Several points about this. Firstly, I wasn't the one who began the notion of 'sacred=From God' in the Christian context. That was Archtype who set down that little clause there, you can see it from the previous discussion and I did not challenge it for the sake of not over-complicating the debate. I do not considering sacred to be constructed from that notion. I discussed things in a Christian context because that's what Archtype was arguing for.NightHawk21 said:Now I think this has gone on far enough. Firstly both of you calm down. Now since I don't feel like scrolling through 30 or so pages to find all the unquoted sections I only provide statements in relations to your last post Blind Sight. In relation to predating written history, you're probably right, but a lot of that has to do with your definition of marriage. If you consider it a relationship between a man and a woman for the purpose of creating children than their is substantial evidence to support a monogamous lifestyle going back millions of years into our descendants, maybe as far as the Australopithecines. Marriage as a sacred union is a bit trickier to define since no single definition of God exists and a lot of religious texts have been lost.
Sacred does not specifically mean important to God or any particular religion (or as you and most other people seem to think solely Christianity). Also it is quite vital to remember that you have to think about the issues you address through the eyes of the people that lived during that time (Cultural Anthropology 101). It is perhaps important to remember that women were not even considered persons (legally) until not too long ago, and as such the trading of one's daughter to someone else to be his wife was a god way of drawing both families closer together. This strategy, I would like to point out has had a major impact on the breakdown of states in today's modern world due to colonization and the like, and has ended or halted quite a few wars. I would also like to point out that even nowadays couples in arranged marriages are just as happy as couples who married for love after 9 years, and the couples that married for love see a steeper drop in satisfaction than those whose unions were arranged.
For the next part I will use the religious point of view of the 2 largest religions (Christianity and Islam)(This view is also held by Judaism, but I can't say if any of the other religions have similar views). The holy book(s) were written by prophets, men who were spoken through by God. Now I understand you might not believe this but I'm telling you what the view of these religions is, that being said their is no concrete proof and no one is telling you what to believe (Also, just an fyi the Torah is the holy book of Judaism and basically contains 5 books of the old testament, the same one which is in the Bible. In addition, I would imagine that the Qur'an also contains a good deal about Jesus and the prophets of the Old Testament seeing as how Islam broke away from Christianity after Jesus and considers him a prophet). I encourage you however to refrain from calling other as you did by the end of your paragraph as it doesn't do anything to support your case, as a good athiest or otherwise.
In addition, I would also like to point out that all the passages you referenced come from the Old Testament, which while is a part of the Bible, is not looked to as much as the New Testament (which was written after the death of Christ and is the foundation of Christianity, not the Old Testament). If you want a religious argument, it might be worth noting that entry into heaven was not possible until the death of Christ. It was only when Christ died and was resurrected that sins were forgiven and entry into heaven was granted. That being said it might stand to reason that striking fear into others might have seemed like a good way of keeping them in line more or less (A tactic employed by the Gods of many religions I would like to point out).
Now I realize that what I said won't change your mind and hell I'm not even saying you should, but I've attempted to provide you with a relatively thorough explanation to your issues. As I final word too, and one that applies to more than just you, I would encourage you guys to not just group Christians together and blast Christianity altogether. Not every Christian is as stubborn or a bigot like members of the Westboro Baptist Church. It seems unfair that you guys should rip on a whole religion just because of a select few bigots give it a bad name, especially when Christianity has given so many people hope when they've had nothing. Anyways to each their own, and if you wanna have an educated level headed debate, I'll be listening, but keep it civil, save the bitchin for something that's worth getting angry over.
Secondly, you bring up cultural anthropology, which is a good call. But the excuse that 'you have to consider the cultural aspects of the times' completely refutes Archtype's use of the Bible to condemn homosexuality as well. If you can call ownership of women an aspect of the cultural context, then condemnation of homosexuality by 'God's will' can also be interpreted as an aspect of cultural context. That was my point by highlighting those various Bible verses at the end of my statement, obviously those practices are part of an older culture and I was inferring that the condemnation of homosexuality was of the same vein. This is what I meant by cherry picking passages from the Bible, all the terrible stuff in the Bible is in a 'cultural context' while everything that supports their own opinion is relevant. They can just hand-wave things they don't like because of cultural context. I reject that notion. If you're using the Bible as any kind of moral guideline and system, you'd better be ready to admit when even passages you favour are cultural context, which Archtype did not do.
