man 'exposed' on face book, double standards?

[ThreeWords]

A) Did he deserve it?
2) What would you do?
C) Is his point about 'if this was the other way around it would be a big deal' valid?

1)No, not at all

2)No. I myself am a helpless flirt, but anyone who knows me knows I do not do so seriously, and my girlfriend is kind enough to turn a blind eye. In her place, I would do the same

3)Yes, very much so. Political correctness and feminism, while good ideas at heart, have gone too far and now have too much influence.
Case in point:

LOL

Lesson learned boys, lesson learned

If it had been a man handcuffing a woman, then posting naked pictures of her, and another man approved like our friend Janet is here, they would be literally torn apart. How can it be fair that it not be the reverse?

Also, this is an excellent point:
What the woman did was illegal.

The charges being brought against the woman are

False Imprisonment and Female on Male Domestic Assault which is apparently a charge in this state.

Could she also be sued for slander/libel?

 

[awesomebillfromdawsonville]

Fuck it. Do the same shit to her one night and see if she likes it.

 

[JanatUrlich]

If it had been a man handcuffing a woman, then posting naked pictures of her, and another man approved like our friend Janet is here, they would be literally torn apart. How can it be fair that it not be the reverse?

Also, this is an excellent point:
What the woman did was illegal.

Well yeah, but he'll never flirt with another woman again will he? ;D

And my name isn't Janet D=

 

[lazy_bum]

If it had been a man handcuffing a woman, then posting naked pictures of her, and another man approved like our friend Janet is here, they would be literally torn apart. How can it be fair that it not be the reverse?

Also, this is an excellent point:
What the woman did was illegal.

Well yeah, but he'll never flirt with another woman again will he? ;D

And my name isn't Janet D=

ThreeWords has a point though. If the roles were reversed there would be so much more uproar and i bet you would be up in arms about her rights being violated. Feminism has gone too far in some places.

 

[JanatUrlich]

ThreeWords has a point though. If the roles were reversed there would be so much more uproar and i bet you would be up in arms about her rights being violated. Feminism has gone too far in some places.

I'm not condoning her actions, just saying that he's learned his lesson.

And trust me, I am definitely not a die hard feminist, but don't ever say that feminism has gone too far. The crazy man-hating 'feminists' are not feminists, they're psychos. Real feminists stand for men and women being equal which is a target that has definitely not been reached yet.

 

[Doug]

A) For flirting/cheating? No. If he was beating her, then yeah.
B) About beginning handcuffed or if my (non-existant) girlfriend was flirting with guys/cheating on me? For the handcuffed thing, sue her and report her to the police for false imprisionment.
C) What do you mean? Surely this is a big deal? I mean, I would think the media would probably go more apeshit about a guy chaining a woman to his bed, but thats just cause their a bias lot.

ThreeWords has a point though. If the roles were reversed there would be so much more uproar and i bet you would be up in arms about her rights being violated. Feminism has gone too far in some places.

I'm not condoning her actions, just saying that he's learned his lesson.

And trust me, I am definitely not a die hard feminist, but don't ever say that feminism has gone too far. The crazy man-hating 'feminists' are not feminists, they're psychos. Real feminists stand for men and women being equal which is a target that has definitely not been reached yet.

So, if his girlfriend fucked another guy, you'd be happy with him handcuffing her down naked and putting naked photos of her on the internet?

Edit: I mean, given she'd 'learn her lesson'.

 

[JanatUrlich]

So, if his girlfriend fucked another guy, you'd be happy with him handcuffing her down naked and putting naked photos of her on the internet?

Edit: I mean, given she'd 'learn her lesson'.

Dude, I just said I didn't condone her actions. Read thoroughly before you kick off. I never said I was fine with it in the first place.

 

[Rex Legends]

ThreeWords has a point though. If the roles were reversed there would be so much more uproar and i bet you would be up in arms about her rights being violated. Feminism has gone too far in some places.

I'm not condoning her actions, just saying that he's learned his lesson.

And trust me, I am definitely not a die hard feminist, but don't ever say that feminism has gone too far. The crazy man-hating 'feminists' are not feminists, they're psychos. Real feminists stand for men and women being equal which is a target that has definitely not been reached yet.

It's sentences like that that renew my faith in your sex.
Unfortunately it's the psychos that are given the most publicity, which is why when I here feminism brought it to something I think, "here we go."
Which is terrible, as it's a perfectly legitimate point.
But I have to say, this this woman was way out of line, should be prosecuted, simple as really.

 

[Doug]

So, if his girlfriend fucked another guy, you'd be happy with him handcuffing her down naked and putting naked photos of her on the internet?

Edit: I mean, given she'd 'learn her lesson'.

