Is there any REASON gay marriage is wrong?

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ReservoirAngel

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King Toasty said:
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idodo35 said:
King Toasty said:
idodo35 said:
how can it be rigt? it is a filth and emberecement for every strait couple that ever got maried couse it compares us to gay people same could be said for gay sex gay kissing and gays holding hands at the park as a couple
(for everyone who didnt understand THAT WAS SARCASTIC)
there is realy nothing wrong with it... i cant imagine what resnable arguments there are to be made against the rigt of two people who love each outher (gay lesbians or straits) to express theyr love in a ceremony espacialy if like in my country (israel aka "religios nuts controlled land") where it is the only way to be ligally reconized as a couple (no not religios wedings doesnt count in fact i know a few couples who arent considerd legaly maried because instead of a rabi they had the brooms grandpa to anounce theyr married...)
I was reading that, and I'm all, RAGE WARRR. Lucky you activated the /sarcasm switch. The rest of your argument is reasonably sound.
yea that was the meaning to show how stupid can people be the argument in the begining is my co students from a couple years ago i almost punched him when he said it in the discusion...
You have more restraint that I have. I kneed a guy in the balls for saying much the same thing once. He threatened to have me arrested for sexual harassment, it was hilarious.
:'D
I mean, I know people who are anti-gay, but they're smart and put up well-reasoned arguments. But with people who go ad-hominem (attacking the speaker, not the argument), I can't stand them.
Same. Intelligent anti-gay people are my favourite kind of people, they really are. I can spend hours talking (and even laughing) with them. Hell one of my best friends (well, one of several) is anti-gay and refuses to be around me and my boyfriend at the same time and doesn't like me to bring up my sexuality (and I don't cause I respect that about him), but we get along so well cause we're always challenging one another. It's awesome.

But then you get the dumb, stunted types who spout one or two arguments in lame terms ad nauseum until you just want to punch them to the floor, spit on them and leave.
 

Just_in_time

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cause its just kinda weird, and people are saying its far fetched that allowing gay marriage will lead to allowing polygamy and so on, but is it really? I mean who draws the line, i mean if two men or women can get married now, then give me a legitimate reason why three or more people who share deep emotional bonds cant be married?
 

ImmortalDrifter

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AndyFromMonday said:
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Certain people are people i noticed in the "Should gay characters be allowed in kids shows" forum, who will blast you as a homophobe the second you offer an arguement against them in any way shape or form.

And I am aware, its a possibility, not an absolute certainty. You won't get always get cancer from smoking, but its possible.
You want to deny homosexuals the right to adopt a child and at the same time basically insult them and yet you don't want to get blasted as a homophobe. Unfortunately, you haven't provided a single shred of evidence for your beliefs and whilst I respect them I also reserve the right to blast them until either you manage to scoop up some evidence(if ever) or I get bored. Hell, even if it was a choice does it really matter that much when it comes to how good they can raise a child? No, it does not.
I'll get evidence when you do, note the use of the word some, and the fact that i never even mentioned how well they can raise a child at all. I simply stated that same sex couple raising kids could have ramifications. Before you act smug, realize that it's how well they can raise a child.
 

feauxx

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This verse is one of the famous six "clobber" passages from the Bible that is often used to condemn same-sex sexual activity.

In the King James Version, Leviticus 18:22 is translated: "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

Although the verse appears to most readers to apply only to sexual behavior between two males, at least two Bible translations appear to mistranslate the verse in order to widen its scope to include lesbian sexual activity:

Living Bible: "Homosexuality is absolutely forbidden, for it is an enormous sin"
New Living Translation: "Do not practice homosexuality; it is a detestable sin"


Obviously, it is important for a student of the Bible to resolve exactly what behavior is forbidden: is it:

All homosexual behavior, by either men or women, or
All sexual behavior between two men, or
Only anal sex between two men, or
Only anal sex in a Pagan temple ritual, or
Sexual activity between two men in a woman's bed?
Also, is the behavior forbidden to ancient Israelites, or modern-day Jews, or all males regardless of their religion, or all males and females, or some combination of the preceding.

