More tedious relationship help?

[alerriixx]

Soo, I've just broke up with my girlfriend of the past 3 years, I'm only 16 and have spent my entire teenage life with her, I don't really know what to do, so I'm asking for advice.

On top of this mess I also like one of her close friends, and don't know what to do. Any advice appreciated, good or bad?

 

[the Dept of Science]

Go fuckin nuts.

Seriously. The more fun the better.

 

[hyperhammy]

I agree with the Dept of Sciece.
You are in your prime time! Go fucking nuts!
Ask out her best friend, heck... ask out her mother!

 

[JoJo]

Don't feel pressured to get a new girlfriend straight away, have some time to yourself

(Plus you might end up missing your old gf and want to get back with her so it's best not to tie yourself to another too quickly!)

 

[The_Healer]

What do you mean "you don't know what to do"?

You don't have to do anything.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

There's nothing you SHOULD be doing. Get over it and either find a new girl or don't. You're 16, you've got time.

 

[open trap]

Go for her friend if you think you have a chance.

 

[GreyFire]

Your 16 do what what the hell you want too. Play it cool and be yaself, she will come around maybe, if not sure one some will see you playing it cool and ull hit it off.

 

[randomsix]

You ought to spend some time single just so you get some experience with that state of affairs when you have the leisure to figure these things out.

 

[Brutal Peanut]

Being in a relationship can have it's moments, but don't think being single is at all a burden or something to be sad about. It can actually be quite the relief.

You are sixteen, enjoy getting to know yourself better! Go to movies, go to parties, hang out with your buddies more and play multiplayer, go on regular dates without labeling them on as GF's so quickly, blah blah blah. There will be plenty time in the future to have another 'relationship'.

For now have some fun, and be safe!

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Get really, really pissed? That's what I was doing when I was 15.

 

[BENZOOKA]

A teenager asking what to do after a break-up, no offense but you got the topic spot on with the 'tedious'.

From your status report it sounds very much like you don't have any kind of a shot with her friend. That's all I can say.

 

[Phlakes]

Soo, I've just broke up with my girlfriend of the past 3 years, I'm only 16 and have spent my entire teenage life with her, I don't really know what to do, so I'm asking for advice.

On top of this mess I also like one of her close friends, and don't know what to do. Any advice appreciated, good or bad?

The exact same thing happened to me. Just be appreciative of the time you had with each other and take what you learned from it, then don't miss any opportunities with other girls. You don't want to end up like me.

 

[SwagLordYoloson]

stay in school ? don't do drugs ? is the advice you were asking for ?

 

[Thaius]

Ignore the first two posts. Seriously, you'll regret it if you follow their advice.

Take some time. Going straight from a long-term relationship into another relationship indicates and creates a dependency, something you definitely don't want. You need to be able to stand on your own before you can hope to stand with someone else in a romantic, committed way. Make sure you're ready for another relationship before entering one.

Beyond that, do not even think of getting involved with someone unless you will take the relationship seriously. Dating is meant to be a time of testing, when you get to know someone in a romantic setting and decide whether a permanent relationship (marriage) is possible. Don't play with people's hearts, and don't screw with yours. Wait until a girl comes along that you could see yourself spending your entire life with, and pursue her with all your energy.

 

[Mozza444]

Stay single for a while, your 16 no point in getting tied down now.

Get drunk, do whatever the hell you like.

 

[Nifty]

Soo, I've just broke up with my girlfriend of the past 3 years, I'm only 16 and have spent my entire teenage life with her, I don't really know what to do, so I'm asking for advice.

On top of this mess I also like one of her close friends, and don't know what to do. Any advice appreciated, good or bad?

Good news; you're only 16 - get over it. Bad news; forget scoring with her friend.

 

[derdeutschmachine]

screw anything and everything in sight, be glad your still young and have options as opposed to older and lame like myself. Seriously, at 16 you've got lot's of options, don't tie yourself down until you're at least 21. I made the mistake of trusting the girl I spent my teens with and you know what happened? she cheated on my ass and left me...
The best advice I can give is to have fun and live as freely as you can. I turned down waaaay too much puss in my prime, I'd hate to see someone else make the same mistakes I made.