Is there any REASON gay marriage is wrong?

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AlexWinter

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It's a religious ceremony.

Involved religion doesn't approve.

Shouldn't happen. It's like each of the guys grabbing their crotches in God's face.

There's always legal civil partnerships which are exactly the same thing so I don't see why people get so worked up about it. It's almost childish.
 

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godfist88 said:
some people tend to think that if gay marriage is legal then it would set a precedent for other "more weird" types of marriages, like polygamy. but i think that's a little far fetched.
Which brings up the question on "why polygamy is wrong?"
 

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Patrick_and_the_ricks said:
Stevepinto3 said:
It's genetic, it's not like they just decide one day "Yeah, I'm gonna try to date a guy now".
If it is genetic, the reason natural selection has allowed it is because Homosexuality could be natures "birth control" if you will. A way to prevent overpopulation, which seems to make sense when you think about. Like a natural fail safe to keep us from consuming ourselves.

(Which would mean it's a good thing, and the way we are head means one day it may come down to a 50/50 chance of everyone be gay or straight)
You obviously didn't take any biology courses and just have a faint idea of what natural selection is. Don't take that this the wrong way, but you're wrong. Natural selection increases gene frequencies within a population by allowing the most fit individuals to give birth to more children. In layman's terms, they have to have sex and have children. While it is possible for gays to have a child at present time, thanks to advances in various medical technologies, it hasn't been a possibility until very recently (unless they were to have sex with a person of the opposite gender, which is not likely seeing as they are gay). That being said, it can't be acted upon by natural selection.
 

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Stevepinto3 said:
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Stevepinto3 said:
I'm tempted to hit you with the typical Euthyphro Dilemma but the response I've gotten to that lately has been circular reasoning. But hey, in case you're not familiar with it...

Is that which is good, good because God commands it, or does God command it because it is good? If the first, then goodness is subject to God's will, thus if say God ordered you to murder someone that would be morally right. If the second, then God is not needed for morality to exist.

Of course this is only relevant if you ascribe the concept of objective morality to God. I believe in neither objective morality or God so...yeah.
Precisely! And considering that, as a Christian, I believe that God created "good" and "evil" and set their respective boundaries, I believe that if God says it is wrong, it is wrong. Otherwise, we would just be monkeys that somehow survived and ended up on top of the food chain instead of T-Rexes. But to hop this sucker back on topic.....

With all that being said,

1) Is homosexuality "wrong"? Yes. No doubt about it according to the Bible.

2) Should ANYONE (including myself) try to stop/restrict someone who wants to partake in gay "marriage"? NO! As long as it is not harmful to someone else, they should be allowed to do what they want.
I...I don't think I've ever seen someone just completely concede to the Euthyphro Dilemma before. You do realize you've just stated that there is an objective morality that is subjective in nature, right? Do you not see the contradiction in that? Seriously, are you trolling me?

I agree with 2. I disagree with 1 because that's what we call blind faith.
Faith without some dark spots would cease to be faith for starters. Correct?

Completely blind though? Not quite, take for example the commandment to abstain from certain meats in the Old Testament. It did not make any sense at the time, but today we know that many of the restricted meats posed major health risks unless cared for in specific ways (refrigerators lol). I might not always be able to give an explanation as to WHY a commandment was given, but past examples tell me that God deserves trust.
 

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CkretAznMan said:
This usually only applies to male homosexual couples and couples that just do that sort of thing, but I heard that sodomy is painful.
You're doing it wrong :) OR getting it done to you wrong :)

The way I see it, considering marriage seems to pretty much dry up the flow of sex between a couple, religions should openly support gay marriage as it'd bring about less overall gayness happening.

(No, I don't really mean it, sheesh)

I'd be all for just abolishing marriage however in a kinda 'Well if you can't play nicely NO-ONE gets to play with that toy!' solution.

Make people stay together because they love each other and want to, not just because it'll cost them half a house to bugger off (pun not intended).
 

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The Cadet said:
Rafe said:
I saw that video too and it pisses me off, it demonstrates the most ignorant and unreasonable viewpoint that I am in no way in favour of. I think we have completely different examples and experiences of the religious attitude towards this topic to be honest. The Christians I know don't speak out against homosexuality in the slightest, they just don't want their marriages on their grounds.
Somehow the quote got mangled, lol.

