And all I'm saying is that when you're confronted with a fallacious argument you may have put forth without realizing it, accept it gracefully and move on. Don't try to justify personal attacks with a "but he/she was doing/saying this." Debate the issues, not the people.geldonyetich said:I don't think I really operate on the same level as him, really. I'm not saying that it's a bad thing, I'm just saying that the way he communicates is not the way I communicate. Consequently, I'm not even sure what you're agreeing with him about in the apparent evil badness of me.Samurai Goomba said:I also agree with you about geldonyetich.
I mean, come on, am I the only one that thinks being confronted with deliberately obscure side-comments [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/jump/7.128903.2784985] is a really weird way of conducting any kind of reasoned debate? He was doing the same thing to me back here [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/jump/7.128903.2781487], and that's when I cut him off.
Maybe some people can operate that way, but I sure won't. You want to beat around the bush? Do it on your own time. That's all I'm saying.
Claiming you can't respect someone as a person because of their stance on an issue? Stating that somebody's age is in any way related to their mental maturity and wisdom (a view which is, by the way, completely untrue, based on my experiences with some older folks I've met)? Real classy.
I don't see where Cheese was unclear. His reasoning often confuses me, but in this case I found his explanations pretty sensible. If you drive a flashy car and it gets stolen, well... You did drive a very flashy car, which may have provoked some thief, but if he steals it it's still HIS fault rather than yours. The same holds true for rape. Sexual desirability does not excuse real-life rape. I think that was his point. I'm sure if I've misinterpreted it he'll let me know. It's not such an obscure reference. The motivations behind and excuses given for rape are absolutely relevant to a discussion of the issue of rape in games.
As for the second link, conviction doesn't prove lack of moral "rightness". Or even legality. He wasn't even convicted of the correct thing (as it pertains to this topic, which is about rape in virtual media). Just because he was CONVICTED doesn't mean your point is correct-it just means he was convicted. He wasn't in the "wrong" in the sense we're talking about unless he was convicted on the basis of it being illegal to own fake depictions of rape. Which it is not. They couldn't get him for that, so they got him for something else BECAUSE they couldn't get him on that.
It's like if you try to arrest somebody for owning pot, but the country you're in has legalized pot. So you can't get him on that. But he was walking down the street late at night and kicked over a garbage can. So you get him for "disturbing the peace." See? You get him, but you don't get him on the right thing.
And Cheese is right on the money about the difference between the way a Law is intended to be used and the way it is used today in society. A lot of stupid/racist laws today are ignored or have been amended, simply because the will of the people has changed.