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[steeple]

@Steeple: They have more important things to deal with, I don't like to impose.

I'm sorry, but they really dont... I'm sure that your family has time to talk to you for, since your their freaking family...

and if your parents feel that you're imposing, then something's really messed up with them, and it has nothing to do with how interesting or not you may be to talk to (your sister might be another story, though)...

and as for Clown, well as long as he posts I'm happy, so I guess he's still feeling well enough to traumatize infants and toddlers...

 

[xmbts]

Talks with them are superficial, we don't share many interests and they work mornings while I work nights. Not very long to talk in between. Not to mention I just don't like talking about myself.

 

[steeple]

nobody's forcing you to talk about yourself. you can talk about anything you like, your not restricted to any one subject.
now if you just dont like talking with them on a basic level, that's something else...
in that case, you could talk to people outside the family, either friends or co-workers, about common interests, and I mean talking about something deeper then "it's cool, that's not so much"...

I just realized I'm not so sure what exactly it is that I'm saying, so I'll just leave it with "there's always someone out there"...

that's usually a good answer to anything that isnt "when's the pizza going to arrive"....

 

[xmbts]

That's just it I can hardly bring myself to talk about common interests with people I know. I get this overbearing sense of ridicule. I usually find it easier to just keep to myself.

 

[The Clown]

I'm.... ok I guess, got kicked off my instructor course though. And I think four is trying to beat up three, which explains the headache. Also, during next year I will be journeying round america, expect me.

 

[The Clown]

euuurrrgghh, just had a mental breakdown aboard a small dinghy, not a good place for that.

not at all...

also, I just got a trial code for minecraft until the 14, so I'll try the game and maybe I'll finally get it...

oh oh oh, want to play with me some time?

 

[xmbts]

I want to play sometime too!

Though I can't build anything...

 

[steeple]

That's just it I can hardly bring myself to talk about common interests with people I know. I get this overbearing sense of ridicule. I usually find it easier to just keep to myself.

I know the feeling... you'll just have to trust that what you're feeling is far harsher then one the one infront of you is... it gets easier with time...

I'm.... ok I guess, got kicked off my instructor course though. And I think four is trying to beat up three, which explains the headache. Also, during next year I will be journeying round america, expect me.

that does not sound good at all, actually...
first, instructor course for what? second, wasnt fourth supposed to be the quite thinker?

euuurrrgghh, just had a mental breakdown aboard a small dinghy, not a good place for that.

not at all...

also, I just got a trial code for minecraft until the 14, so I'll try the game and maybe I'll finally get it...

oh oh oh, want to play with me some time?

if the answer was anything then of course, I wouldnt have brought it up

 

[xmbts]

Oddly enough I'm going shopping with my mother on Monday.

And I know I'm not going to have the reaction I think I will it's just years of conditioning are hard to break.

 

[steeple]

Oddly enough I'm going shopping with my mother on Monday.

And I know I'm not going to have the reaction I think I will it's just years of conditioning are hard to break.

I know, I know, but you do realize this is something you want to change, dont you?
if it would have been easy, life would have been much better for all of us, but sometimes nature isnt designed to fit the society we live in...

 

[xmbts]

I know all that trust me. I really don't know if I want to change though. It just means less people being concerned for me.

 

[steeple]

here's a question: do you want to be able to talk to people more then you currently do, and have no fear of letting your thoughts flow from your mind somewhere else, instead of being trapped there?

anyway, it's late... I'll catch up with you all in the morning...

 

[xmbts]

Trust me if my thoughts flowed it wouldn't do me too many favors, I prefer to get to know people first.

 

[steeple]

understandable, but saying what's on your mind helps you in knowing people better, so maybe you should think of doing it gradually...
would be better then not talking at all, wouldnt it?

 

[The Clown]

I'm currently experimenting with playing on a large PvP server on minecraft, large ongoing wars, factions, chaos. I like it so far, or if you want to just build stuff I have my own server.

 

[xmbts]

understandable, but saying what's on your mind helps you in knowing people better, so maybe you should think of doing it gradually...
would be better then not talking at all, wouldnt it?

That's what I do right now pretty much. Just not with people who don't care too much to hear it.

Incidentally I'm going clothes shopping with my mother soon, promises to be very uncomfortable...

I'm currently experimenting with playing on a large PvP server on minecraft, large ongoing wars, factions, chaos. I like it so far, or if you want to just build stuff I have my own server.

Sounds interesting...I'd suck at both.

 

[steeple]

That's what I do right now pretty much. Just not with people who don't care too much to hear it.

Incidentally I'm going clothes shopping with my mother soon, promises to be very uncomfortable...

thing is, maybe you just have a wrong idea of who cares and who doesnt, at least from what I gathered so far...

and yes, you will not like it one bit... god I hate shopping (not groceries, just the less important stuff like cloths...)

I'm currently experimenting with playing on a large PvP server on minecraft, large ongoing wars, factions, chaos. I like it so far, or if you want to just build stuff I have my own server.

I'm not sure...
thing is, I tried playing today and almost got my ass ripped, so I doubt I'll be much of a fight against someone who played more then 40 minutes...

but just building shit works too, as long as you'll give me some time to learn how to do it first...

 

[xmbts]

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Eh, I think I have a pretty good idea...I do study people afterall.

And I don't mind the shopping it's the forced conversation.

 

[steeple]

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Eh, I think I have a pretty good idea...I do study people afterall.

And I don't mind the shopping it's the forced conversation.

if you say so, I have no possibility other then agree...

also, it seems like we are talking from two seperate minds, because if you dont mind shopping then I will have no choice but to view you as a mad-man...

I'm sorry, but it's the rules...

 

[xmbts]

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Eh, I think I have a pretty good idea...I do study people afterall.

And I don't mind the shopping it's the forced conversation.

if you say so, I have no possibility other then agree...

also, it seems like we are talking from two seperate minds, because if you dont mind shopping then I will have no choice but to view you as a mad-man...

I'm sorry, but it's the rules...

Hehe, I can deal with that...