But yeah. The problem: marriage is a secular institution nowadays. That's all that really should need to be said. I mean, it'd certainly be within the bounds of a pastor to not recite a RELIGIOUS ceremony that goes against his religion... Like, the whole vows crap. I think we're arguing for no reason...
I think so too mate. I wasn't fully aware of the scale of hatred given by some on the religious viewpoint. From my experience I always saw them as the victim just trying to stand up for what they believe in. So you opened by eyes a bit :)
 

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Only reason I can figure out is that when we'll be offering more potential fodder for divorce lawyers. Actually, that's a pretty damn good reason. If the human race stopped getting married as a whole, we'd put divorce lawyers out of business.

Good cause, AMIRITE?

Srsly though, no logical reason exists. Uh, it might cause distress to the dudes that make those little newlywed figures on the cakes.
 

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The reason I usually hear is that it 'destroys the moral virtues of society and the establishment of marriage'. This is the only non-religious or bigoted argument I've really ever heard, and there's a couple problems with it. One, marriage has never been sacred, up until the past century we mostly married for political or economic alliances between families, not for 'love'. Two, what exactly are these 'moral virtues of society'? I've heard an argument from my dad that basically can be summed up as 'homosexuality uncuts the moral fabric of society and leads to stagnation, I mean, look at Rome.' I've heard this from other people as well, so let's just clear this up: Rome did not fall because of homosexuality. Read a goddamn book. Secondly, by that logic, the Greeks regularly had all kinds of man sex and what did it get them? The beginnings of science, Western culture, and philosophy.
Um, scuse me but it does not matter if the majority of a society is married because of politics or not, something being holy/sacred could not give a rip if the people think it is or not.... It just is, or it isn't. And whether it is/isn't sacred is decided by a religions' deity. NOT by humanity.
And how do you determine if the deity believes it is sacred? Scattering bones on the ground? Reading the stars? An old book written by moral men? All these come from the works of men, not gods. What is sacred is indeed determined by humanity. And my point was that Christianity has long been a part of this economic and political marriage system, and thus their claim that homosexuality perverts the nature of marriage is simply mindless and illogical based on the actions of previous Christians. Marriage was never sacred, throughout most of history in most cultures it was a notorious system of ownership.
 

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NightHawk21 said:
Patrick_and_the_ricks said:
Stevepinto3 said:
It's genetic, it's not like they just decide one day "Yeah, I'm gonna try to date a guy now".
If it is genetic, the reason natural selection has allowed it is because Homosexuality could be natures "birth control" if you will. A way to prevent overpopulation, which seems to make sense when you think about. Like a natural fail safe to keep us from consuming ourselves.

(Which would mean it's a good thing, and the way we are head means one day it may come down to a 50/50 chance of everyone be gay or straight)
You obviously didn't take any biology courses and just have a faint idea of what natural selection is. Don't take that this the wrong way, but you're wrong. Natural selection increases gene frequencies within a population by allowing the most fit individuals to give birth to more children. In layman's terms, they have to have sex and have children. While it is possible for gays to have a child at present time, thanks to advances in various medical technologies, it hasn't been a possibility until very recently (unless they were to have sex with a person of the opposite gender, which is not likely seeing as they are gay). That being said, it can't be acted upon by natural selection.
Doesn't natural selection get rid of negative genes? Would homosexuality kinda be negative? I mean we are basically programmed to spread and reproduce, being gay kinda over rides that. Just trying to think of a reason homosexuality exists in nature and hasn't disappeared.(Certain species of Whales and apes have know to be homosexual)

[sub]Though I will admit I have not been fully paying attention in biology...[/sub]
 

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I'm in full support of Gay marriage

Okay... now that that's out of the way let me say this: I have a problem with marriage in general.
Anyone who says "Sex with only one person for the rest of my life sounds like a great idea." is completely daft.

Marriage doesn't seem to have a purpose beyond saving crap-loads of money on your taxes. Or maybe changing one of the involved parties names would make picking a surname for the children easier.

But other than that it's just a sex contract.
If two people are in love they're already going to do all the other stuff that marriage entitles. and if those two people ever stopped loving each other why should they continue to live together. Just because some guy said "'Till death do you part." That's not a good reason.

Then there's sex Which feels really really good. Why shouldn't you do it with as many people as you can (so long as they're all willing). Love doesn't have any thing to do with physical sensation. I know people who get offended at the notion of "cheating" but if you marry someone that selfish that should be your problem instead of the general rule of thumb.
 

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Patrick_and_the_ricks said:
NightHawk21 said:
Patrick_and_the_ricks said:
Stevepinto3 said:
It's genetic, it's not like they just decide one day "Yeah, I'm gonna try to date a guy now".
If it is genetic, the reason natural selection has allowed it is because Homosexuality could be natures "birth control" if you will. A way to prevent overpopulation, which seems to make sense when you think about. Like a natural fail safe to keep us from consuming ourselves.

