What do you find to be the most offensive word? (or phrase) As a guy i really can't think of anything specific. But if I was a girl I'd easily say ****. It may just mean vagina or what ever form you want of it but it just feels so rude and demeaning. I once called a girl that because I was incredibly angry at her and even after I apologized about calling her it she didn't talk to me for 3 days.