Unfortunately, there is no consensus on the meaning of this verse. Many people tend to select that interpretation that most closely reinforces their initial biases about the Bible and homosexual behavior.


English translations of this verse:

These are not a great deal of help. Bible publishers are under strong economic pressures to turn a profit. If a translation of Leviticus 18:22 were included that did not generally condemn at least male homosexual behavior, confidence in the translation would drop precipitously and their sales would drop equally fast. They are unlikely to deviate from traditional interpretations, unless they were preparing a translation specifically for Christian and Jewish liberals.

Some translations are:

ESV: (English Standard Version): "You shall not lie with a man as with a woman; it is abomination."
KJV: (King James Version): "Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind: it is abomination".
LB: (Living Bible): "Homosexuality is absolutely forbidden, for it is an enormous sin"
Net Bible: "You must not have sexual intercourse with a male as one has sexual intercourse with a woman; it is a detestable act." 1
NIV: (New International Version) "Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable."
NLT: (New Living Translation): "Do not practice homosexuality; it is a detestable sin."
RSV: (Revised Standard Version): "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination."

The LB and NLT translations use the term "homosexuality" That is unusually deceptive for three reasons:

The passage in the ancient Hebrew is clearly talking about male-male sex acts. By using the word "homosexuality," the English translation appears to condemn lesbian activity as well. The latter behavior is definitely not mentioned in the original Hebrew text of this passage. In fact, lesbian behavior is not mentioned anywhere in the Hebrew Scriptures.

The term "homosexuality" has two distinct meanings in English. Sometimes it refers to sexual behavior (what some people do; their actions). Sometimes it relates to sexual orientation (what some people are; their feelings). One reader might conclude from an English translation that homosexual orientation is criticized in the Bible; others might assume that only homosexual behavior is criticized.

The word "homosexual" was first used in the very late in 19th century CE. There was no Hebrew word that meant "homosexual." Thus, whenever the word is seen in an English translation of the Bible, one should be wary that the translators might be inserting their own prejudices into the text.



much more on this here at the source:
http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bibh.htm
(this page features 3 chapters, incredibly interesting read)
 

Bravo 21

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but that makes them equals, and equality means COMMUNISM /ridiculous level of sarcasm, no I can't think of a real reason that it is wrong.
OT:there seem to be fewer captchas now, or is that just me?
 

feauxx

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matthew_lane said:
feauxx said:
This verse is one of the famous six "clobber" passages from the Bible that is often used to condemn same-sex sexual activity.
And Captain Pickard said: "What does god need with a Starship."

Congrats on being able to quote a work of fiction (the bible).
do i get a medal?

edit

why do i get 'hate' exactly? the OP asks for reasons and this verse seems to be at the source of a great deal of the hate, so i figured a lengthy dissection of said verse would contribute to this topic.
 

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matthew_lane said:
feauxx said:
This verse is one of the famous six "clobber" passages from the Bible that is often used to condemn same-sex sexual activity.
And Captain Pickard said: "What does god need with a Starship."

Congrats on being able to quote a work of fiction (the bible).
Wasnt it Kirk that said that?
 

AgDr_ODST

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Im a Christian and I have absolutely problem with gay marriage being how the issue doesn't affect me in the least, hell if a gay couple wanted to get married in the church that I go to I atleast would have no problem with it...though my dad(discussion/argument prone as he often is) will try to talk to me about it and alot of times he'll try to come up with what ifs to get me to change my mind.
 

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Russian_Assassin said:
ImmortalDrifter said:
From a purely scientific point of view, kids should be taught that heterosexuality is the way it should work. Because it is. Nothing homophobic about it. Homosexual people shouldn't be persecuted, but ya know, future of the species and all.
I'm pretty sure that homosexuals were not taught to be homosexuals. If a child is heterosexual, that means he won't be able t get it up for another guy/gal and if he/she can, then he/she was gay all along.