(Which would mean it's a good thing, and the way we are head means one day it may come down to a 50/50 chance of everyone be gay or straight)
You obviously didn't take any biology courses and just have a faint idea of what natural selection is. Don't take that this the wrong way, but you're wrong. Natural selection increases gene frequencies within a population by allowing the most fit individuals to give birth to more children. In layman's terms, they have to have sex and have children. While it is possible for gays to have a child at present time, thanks to advances in various medical technologies, it hasn't been a possibility until very recently (unless they were to have sex with a person of the opposite gender, which is not likely seeing as they are gay). That being said, it can't be acted upon by natural selection.
Doesn't natural selection get rid of negative genes? Would homosexuality kinda be negative? I mean we are basically programmed to spread and reproduce, being gay kinda over rides that. Just trying to think of a reason homosexuality exists in nature and hasn't disappeared.(Certain species of Whales and apes have know to be homosexual)

Though I will admit I have not been fully paying attention in biology...
Yes, natural selection removes "negative" genes from a population, or rather it is the process by which those with "positive" genes reproduce and take all the females, while everyone else dies or gets killed off.

That being said, assuming it is genetic, it is most likely a genetic mutation since far as I've seen it isn't heritable.
 

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The Cadet said:
CkretAznMan said:
This usually only applies to male homosexual couples and couples that just do that sort of thing, but I heard that sodomy is painful.
That reminds me... Isn't the bible kinda neutral on the topic of Woman-Woman relationships? Like, Leviticus is very clear about guy on guy action, but girl on girl? Nothing wrong with it...
God hates lesbians, too.

Rom 1:26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural,
Rom 1:27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.

The history behind why the Bible is against gays and lesbians - back when it was written, Jews and Christians both were a very small segment of the population and the religion was trying to grow. Like most small groups/religions/tribes during that time period they placed a premium on reproduction. It made sense in a world with millions instead of billions of people.

People always say we should take what the Bible says in the context of the times, and if we are to do that with Christianity, we need to look at the context of a small religion trying to breed new followers.

It would make sense for them to prohibit gays, because they couldn't make new Christians.

Now, not so much. Gays can (and do) have children and raise them up with all sorts of ideologies, Christians use birth control and some never have children, etc.

The Bible, also, by the way, includes passages - I can post them if you like - telling people that shellfish is an abomination and later, in the New and Old Testaments, that women should remain subservient to men, not speak in church, and cover their heads when they pray.

I enjoy that my college theology courses prepared me to argue with Christians much better than the average Christian can argue their own religion, because I know their book better than they do. I actually had to study it; something few Christians have to do.
 

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I just dont get marriage as a hole its ment to be a religous union etc yet people that dont believe in god/gods get married so if it doesnt matter about that, why should it matter if thier both the same sex ?
 

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GodofCider said:
Dr. wonderful said:
Okay, let me explain why the church don't allow for Gay marriage:


You can't procreate and there is no way to consumate the marriage. Other then that, it's cool.
1)Then what do you say to infertile hetereosexual couples wishing to be wed?
2)Consummate: Verb: Make (a marriage or relationship) complete by having sexual intercourse.
Silly rabbit, trix are for kids.
1) Adoption an option. No, I'm serious. I asked six priest that and 2 theology teachers and they pretty much said that.

2) In Catholic law, when we echanged vows, they are meant to ensure the couple will be bought together as one. When you have sex, you are just doing the same thing...except physically.
 

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Got to quote Archer (Show) on this one:

"...Implying that gay is abnormal?"

"Not abnormal, just... gay."
 

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CkretAznMan said:
This usually only applies to male homosexual couples and couples that just do that sort of thing, but I heard that sodomy is painful.
That's a bit of an over-generalisation, it can be painful and/or pleasurable depending on a plethora of factors (not unlike straight sex). Still, where's the relevance here?
 

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Archtype said:
Third, yeah you are mistaken. The market of morality is dominated by religion considering that as far as we can tell morality was originally defined by various religions. After all, who gives a rip about morality if you have no one to answer to.. Just do what you want, right?
OK. You, me. We're having an off-topic discussion. Right now.

You clearly know squat about the philosophy of morality and ethics. There are numerous interpretations of how morality works, some requiring God(s), some not. There are hundreds and thousands of books written on the topic. Yet here you are casually dismissing other people's mores with some cheap throw-away argument you probably heard from your pastor.

First, you understand how bad this argument makes you sound, right? You're basically implying that you are an awful person, and that the only reason you do anything good is because of a carrot/stick reward system. I, on the other hand (imagine this with the most condescending attitude you can), don't do bad things because I actually give a damn about how my actions affect others, and I have a vested interest in the quality of human life.

