Movie violence and mom's....*sigh*

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If I were you, I'd lay off the steroids/caffeine and try to have an intelligent conversation with my mother about violence, and after that take my time to ponder about the fact that "ninjas are fukin dope and stuff like 300".
 

Scabadus

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manythings said:
Well my I am lucky in my mother and I have a lot of parallel tastes (we like the same movies and shows, she even likes dexter more than I do) so I've never had that problem specifically but there is something really... disquietening when you are watching something with your mother and they spring a sex scene on you. You can't act fazed by it but you can't just skip it either. This is partially my issue with sex scenes in general since they serve no purpose beyond "they be fuckin'" which can be achieved far more tastefully have one of them exit the others room fixing their shirt or whatever.
Reminds me of a time I was watching a movie with my girlfriend's mother (among other people, it wasn't just me and her) and it sprung a sex scene on us. Definatly one of the most awkward moments of my life.

As for mothers and violence, let her have her opinion. Many older people who arn't videogame/movie fans believe odd things about them, if she lets you watch them but doesn't want to hear the sounds herself I think that's fair enough. Unless you start having the urge to crack open small animals then movie violence is just a form of stress relief and nothing darker.
 

SturmDolch

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My mom doesn't really like violence, but I've kind of... numbed her to violence in movies. She liked Kill Bill, for one. Sometimes, I look over and see her closing her eyes at gory scenes, but otherwise, violence doesn't bother her as much as it used to, as long as there's some sort of point to it (i.e. not a retarded movie like Shoot'Em Up).
 

ultrachicken

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DragonChi said:
ultrachicken said:
Question: Are you violent?
If you answered no, use that as a case against your oppressive fascist mom. The blood and gore doesn't make you want to go and kill everyone you see.
If you answered yes, maybe she is right.
I am a very passive perfectly harmless person. so thats a big no.
Well, explain that to your mom. It worked on my grandma when I tried it.
 

Et3rnalLegend64

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Well, it used to happen more often before. They're either desensitized, they don't care, or they don't bother telling me because I won't take it well. I'm smart enough not to play Ninja Gaiden 2 in front of them, so this is mostly a non-issue for me. Of course, my dad does seem to hold the belief that video games make me more violent unconsciously and refuses to listen to any of my arguments against it. I'm not a violent person. I hold some disrespect for him because of his shorter-than-I-would-like temper and hands down fucked up logic when he argues, but he's getting better.
 

SimuLord

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DragonChi said:
Does anyone else get this crap? what did you do?
I learned how to properly form plurals. Bob the Angry Flower would like a word with you. Maybe a few word's about how you shouldn't form plural's with apostrophe's because it makes you look like your head is full of rock's.
 

BonsaiK

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DragonChi said:
Ok, so..get this. i was in the midst of watching Ninja Assassin on Blu-ray, my mom walks in and clearly doesnt like the violence involved and leaves. near the end, she comes back in and tells me that there is something wrong with me for liking violence and says that violence is just as bad as watching porno. and she told me that I either have to have my headphones on to watch those kinds of movies or have it on a ridiculously low volume.

Ok, Its one thing to say that you don't like it. thats fine..you dont HAVE to like it. But to tell me off and make me feel small for taking any kind of enjoyment out of it cause she thinks its mentally sick. that is really unfair. I don't know what to say to her. shes just so narrow minded and negative.

i don't watch movies like Saw or texas chainsaw massacre or any movies that are soley based on nonstop dismemberment in the worst fashion. i like stuff with Ninjas cause they're fukn dope and stuff like 300. what the hell is wrong with that? and of course any use of guns she thinks is sick too.

Does anyone else get this crap? what did you do?
You should have said to your Mum "but... what's wrong with porn?".

I had this problem when I was growing up. I'd just watch stuff at my friend's house.
 

Dr.Susse

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I don't live with my mum so I would be worried if she was just walking around my house without me knowing....looks behind to check.
 

SL33TBL1ND

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Too bad you don't have my parents, they're fucking awesome. We all used to play Champions together, great game that.
 

ethaninja

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Hehe do what Generator said. Watch porn next time. Do exactly the opposite of what she wants. Have it at rediculously HIGH volumes, and have a pair of headphones next to but not plugged into the TV.
 

ghostrider409895

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I never really notice my parents not liking movie violence. Often they will not care as long as the violence does not have any abusive or offensive things to go along with it. Then again, sometimes they say that some movies are too violent and will yell at me if I watch violent movies. It is kind of hard to tell whether they are opposed to it or not.

This matter is very confusing for me. I know they try to keep me way from violence, but we also own and watch a lot of violence movies. I really cannot tell.
 

ghostrider409895

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I enjoy violence in movies. I play violence in videogames. I think it is fun and one of the things that make action movies interesting. There is just this good feeling you get from randomly going up to a guy then cutting his head off or mowing down random strangers in videogames. I guess it is just the feeling of freedom, where you have no rules and you can do anything and not care about consequences. There are already so many restrictions in real life that it is just fun to have a time where you can do anything you want, and have no one say no to you.

Unfortunately I have a split mind on this subject. I do not like violence that supports bad stuff. Violence is okay as long as it doesn't have swearing and mutilation. I say that because I know that little kids usually watch that kind of stuff and I really do not want kids to grow up thinking that is the proper way to act around people. I really do not like walking down the street and seeing a little kid say fudge to me and then do something like spit on someone?s property or breaking something.
 

Oilerfan92

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Honestly, my mom isnt crazy about violent games. But if i do my homework then she doesnt care. Shes alright for that.

Hell, she sat through Friday the 13 ( remake ) with me and my friend when nobody else could take.