BMI alone considered I was obese a while back, and while I was ugly as hell I was fully functional, at least in a day to day sense. What you're describing is, perhaps cruelly, known to science as "morbid obesity". Never was at that mark.Pink Gregory said:I'm not sure about anyone else, but to me obesity means something close to 'so overweight that the person has serious difficulty functioning'.
I don't think having difficulty functioning can be any source of pride.
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Obesity isn't healthy, and there should be a stigma against it (unless your BMI is useless due to large amount of muscle mass, which was certainly not my problem). While scientifically it is best described as a disease, statistics show that just telling an obese person that obesity is a disease and not something they are doing wrong, they will be less likely to lose weight.
On the other hand, stigma can go from being against obesity to being against obese people real quick, and that I don't support. I've lost a lot of weight, so I'm healthier in that way, and I think it's good to encourage people to be healthy. At the same time though, I still smoke a pack a day and I have no intent to quit. Why did I drop weight and not quit smoking? Where I live there is little to no social stigma regarding smoking, whereas there is a lot of stigma surrounding obesity, but not really any dislike directed at obese people. I had incentive to change and did not have a hostile environment, and I think that's a combination a lot of people need to change themselves.
To put what I'm getting at more simply, societal norm should encourage healthy behavior and promote a sense of the ability for self-improvent while not reminiscing adults who do unhealthy things because they personally view the benefit as greater than the detriment. It's a balancing act for sure, but ultimately neither no stigma nor intense stigma seems like it would be useful.