Ladies: How often do guys hit on you online?
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So you're saying StarCraft 2 does not require strategy?Generic Gamer said:
That's a terrible analogy, mainly because it seems to suggest it's just a slugfest.
Because if that's what you're saying, you're terribly ignorant.
It'd be like saying super mario is just about mashing the jump button.
I hit one anyone, jokingly. Man or female.
I regularly play with female gamers, and I dont think its that bad. The only one I know who tries for a relationship with someone they met in a game is also a woman.
I regularly play with female gamers, and I dont think its that bad. The only one I know who tries for a relationship with someone they met in a game is also a woman.
no offense but as a female you know how much easier it is to find a boyfriend rather than the vice versa? blah blah sexist crap aside it's 100x easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than a guy to get a girlfriend, and when it comes to gamer guys they'd rather find a girl they are comfortable with, a.k.a. a gamer girl, therefore they see one online why not take a shot? it's anonymous and in the off chance she says yes he has a chance at love, if not he goes back to enjoying his game, seems pretty logical to me
now i don't do that, but i'm just saying following the logical steps as a guy, i can understand it well enough as to why it happens.
now i don't do that, but i'm just saying following the logical steps as a guy, i can understand it well enough as to why it happens.
That...was oddly specific.Deshara said:
... ... ...POLICE!
Eh, you really can't make blanket statements for that. I've seen girls that've tried (and failed) to get a boyfriend. I'll be honest and say that they weren't exactly supermodels, but it isn't like some girls can just snap their fingers and BOOM, boyfriend in tow.gmaverick019 said:
On average, though...yeah, it's easier for a chick to get a dude. They've even done studies on it...not really sure why, but hey. If any girl says on a game, "I'm looking for a boyfriend!" her inbox would literally break from all of the messages she'd get. If a guy says 'I'm looking for a girlfriend!' most people will just say 'Yeah, ME TOO ASSWIPE!'
Someone else who knows the difference between tactics and strategy? Never thought I'd see the day...Generic Gamer said:
KUDOS TO YOU! Anyway, I think that at competitive levels, pretty much all RTSes become 'slugfests'. There are 1-3 builds that trump everything else, and victory depends solely on having a higher APM than the other person. Unless you feel that I'm wrong, in which case feel free to argue that point.
It happens all the time on forums, Runescape, and Xbox LIVE to me. Not literally all the time, like every comment by a Male directed at me is an attempt at flirting, but it happens often enough that I actually expect it, and am surprised when a guy wants to talk seriously abut the game, or just talk trash.
It used to be that I would mention my girlfriend, or tell them that I'm what they think I am, an eight year old boy, but now I just either mute them or mute my computer.
Even if they're actually willing to get to know me before they try to get in to a relationship with me, I get ofended at the fact that they feel entitled to flirt with me just because I'm Female. -_-
It used to be that I would mention my girlfriend, or tell them that I'm what they think I am, an eight year old boy, but now I just either mute them or mute my computer.
Even if they're actually willing to get to know me before they try to get in to a relationship with me, I get ofended at the fact that they feel entitled to flirt with me just because I'm Female. -_-
As I think has been stated before, beyond the obvious jerks, chauvinists and creeps, its a way for some guys to interact without their looks factoring into the equation.
Speaking as a guy, the idea of meeting a girl over the internet for something serious is a fantasy a lot of our gender seem to take to (no idea how prevalent it is for the other gender).
Personally I find most girl I find online are much more fun to play with without the expectation of such things. Fellow males, give it a rest for a while. If you truly are seeking a relationship, don't say so, just game and have a great time. Try being a fun gamer and see where that takes you
Speaking as a guy, the idea of meeting a girl over the internet for something serious is a fantasy a lot of our gender seem to take to (no idea how prevalent it is for the other gender).
Personally I find most girl I find online are much more fun to play with without the expectation of such things. Fellow males, give it a rest for a while. If you truly are seeking a relationship, don't say so, just game and have a great time. Try being a fun gamer and see where that takes you
I've...! Never seen it. Ever.Deshara said:
I'm not saying that you're wrong, just that it isn't something I've ever experienced. I've only ever met one girl who was fairly attractive, was looking for a relationship, was sweet as could be, and was alone. Like, not just boyfriend but no-friends-at-all alone. So because of that, I started to talk to her and we became friends. (I wasn't looking for a relationship for her, if anyone feels like accusing me of that. RAGE!)
But then after a while, she told me that she was a lesbian. I was kind of like, yeaaaaaah. That kind of explains it a bit.
ANYWHO! (Aside: I have nothing against homosexuals! I actually like gay guys! It means that there is less competition for a mate!) I forgot the point I originally wanted to make with this because I got so far off topic. Curses! Maybe I'll remember later. Probably right after I turn the computer off for the night.
Edit: REMEMBERED! I asked a girl who'd dated a string of assholes, and she said the reason was 'I hated him (Her most recent ex) so much that I couldn't get him out of my mind. So I asked him out, and he said yes.'
I was like, "And...and you thought this would lead to a working relationship? Because the entire basis of your attraction to him was that you actually hated him with a passion?"
I don't know if every girl is like that, but if so...WHY?
I'm a nice, law-abiding guy...but I am cursed to remain in the 'friend zone' for the rest of eternity. Such is the curse of nerdom.
Ha it's funny to see mostly guys responding to this, though to be fair it is the internet lol jk But I always found it creepy to flirt over the internet to some stranger. I'm a mentlegen and would never do such a thing, but then again, on XBL girls would have to talk to be hit on. They basically are non-existent on XBL for understandable reasons (being hit on) but because of that it's a sausage fest. I'm usually in a party chat anyway, but advice to girls: TALK MORE!!! If guys hit on you mute them. Not all of us are like that. I would like a change of pace from always hearing some deep voiced dudes curse over the headset at everyone for everything.
lol jk But I always found it creepy to flirt over the internet to some stranger. I'm a mentlegen and would never do such a thing, but then again, on XBL girls would have to talk to be hit on. They basically are non-existent on XBL for understandable reasons (being hit on) but because of that it's a sausage fest. I'm usually in a party chat anyway, but advice to girls: TALK MORE!!! If guys hit on you mute them. Not all of us are like that. I would like a change of pace from always hearing some deep voiced dudes curse over the headset at everyone for everything.