oldtaku said:
Marriage is for stability, which is anathema for a comic book. It's a cheap gimmick up there with 'The Death Of'.
The wedding always ends up being this stupid spectacle issue with everyone happy and crying and even the villains showing up to play nice when you know it's all going to end horribly later. Until the breakup, plots are constrained because marriage makes things staid and boring - that's what it's /supposed/ to do. Old heroes are sometimes allowed to get married and mostly stay happily married, like Reed and Sue Richards once Namor got over his thing for her, but writers can't resist f@#$ing with that at some point either.
I'm sure the writers really cared for the character, but it sounds like DC was trying to keep them from fanficing her. Lesbian or not, it's a bad idea.
It's really not a bad idea, saying that a marriage makes a relationship or a person stable is ridiculous, you can have good stories and good drama with a characters marriage, just as you can end up breaking off the marriage (if one of the characters die for example). I never understood the thought of not wanting to have characters get married, you could get the same thing if the characters were romantically involved, and weren't ever going to cheat on one another.
Your comment reminds me of the One More Day thing with Spider Man, where the Joe Quesada believed that married people can't have drama, something anybody with married parents or who is married themselves can tell you is bullshit.
It's not a fanfic if it's done by the writers of the book, and has been planned, built up, then executed, by your logic, every character change would be a fanfic (despite not being done by the fans).
Personally I think they (DC) were just worried that if they establish too much regarding a character, they'll have less they can change around however they want later, not to mention the fan backlash when they inevitably do that anyway will be slightly lessened.