Is there any reason to get married nowadays?

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BloatedGuppy

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A Smooth Criminal said:
There's a difference between 'majority of the world' and 'lonely cynic bastards trying to persuade themselves that they're normal on the escapist'
Bigotry is the state of mind of a bigot, defined by Merriam-Webster as "a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; especially: one who regards or treats the members of a group with hatred and intolerance". Bigotry may be based on real or perceived characteristics, including age, disability, dissension from popular opinions, economic status, ethnicity, gender identity, language, nationality, political alignment, race, region, religious or spiritual belief, sex, or sexual orientation. Bigotry is sometimes developed into an ideology or world view.

Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. described bigotry in the following quotation: "The mind of a bigot is like the pupil of the eye; the more light you pour upon it, the more it will contract.
Keep on attacking people you've never met and know next to nothing about. It reflects wonderfully on you and the institutions you value. I find it extremely unfortunate that you, and Bhaalspawn, and others who have rushed to the "defense" of marriage (against a question, no less) have done it by furiously attacking the character of anyone who dares to cast a dim eye on it, while they are merely questioning an institution, and not the people who partake of it. You might all be lovely people, I have no idea. But the way you're behaving in this thread is just good old fashioned bigotry.

The great irony here is I said back on page one that hardcore marriage advocates behaved like hateful ideologues when questioned. It was a pretty radical position to assume, based entirely on personal anecdotal experience. I fully expected a bunch of rational supporters of marriage to come into the thread and say really tolerant and wise things, and make me look like an ass. Instead, we have you and Bhaalspawn calling people names, sneering at anyone who disagrees with you, and going full ad hominem when people call attention to it. So thank you, for making my ridiculous argument sound 1000000 times more cogent than it had any right to. I recommend self-reflection and reconsidering the methods you employ when rallying to "defend" your cherished beliefs. The one you've chosen is most unfortunate. I suspect you're a better person than this kind of post makes you seem.

Or fuck, maybe you're not. What the hell do I know. But I figured I'd give you the benefit of the doubt, in much the same way I don't immediately assume those who don't share my beliefs are "lonely, cynical bastards trying to persuade themselves they're normal".
 

AngloDoom

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BloatedGuppy said:
A Smooth Criminal said:
There's a difference between 'majority of the world' and 'lonely cynic bastards trying to persuade themselves that they're normal on the escapist'
Bigotry is the state of mind of a bigot, defined by Merriam-Webster as "a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; especially: one who regards or treats the members of a group with hatred and intolerance". Bigotry may be based on real or perceived characteristics, including age, disability, dissension from popular opinions, economic status, ethnicity, gender identity, language, nationality, political alignment, race, region, religious or spiritual belief, sex, or sexual orientation. Bigotry is sometimes developed into an ideology or world view.

Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. described bigotry in the following quotation: "The mind of a bigot is like the pupil of the eye; the more light you pour upon it, the more it will contract.
Keep on attacking people you've never met and know next to nothing about. It reflects wonderfully on you and the institutions you value. I find it extremely unfortunate that you, and Bhaalspawn, and others who have rushed to the "defense" of marriage (against a question, no less) have done it by furiously attacking the character of anyone who dares to cast a dim eye on it, while they are merely questioning an institution, and not the people who partake of it. You might all be lovely people, I have no idea. But the way you're behaving in this thread is just good old fashioned bigotry.

The great irony here is I said back on page one that hardcore marriage advocates behaved like hateful ideologues when questioned. It was a pretty radical position to assume, based entirely on personal anecdotal experience. I fully expected a bunch of rational supporters of marriage to come into the thread and say really tolerant and wise things, and make me look like an ass. Instead, we have you and Bhaalspawn calling people names, sneering at anyone who disagrees with you, and going full ad hominem when people call attention to it. So thank you, for making my ridiculous argument sound 1000000 times more cogent than it had any right to. I recommend self-reflection and reconsidering the methods you employ when rallying to "defend" your cherished beliefs. The one you've chosen is most unfortunate. I suspect you're a better person than this kind of post makes you seem.

Or fuck, maybe you're not. What the hell do I know. But I figured I'd give you the benefit of the doubt, in much the same way I don't immediately assume those who don't share my beliefs are "lonely, cynical bastards trying to persuade themselves they're normal".
Well, that's summed up my thoughts on how this thread is going a lot better than I could have done.

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I don't intend to ever get married. I have no interest in having a big fancy wedding, probably no intention of ever getting into a relationship that I'd want to make permanent, and if I did get into such a relationship I wouldn't need government approval and have no interest in the religious side of things, being an atheist.

 

zelda2fanboy

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Mostly it matters if you want to have kids. If your wife dies, your in-laws are assholes, and you aren't married, your wife's family could conceivably take your kids from you. Also, if you get horribly injured and your wife isn't officially married to you, she can't see you unless your next of kin give consent. She also can't make any medical decisions on your behalf, so if you don't have any other living relatives, you could be potentially screwed over. I don't agree with either of these things, but in the US, it's just how it is right now. This type of stuff really shouldn't be tied to a religious institution like marriage. Why can't I make a contract like this with whoever I want? Why does it have to be who I'm having sex with anyway? Why do single people not get all the rights that a married couple have? It annoys me.
 

AlwaysPractical

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Mostly psychological reasons nowadays. As mentioned above, some financial benefits, but they're scarce. Really, it should be your personal prefference, it makes no real difference.