Also, you don't need to lecture to me about the Torah and the Quran, I'm well aware of the history of both.
Thirdly, actually yes, if you are completely devoted to a religious text as truth and use it to back up your arguments with 'because God said so' you are an anti-intellectual slave. Surrendering to such a dogmatic stance completely invalidates any attempt at logic or reason. The use of 'God says so' is an immature stance that is simply you pushing away responsibility for your own opinions. It is a cowardly and irrational position. As other people have pointed on this thread, Archtype ignores critical thinking by using selective evidence in order to back up his claims. He hand-waves off criticism of his beliefs without actually considering them. Despite what you think from my post, I actually do consider the other side constantly. I'm a libertarian, but I don't treat Ayn Rand's works as dogmatic belief. I regularly read a communist newspaper called Spartacus and several liberal media blogs. I'm an atheist, but I've also read works such as 'the Signature of God' which attempts to explain how the Bible represents an absolute truth. I do consider the other side, but when I find their arguments lacking I will call them out on it. I mean, hell, go look up the 'when will religion die out?' thread where I actively defend the concept of spirituality against a more militant atheist (might be locked though). When Archtype completely dismisses subjective morality by saying that atheists changes their minds quickly (can be seen above in his discussion with someone else) this shows his lack of critical thinking or even his ability to comprehend what he's arguing against. I mean, just look at his counter-argument to the same statement that you quoted. It's filled with dogmatic faith that absolutely disregards actual evidence and he completely ignores points that confirmed by historians and theologists, such as mistranslations of the Bible. He then has the gall to call me ignorant of Biblical teachings despite offering no successful counterargument. His argument is not one of reason. It doesn't matter what your book of choice is: the Bible, Torah, the Communist Manifesto, Atlas Shrugged, etc. if you use that as dogma that you feel somehow validates your opinion then yes, you are an anti-intellectual slave to a dogmatic faith.
Fourthly, your comment on the New Testament interests me. Have you read the New Testament? It has many questionable passages as well. For example, Jesus Christ shows support of slavery multiple times, including Ephesians 6:5, where he says "Slaves, obey your earthly masters with deep respect and fear. Serve them sincerely as you would serve Christ." Of course you'll say this is merely cultural context again, but my point is this: how exactly do you determine what is cultural context and what isn't in the Bible? It seems that consistently its a case of 'when God says something good and moral, that's legitimate, when he says something bad or immoral to our standards, that's just cultural context.' This is a horribly questionable means of determining this and I reject it.
Also, to your comment about 'no proof': well, this is no problem when it is a personal belief in spirituality. But when you're attempting to force your own morality on other people, in this example, gay marriage, then yes, I expect you to have some evidence. Why should religion be immune to this? If it is an individual belief in some power or what-not, that's fine. But when you actively argue that society or institutions should be shaped towards your moral beliefs then yes, you require evidence. If Archtype doesn't want to marry a man, that's completely fine. But when he argues that other people should conform to his belief simply because it's in the Bible, he needs to back that up with some actual logic, not just 'lol secularism' and saying my points are wrong when they are not. I can back this shit up with academic, peer-reviewed sources, I doubt he can do the same.
Finally, note how I did not say anything openly against moderate Christians in general (cept possibly the cherry picking comment, but even you admit that cultural context is used to shift through passages). If someone reads the Bible, critically thinks about it, and accepts aspects of it as truth then I have no problem. But as I said before, the use of 'because of the Bible said so' reasoning is not an intellectual argument by any means. It's a dogmatic one. I did, however, offer up a critique on the relationship between modern Christians and the Bible, which you attempted to counter. I can't say that I haven't heard these arguments before and they can't be refuted easily, but your argument was far more effective then Archtype's because you did expand on your points with evidence that is actually legitimate. You stated theological facts, rather then just using the 'God said so' argument, which is a far more effective means. If you are Christian, you do attempt to convey your arguments constructively. What I don't understand is why you would back up someone who is clearly part of that group giving Christians a bad name. Why don't moderate Christians challenge the fundamentalists and the absolutists more? Instead, Archtype gets to use your post as a nice little defensive shield against criticism. If you guys really want atheists to stop grouping Christians together, take a stand and challenge the irrationalists.