ME3 lovers/haters, can we please reach an understanding?

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NinjaDeathSlap

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Oh dear, that would require a dissemination almost sentence by sentence, but a few things...
First of all, I actually want to thank you for responding in a reasonable way, pointing out the parts of my statement you had issue with with clarity. (You could have been a little less aggressive about it originally, especially since your major issue seems to be that the language I was using was too inflammatory, but I digress...)

That's a very bad way to start any constructive conversation on anything, decrying people of "bitching" will get you very strong emotional responses in return (or calls of agreement), observe here [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/7.325816-I-Am-Alive-Producer-Dismisses-Bitching-PC-Gamers]
To clarify, I'm not accusing everyone who is not psyched for ME3 of bitching, I am accusing the people who actually are bitching, of bitching. It may be harsh (I was a little pissed off granted) but since I refer to the other side of the argument in equal terms later on I wouldn't say that I was being unfair.



Again, my grumpy demeanor may have got in the way of what I was actually trying to say.

What I really meant by 'jack shit' was 'does not necessarily tell you anything concrete about the quality of the finished product', but that would have been too long for a pithy sub-title. I have my peeves about game marketing too, particularly where EA is involved. However, No amount of shitty marketing will ever serve as any kind of 'proof' that the game in question will suck; and the amount of people who try to claim otherwise, and will act like the sky is falling over every little thing do annoy me.

Just like above, I am not calling everyone who has taken issue with ME3 a 'douchbag', 'elitist' or a 'jerk'; only the people who are guilty of such behaviour.

Maybe we just have different experiences, but I have seen a lot of people take their frustration out on other gamers who they perceive as having 'stolen' the franchise away from them, and some of it was very mean-spirited. The deeper motivations as to why they chose to do so don't concern the thread. I didn't want to get into yet another argument about differing opinions, rather about behaviour. Their behaviour was appalling, so I was calling them out on it.

This is presented somewhat better, I think you're just missing the argument somewhat as it goes, a large number of people don't think that the same people that did Dragon Age 2 are making Mass Effect 3 (at least I hope so), but that EAs influence upon both in a budgetary and managerial direction might show in how they direct the project, trying to finish it in a smaller time span, implementing "buzz" features instead of polishing the rest all the while marketing DLC and the likes.
I can't really take issue with this. EA's business model is crap, I'll be the first to say that. However, despite this it seems a large fraction of my favorite games have actually been published by EA, so I always try not to let their rather crude approach prematurely colour my expectations of any finished product. It just bugs me when people use the logic that 'I did not enjoy DA2, therefore ME3 will inevitably suck balls', which is just not true, at all.

I actually agree with that, but again it's all in the phrasing and saying people "liked bullshit" etc.
I'm glad we agree on some things at least, and you're right, maybe I worded that a little unfairly. It just seemed to fit into the sentence better that way. Believe me when I say I meant no offense.

Oh dear, I'd rather not touch that one :p That would surely not "antagonize" anyone with issues to bring up as you put it.
I honestly don't think that what I said here was unfair. Obviously it only applies to people who do it, but the fact is that Bioware have been on the receiving end of a lot of bile lately, and in my opinion must of it is ridiculously exaggerated, not to mention that it doesn't actually help produce a better product. You can see how, from a developers point of view, this could lead to becoming bitter at the fan base, which could lead them to seek out other groups of people to impress, don't you?

This makes your stance on the point of what you think about RPG players rather too obvious, trying to pack it in some kind of semblance of an argument doesn't hide it.
Again it breeds hostility the same way "CoDtard" would, although you put that in apostrophes.
Again, I meant no disrespect. I perhaps should have changed 'the ones' to 'the few' in order to better get across my intentions. Fact is, some people like that sort of thing. I'm not judging them, all power to them in fact. It was another case of referring to them in the same context I had before fitting better into the sentence. In the context of the sentence I was actually defending them.