Dude, I just said I didn't condone her actions. Read thoroughly before you kick off. I never said I was fine with it in the first place.

I'm sorry, but saying "I don't condon what she did" immendiately followed by "But he sure learned his lesson" doesn't seem very convincing to me.

 

[Aesir23]

3imean C) yes it is very valid! feminism has gone too far.

I agree completely. Is it odd that I'm a girl but I hate feminism? Or radical feminism at least?

 

[JanatUrlich]

I'm sorry, but saying "I don't condon what she did" immendiately followed by "But he sure learned his lesson" doesn't seem very convincing to me.

Well it's not like she was unprovoked and I'm simply stating a fact. Next time he'll think twice before being a dickhead.

 

[iron codpiece]

Here's some fun information!

His occupation? He is a corrections officer and the head of their 'african americans corrections officer' union. He also runs a service that provides strippers for parties.

LOL
Lesson learned boys, lesson learned

I for one realize you're kidding.

 

[Something Amyss]

He did not deserve it, and this woman should be locked away for slandering his name to the whole world via the internet. What would I do, if I was the woman? Leave him. But, she took it a step too far. What a disgusting display of jealousy.

Jail is ridiculously too far for this sort of stuff. Even if the same would be levied on him were the tables turned, that doesn't make it any less ridiculous (On either end). Hell, this strikes me as a bad sitcom plot more than "news."

 

[Slash Dementia]

Sounds like one psycho girl.

A.) No, he didn't deserve it. He was just flirting.
B.) If I was him, or if I was the ex? If I were him, I would press charges on her.
C.) It's very valid. If he did that to her, he would be in jail.

 

[skyfire_freckles]

So, if his girlfriend fucked another guy, you'd be happy with him handcuffing her down naked and putting naked photos of her on the internet?

Edit: I mean, given she'd 'learn her lesson'.

Dude, I just said I didn't condone her actions. Read thoroughly before you kick off. I never said I was fine with it in the first place.

I'm sorry, but saying "I don't condon what she did" immendiately followed by "But he sure learned his lesson" doesn't seem very convincing to me.

This is a funny arguement. What lesson do you think he learned? Don't let a woman handcuff you to the bed? Don't flirt on the internet? Don't date psycho bitches?

In his shoes (or...lack of shoes...heh) I think I would learn a lesson. Just not the particular lesson intended.

 

[Doug]

I'm sorry, but saying "I don't condon what she did" immendiately followed by "But he sure learned his lesson" doesn't seem very convincing to me.

Well it's not like she was unprovoked and I'm simply stating a fact. Next time he'll think twice before being a dickhead.

Ok, granted, this is probably the mostly likely scenario, but you aren't even giving the possiblity the girlfriend is a pyschopath a chance.

If we take a scenario where, really, this girl is fucking insane and controlling, the guy might be trying to get out of relationship - admittedly, this wouldn't be the smartist way, but who ever said people were smart 100% of the time.

Now, granted, I strongly suspect he is a weasel of a man who can't keep his dick in his trousers, but just assuming this is the case isn't fair. I for one have had a crazy ex-girlfriend who, despite the fact we've not physicallyseen either in over 6 years, and only really contacts me when she needs help with computer problems, still says I'm her boyfriend. I'm just saying the automatic bias here is to assume the girlfriend just took revenge alittle too far, when she could be an outright pyscho using this to humilate and try to control him.

I dunno, I was probably reading too much into your initial statement...

 

[skyfire_freckles]

A) Nope
2) Do the exact same thing but post it along with her home address and phone number on 4chan.
C) Damn skippy. Bitches want equality but want to be more than equal. He should beat the shit out of her.

Can anyone think of any other double standards without getting crazy go nuts?

I used to work at a bar. So yes. Guy and girl get drunk. The fuck. In the morning girl screams rape even though they were both drunk and in some cases she fucking initiated it!
Or when a fat ugly girl is sober and picks up a way too drunk but attractive man. Suddenly its not rape because he is a guy so in chicks minds arousal = consent. Guy pulls that shit and gets locked up.

While I can see where you're comming from, I must point out that any kind of male-female sex, consentual or not, is impossible without male arousal. He's got to "want" it, at least from a certain perspective. No such thing is true of women.

Men are taught to sort of suck it up, though, if you savvy the metaphor. Be tough. Sex is sex, even with some fat ugly chick, whereas women are supposed to be on the defensive. No, it's not right. But if we all respected each other, none of this would be a problem in the first place.

 

[TheNumber1Zero]

Ichi( Not really
Dos( A little depression maybe
1+4-2( Yes

 

[CloudKiller]

Yeah there's a definate case of double standards here. Why assault of this kind on a man should be treated differently than it would be if a was a women is a blatant case of inequality between the sexes, isn't that supposed to be a bad thing?