lying and girls

[Quantana]

ok fellow escapist, i met a girl last Saturday and i thought it was going to be a one night stand and told her i was 19 ( i'm 17 ). but now i'm really starting to like her!!! what should i do? do i tell her right away i'm not really 19 or do i wait
P.S. she is 23

 

[xmbts]

I'd tell her your age right away, I don't think she would appreciate you keeping that from her.

 

[Quantana]

yeah but she looked so much younger when i met her end now she already thinks i'm to young for her !!! and she still thinks i'm 19!!!!

 

[Antonidious]

ok fellow escapist, i met a girl last Saturday and i thought it was going to be a one night stand and told her i was 19 ( i'm 17 ). but now i'm really starting to like her!!! what should i do? do i tell her right away i'm not really 19 or do i wait
P.S. she is 23

Just tell her, starting a relationship on a lie NEVER works. You still fall in the range of half + 7 so as long as she follows that rule you'll be fine.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

Spill the beans, tell her you're really seventeen. Be sure to tell her that you feel awful for not telling her earlier.

 

[Quantana]

ok fellow escapist, i met a girl last Saturday and i thought it was going to be a one night stand and told her i was 19 ( i'm 17 ). but now i'm really starting to like her!!! what should i do? do i tell her right away i'm not really 19 or do i wait
P.S. she is 23

Just tell her, starting a relationship on a lie NEVER works. You still fall in the range of half + 7 so as long as she follows that rule you'll be fine.

i guess you'r right i'l remind her of that rule later on i'm trusting you guy's because you have never failed me
thanks a lot

 

[Picosaurus]

Yeah

then its not meant to be, you win some you lose some mate.

I agree, ur better just taking the hit and moving on if the age gap is a problem.

 

[Quantana]

but does anyone have some advice on how to tell her that???

 

[LiberalSquirrel]

Definitely tell her. I'm with her in the "not liking my guys to be much younger than me" department- but if she really likes you, she'll make an exception. If not, then it wasn't made to be. Simple as that.

Try to work up to telling her, obviously. Don't just blurt it out, because that'll make it much more awkward, and it'll be more difficult to talk to her about it. But definitely tell her the next time you see her.

 

[Quantana]

"There's something I think you should know. I'm actually 17."

Text, in person, whatever. She might very well run away screaming 'Jailbait!' at you.

yeah that sounds awesome...... i think i should do that in person, to explain my self further. but i need some help finding a good story to tell her why i did it (the real reason was that she is hot and i was drunk)

 

[Hosker]

Just give it a couple of years and you'll be fine.

 

[TehCookie]

"There's something I think you should know. I'm actually 17."

Text, in person, whatever. She might very well run away screaming 'Jailbait!' at you.

yeah that sounds awesome...... i think i should do that in person, to explain my self further. but i need some help finding a good story to tell her why i did it (the real reason was that she is hot and i was drunk)

You want more lies to cover up a lie? This won't end well...

 

[Quantana]

"There's something I think you should know. I'm actually 17."

Text, in person, whatever. She might very well run away screaming 'Jailbait!' at you.

yeah that sounds awesome...... i think i should do that in person, to explain my self further. but i need some help finding a good story to tell her why i did it (the real reason was that she is hot and i was drunk)

You want more lies to cover up a lie? This won't end well...

ok i guess you're right but making a story more beautiful then i really is isn't really lying is it ???? i mean nothing but the best i just want this to work out.

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

THis is why you dont lie about your age in these moments. Just be glad you got a one night stand out of it, im up to a year dry and im 20.

 

[Hellz_Barz]

"There's something I think you should know. I'm actually 17."

Text, in person, whatever. She might very well run away screaming 'Jailbait!' at you.

yeah that sounds awesome...... i think i should do that in person, to explain my self further. but i need some help finding a good story to tell her why i did it (the real reason was that she is hot and i was drunk)

Perhaps you should replace hot with beautiful and really sweet. I would cut out the the drunk part though, she might not be impressed that it's half the reasoning.