In this last point you especially use the term "they" and "you", trying to splinter everyone into two groups e.g. "we" against "them" instead of people having a different opinion, for instance I also love Mass Effect 2, while I dislike Dragon Age 2. Also throughout you're usually only dealing with one side of the arguments, the "we" side and never give any way to try to understand "them".
I don't see what's so antagonistic about this part. People who like a game and people who don't are different groups. My point was, why is that a problem? Even though people will inevitably disagree and argue, why must we descend this particular argument into defensive, childish bickering. I in no way implied that it was 'us against them'. I just didn't. The last part of your statement here is also incorrect. I said on more than one occasion that plenty of the reasons fro disliking certain games/having doubts about future games, are entirely legitimate and that people have every right to hold them. I didn't dwell on it because, once again, the focus of this thread is not about people differing opinions, but rather the way they choose to behave to people who hold different opinions. I also can't go into depth about why people act the way they do, because I am not a mind reader. What people think and why is their business, and if I don't share their sentiments I don't assume that I can properly analyse them. When people start to act like twats about what they think, whether I agree with what they think or not, then I call them out on it.

Summed up, you're not very good/successful at presenting a "neutral" argument on the matter.
I can't be utterly neutral, nobody can. Everyone has their own opinions and biases. However, that doesn't change that I called out the behaviour of people on both sides of the divide, regardless of what side of it I am on, and I think my points were legitimate, for the most part, although perhaps I let my frustration cloud my presentation somewhat. I hope my responses have at least cleared some of that up.
 

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Ha, Like I'll even be coming onto the Escapist after the first two months of the game's release.

All there's going to be are threads praising the game out of the ass, bitching about petty thing or glitches, or bitching at one of the people who made one of the previous mentioned threads that their opinion is "wrong."

It'll be just like Skyrim, but probably moreso, since Skyrim's threads were mostly on the glitches and gameplay rather than the story, which is what Mass Effect 3 will be judged on the most harshly.
 

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xXxJessicaxXx said:
It confuses me that people have such strong emotions about it before it even comes out. :/ It might be completely awesome for all they know or completely terrible.

Why don't we save the epic debates until when we can actually have a POV about it.
Because someone always ones to be the Hip cool edgy person to say, "I like/hated X before it was cool"

Its all about trying to form a persona, based around the views of others.

The more vocal one is about a viewpoint, and the more people that get to see that viewpoint, the more they fell they will garner attention from other like minded individuals and form a hierarchy with the atop of it.

Its something that happens quite often in human society, we ***** not because we like bitching (although we do), we do it so we can have a greater social standing.
 

boag

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Smeggs said:
Ha, Like I'll even be coming onto the Escapist after the first two months of the game's release.

All there's going to be are threads praising the game out of the ass, bitching about petty thing or glitches, or bitching at one of the people who made one of the previous mentioned threads that their opinion is "wrong."

It'll be just like Skyrim, but probably moreso, since Skyrim's threads were mostly on the glitches and gameplay rather than the story, which is what Mass Effect 3 will be judged on the most harshly.
Dont forget about the MEME bandwagon, when the new catch phrase gets used more than the town bicycle.
 

putowtin

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1: New game (generally a AAA title, that has had 12 months of build up) is due to be released in 4 weeks.

2: People start making threads about how amazing/crap said game will be.

3: Other people start making threads about how the first thread was wrong and how the game will be crap/amazing.

4: Other other people start making threads about how the other threads are silly and that we should all just get along.

5: Trolls troll, sarcastic people are sarcastic, fans say it's great, non fans say it's crap,

6: Everyone forgets about the threads and arguments a month after the game is released, and discuss the inevitable meme (for Boag).

7: New game (generally a AAA title, that has had 12 months of build up) is due to be released in 4 weeks, the circle is now complete.
 

boag

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putowtin said:
1: New game (generally a AAA title, that has had 12 months of build up) is due to be released in 4 weeks.

2: People start making threads about how amazing/crap said game will be.

3: Other people start making threads about how the first thread was wrong and how the game will be crap/amazing.

4: Other other people start making threads about how the other threads are silly and that we should all just get along.

5: Trolls troll, sarcastic people are sarcastic, fans say it's great, non fans say it's crap,

6: Everyone forgets about the threads and arguments a month after the game is released.

7: New game (generally a AAA title, that has had 12 months of build up) is due to be released in 4 weeks, the circle is now complete.


thats a pretty accurate description, please also add the "meme derived from AAA run into the ground" option in there somewhere.
 

TD_Knight

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putowtin said:
1: New game (generally a AAA title, that has had 12 months of build up) is due to be released in 4 weeks.

2: People start making threads about how amazing/crap said game will be.

3: Other people start making threads about how the first thread was wrong and how the game will be crap/amazing.

