surgery thank you) I love this girl but I just can't stand my thoughts about her anymore, can someone tell me how to fall OUT of love? (Also, no murder.)

well roughly, that person or thoughts consume way too much of your time/thoughts, so you've gotta find something else thats constructive and fun for you that involves other people, so once you get going on that it eventually overlaps that and you forget about it =]

at least thats what i end up doing (the past 3 times or so its worked pretty good, took me maybe a month but it worked just fine)

 

[Girl With One Eye]

You can't force it. It happens when you stop caring naturally or they hurt you so much you end up hating them.

 

[BlumiereBleck]

have her be completely mean to you. But it's going to hurt like hell

 

[twasdfzxcv]

If anyone lists any of her faults I just go insane and attack them.

Maybe you should try anger management then. Don't play the game if you can't take the loss, if you don't play the game then you can't lose.

And by not playing the game I mean not thinking about her, or anything for that matter. Manual labor works well for tuning out your thoughts.

 

[Judgement101]

Have someone else burst your bubble.

Assuming this girl isn't perfect the easy way would be to have one of your more dickish friends list all her faults. Eventually one will click or your doubts will grow.

Mental conditioning. Just takes willpower. I've done it...more than once.

Also, epic icon for this kind of reply.

If anyone lists any of her faults I just go insane and attack them.

I fail to see the problem unless you are a monster of a man who could crush all of his friends in a physical contest. In that case you probably don't have a problem with getting the girl anyways.

Three or four friends who are really good people will eventually help you get the girl or give up on her. Not to say that it will be easy or even positive for you.

1:I feel basically no pain due to nerve ending stuff. 2:I already had her.

 

[Teh Karn]

You can't fall out of a hole.

Or can you?

 

[Judgement101]

You can't fall out of a hole.

Or can you?

My portal gun says different

 

[Judgement101]

Listen to songs that are basically anti-love songs.

For example:

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That helped me sort out my feelings when it came to my ex.
Then again, the fact that she was a fucking crazy ass ***** helped a lot, too.

Honestly, don't run from the feelings. Just be as depressed as you want to be. It's better to just go through it than to try and run from it. You'll come out stronger on the other side.

The thing is, she is the only thing making me less depressed. If it wasn't for her I would be emotionless and probably psycotic. I just want to not love her because I run every bad senario through my head constantly.