I love the anime style, i love it how they design monsters and characters, but the few japanese games, especially jRPGs showed me that i cant really play them because they suck.
-Long boring cutscenes every 5 minutes
-Shallow characters and motivations(most of them at least)
-Mostly linear storyline that takes the control from you every time something interesting would happen
-Frustratingly chaotic or oversimplified(or in worse cases both) turn based battles(dont get me wrong i love turn based games, but only is you have options, like: Fallout games, Jagged Alliance, HoMM series)
-And last but not least: The overly emotional and/or dramatic reactions to everything.
So i beleive there's no jRPGs for people who hate them because if they would drain all the essence of jRPGs they would be stuck with normal RPGs.