Why is it implied that without some God judging us we'll just start killing each other in the streets? What, being good has no reward in life, in any philosophical sense? We don't go out of our way to kill each other for what should be obvious reasons; any population that did so would inevitably fail. The same can be said for stealing and lying, they are detrimental to a functioning society. If people are incapable of trusting each other there is no trade, no shared effort, no communication, no love, no community at all. These things increase our odds for survival, they make our lives better. Why would we not want them?

Is this such a bizarre concept of morality to grasp? We determine what is right and wrong through reason and observation. We avoid that which causes harm, and we encourage that which improves the quality of life. Why is that so strange?

Archtype said:
Faith without some dark spots would cease to be faith for starters. Correct?
There was a time when "faith" simply meant "trust", deserving or not. This is actually how it was often used in the old testament, trusting that God would do good. Now it often just means believing without proof. Either term could be applicable in the context I used, but I was primarily using the first, so by saying blind faith I was implying unwarranted trust. Is there a situation in which trust can be assured? That is an interesting question in itself, as the only examples in which I could think of require inductive reasoning as opposed to deductive. Good enough for practical use, not for philosophical debate. I'm rambling, I'll move on to the next part.

Completely blind though? Not quite, take for example the commandment to abstain from certain meats in the Old Testament. It did not make any sense at the time, but today we know that many of the restricted meats posed major health risks unless cared for in specific ways (refrigerators lol). I might not always be able to give an explanation as to WHY a commandment was given, but past examples tell me that God deserves trust.
I have all kinds of problems with this reasoning.

1) It's cherry-picking.
What about Deuteronomy 22:11? "Do not wear clothes of wool and linen woven together."
Exodus 23:19? "Do not cook a young goat in it's mother's milk."

What is the mighty wisdom in this? Why was this imparted upon us and not, say, the formula for penicillin?

2) It's inductive reasoning. "Eating X can be bad. The bible said not to eat X. Therefor the author must have known." It seems to follow, but it's far from irrefutable and there are always other possible explanations.

3) Even if the author did know it could have more likely been from observing people getting sick after consuming certain food. It doesn't take divine inspiration to understand cause and effect.
 

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Very good question kidigus. The answer is of course, yes. Allow me to elaborate.

About 6,000 years ago, the one and only God, who everyone on the planet acknowledges as the Judeo-Christian god, irrefutably created the world in six literal days. Despite being all powerful, he took a day off after after that. Go ahead and ask any scientist, they'll show you the mounds of evidence for this creation (actually don't bother, just believe me).

Well everything was perfect until a woman (of course) ate some fruit that God told her SPECIFICALLY not to eat. So now things weren't perfect, so we had sin. Now, all sorts of unnatural things happen like disease, labor pains, and Fox News, but WORST of all is when two people love each other BUT have matching genitals. Eww.

You see God's law is perfect and unchanging, and he mandated in what everyone acknowledges as a perfect book meant to be taken literally that marriage be restricted to ONLY one man and one set of women that could number as high as the man would like. Well he didn't have to marry them as a set, he could marry one and then pick up a few more later. So just in case you got lost, 1 man and 300 women (and hundreds more concubines) totally okay, but two men, an abomination.

Now this unchanging and perfect law changed because God's son, Jesus, who was also God, said so. Or at least some of the guys that came after him said so. Now marriage is strictly between one man and one woman, the way God from the beginning intended it.

Now since the Founding Fathers wrote in the Constitution that this is a Christian nation that should be guided by the Bible (they don't say it specifically but it is in there if you read into it hard enough), then we are obligated to make the law match what Christianity dictates.

If anyone disagrees with this, I welcome your questions but just keep in mind that attempting to correct me could endanger your immortal soul (i.e. you could go to hell).

Now while this entire thing has been satire and I don't believe a word of it, the scary thing is that this really is one of the main reasons cited to stop gay marriage.
 

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AlexWinter said:
It's a religious ceremony.

Involved religion doesn't approve.

Shouldn't happen. It's like each of the guys grabbing their crotches in God's face.

There's always legal civil partnerships which are exactly the same thing so I don't see why people get so worked up about it. It's almost childish.
Nope....I was married by a judge, at a city hall, my license says MARRIAGE and my tax forms say MARRIED. There was no religion involved, yet I am married to my wife (just had out anniversary yesterday in fact). My first marriage was in a church...but ironicly to an athiest...I fully support that if a church chooses to state openly that they will not perform same sex marriages and I'm sure those couples will be more than happy to take their ceremony, their money, and if they were members of the congragation, their worship to a church that is more accepting.