i don't really get offended at words
you say 'fuck' and nothing actually happens
it doesn't really MEAN anything
it's just langauge, just noise we've attatched meaning to
but as for phrases
i do kinda feel offended when Britain (or usually England seeing as every country hates us after we invaded everything we saw) gets slagged off and unfairly critised
If someone says: 'The Brits are all obsessed with tea!'
i'd say fair enough, we do like tea, though maybe obsessed is going a bit far
but to say our dental hygiene is terrible, we're sexually repressed and ugly, that's going too far and does twang a part of me which feels offended
but admittedly that part doesn't get twanged often ... sadly
but thats different from swearing, that's a deliberate personal attack, the language isn't important, it's the message of what they're saying