Besides, there are enough straight people around to not worry about extinction.
With all the overpopulation shouldnt we be encourging homosexuals?
 

AndyFromMonday

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ImmortalDrifter said:
I'll get evidence when you do, note the use of the word some, and the fact that i never even mentioned how well they can raise a child at all. I simply stated that same sex couple raising kids could have ramifications. Before you act smug, realize that it's how well they can raise a child.
So they "could" have ramifications? Like what for e.g.? Also, what's the evidence that homosexual couples can't raise a child just as well as a straight couple?
 

hmar9333

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I've always seen it as:

Marriage is a religious tradition, most religions denounce homosexuality.

Now I'm not saying whether it's right or wrong, but I don't think it's unreasonable for a religion to deny gay marriage if that religion is agaist homosexuality.
 

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matthew_lane said:
WanderingFool said:
matthew_lane said:
feauxx said:
This verse is one of the famous six "clobber" passages from the Bible that is often used to condemn same-sex sexual activity.
And Captain Pickard said: "What does god need with a Starship."

Congrats on being able to quote a work of fiction (the bible).
Wasnt it Kirk that said that?
indeed it was. I was wondering if anyone would notice that. You get a medal...
YAY!!!

...

Oh God... I watch to much Star Trek, dont I?

*Edit* Hmm, spelling errors... looks like its time for bed...

feauxx said:
matthew_lane said:
feauxx said:
This verse is one of the famous six "clobber" passages from the Bible that is often used to condemn same-sex sexual activity.
And Captain Pickard said: "What does god need with a Starship."

Congrats on being able to quote a work of fiction (the bible).
do i get a medal?
I'm sorry i'm not your primary school teacher. We don't give out participation awards.
 

z3rostr1fe

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Some Religions, specifically Christian Religion, don't have a doctrine in how to tackle LGBT people. So... It would be right or wrong, depending on your Religion OR what the Society's stand about it.

EDIT:
Why do we need more threads about this topic? o_O
 

Brad Shepard

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I see this trend at least once a week.

on that note, look at it from the view of a young christian.

Why would God let gays on the earth if it was THAT wrong? If you want to blast me for being pro/neutral gay, then let me respond with this. VIEW IT AS A TEST YOU HOMOPHOBES! God tells us to love our brothers and sisters, no matter what. and this could be a test for all you gay bashers out there. I have friends that are gay, do i view them any differently? Nope, because that's there thing what they like, I don't care, there still my friend.
 

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Eldarion said:
Moosh50 said:
kidigus said:
(Before reading, please note that I AM in favor of gay marriage, in case you're very thick and don't get that right away)

You might hear people go on about how "Gay marriage is wrong", and "How it shoud be illegal" and so on. But I've yet to hear an objective reason for the case. They sometimes try to justify their position with "It would hurt regular marriage", but this is far fetched at best and a flat out lie at worst.

Fortunately these forums tend to be pretty open-minded on the matter, but if you happen to disagree with me, I'd very much like to hear a good, solid, factual reason to support your position.

EDIT: Lol, I finaly caught on to the error in the title X). I originally wanted it to say "would be" instead of "is" but forgot to delete the "be".
Personally I fond only one thing wrong with gay marriage.

The bible says that homo-sexuality is a sin, right? SO if we force a priest to perform a same-sex wedding, we force him/her to bless sin, and I don't think that's fair to the priest.
No one would be forcing priests to marry anyone. That doesn't make any sense.
Here in Finland, a few years ago a priest was fired because he refused to work with female priests. If gay marriage were approved by the law, priests refusing to perform them would no doubt be fired also. This in my opinion is forcing them.
 

Grahwo

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because some really homofobic man that lived 3000 years ago decided in HIS religion noone can be gay