4: Other other people start making threads about how the other threads are silly and that we should all just get along.

5: Trolls troll, sarcastic people are sarcastic, fans say it's great, non fans say it's crap,

6: Everyone forgets about the threads and arguments a month after the game is released, and discuss the inevitable meme (for Boag).

7: New game (generally a AAA title, that has had 12 months of build up) is due to be released in 4 weeks, the circle is now complete.
I wonder how much arguing is going to happen when RE6 lurches closer to release date :p
 

TheSteeleStrap

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Hmmm... I assumed we were going to wait for it to come out so people could actually play it before we went on a lover/hater crusade.
 

Clive Howlitzer

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All my complaints are leveled at EA and Origin, not Mass Effect 3. In the end though, why do we have to come to an understanding anyway? If people dislike the game, let them. If you like the game, great!
All my hate is almost always leveled at publisher level bullshit, not developer level. I happened to like Dragon Age 2 and Mass Effect 2 about the same as the first games. I just hate all the corporate bullshit leaking into my games.
 

Gabanuka

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Here's an idea for everyone in this thread. Get an opinion after you play the fucking game. If you aren't buying said game for some reason then there's no point in bitching since it doesn't affect you.

Those who don't play cannot have an opinion on it those who have can say all they bloody well want.

Happy? Didn't think so.
 

Telperion

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My main problems with ME2/3/etc. in short:

1) Origin. I don't condone spyware.

2) Lack of story beyond ME1. Great start, boring sequel. The third game's plot is looking very predictable like it was with Halo. It's fine for most developers, but Bioware has always made a big deal about their story writing skills. So, what might be "okay" for others is just "mediocre" for them. Hey, not my fault for raising expectations only to fall short of them.

3) Lack of technical innovation beyond ME1. ME2 is a bit shinier, but a lot more streamlined. Bioware made a lot noise about features that were supposed to be in ME1, and then forgot about them for a more streamlined and story-oriented experience. What exactly happened to ME2's story, though? It's so bland, if you can see beyond the pretty lights and things that go bang. This reminds me of the difference between Diablo 1 and 2: the first game felt tense and scary. The second one vastly improved on game mechanics and graphics, but lost a lot of atmosphere.

4) Cutting fat where there was very little cut in the first place. I like RPG elements in my CRPGs. Okay, so the inventory was crap, but I mainly used it to change between Tungsten and Incendiary ammo depending on the scenario. Not that big of a hassle.
 

HHammond

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*clap clap clap*

Well said! I wish people could just leave each other alone instead of constantly bitching about how much they dislike a game. Final Fantasy has this problem as well. So you don't like it? Great! Go play something else. So you do like it? Good for you! Don't get all pissy with anyone who doesn't like it!
 

Sarge034

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boag said:
Dont forget about the MEME bandwagon, when the new catch phrase gets used more than the town bicycle.
You know, I used to ride the town bicycle..... and then I took an arrow in the spokes.

I'm sorry, but it was too easy. I don't understand why people get sooo mad over these new memes. Even if they are overused all you do is propagate them when you rage.

0.32 to the end is the relevant portion.

You may counter-meme me if you feel it is necessary. Any meme, any meme at all.

I am prepared for the worst...

OT- Aaaannnyyy way instead of hating on the game for things we only know next to nothing about why don't we hate on it for things we do know. I for one despise the plot holes that have been appearing in both ME and DA. It detracts from the importance of my decisions if Bioware is just going to decide to "one size fits all" the plot holes.

It makes me sad. : ? (
 

aaronobst

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Man all I know is I loved the last two so chances are I'm gonna dig this one also. Screw the haters
 

Beryl77

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Fans will never reach an understanding. They are just too many and they're too different. If someone likes something, someone else will dislike it and then complain about it. They won't just accept it, just like you complain about the complainers and don't simply accept it that people will always complain.
Take for example the trailers. The trailers for ME2 contained more information about the story that the trailers for ME3. What did people do? They obviously complained about the spoilers. Now there are nearly only action scenes in the trailers and people complain again.

No offense but to me, this thread is just the same as the threads who ***** about ME3. You do basically the same but that's fine, it's what forums are made for. You can say what you don't like and then people have discussions about it. I don't see the problem with the complaints, it's Bioware who has to handle them, not us and they know that whatever they'll do, people will complain.