My ex-wife just married my brother
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Sorry, I missed out the specifics, How did you wife get full custody? What were the under-handed tactics? Also, you really think the marriage with your brother will last? Back off, play it cool and the let the hell-btich show her true colours.
Also, shame on your parents. Supporting you would've won them guaranteed time with their granddaughter, now they play by your ex's rules forever.
Also, shame on your parents. Supporting you would've won them guaranteed time with their granddaughter, now they play by your ex's rules forever.
A bit blunt, don't you think? This is shit beyond that sign. This is explosive diarrhea.grimsprice said:Some of us have shitty families. Oh freakin well.
I'm really at a loss for words, This is horrible. Looking at what your family has done to you, I'd say that there's nothing left for you with them. If it would make you miserable to see them at times like Christms and Thanksgiving, don't even bother with them anymore. Start your life over someplace far away where you can be happier.
I know it's probably not the easiest choice, but when was anything really worth having easy to get?
I guess they don't want to make him even more upset, he's got his daughter and can only see her 3 hours a month, if that got taken away from me, I don't know what id do...Gxas said:
Well, maybe your brother is smart enough to see through her.
I mean, Karma has to happen, right? This cant go unnoticed, thats bullshit.
Women can be cool, calculating and cruel beyond measure if they put their minds to it. And girls usually get everything in a divorce. Everything to bolted to your person is hers for the taking.
I'm going to agree with this, if you do have a new partner and daughter you really need to put most if not all your effort into keeping it working, let your partner know what's going on if you already haven't, keep fighting the fight for your 1st born, I can't imagine how hard it is, especially compared to me writing, but your new family needs your attention more, giving it to them will help you get through this difficult time.Mr.Pandah said:
To perhaps give you some leverage, hide and voice record every encounter with the spawn a Satan, every visit to see your first born, take a video camera and record your interactions, these can be used in your favour later in that childs life, so she doesn't think you just abandoned her.
A very important thing to remember, even though I sound like a broken record, is to keep your new family close, they WILL help you through this, pining too much after your old family will only serve to drive your new one away.
You seem like an awesome guy, so it hurts me to say I stopped reading to re-read that over and over... This is what Americans do : | *Checks your profile and other posts* ...And I can see you're an American too.NoryCaw said:
I honestly have no idea how to handle an ex-wife marrying my brother (Me never even having had a girlfriend, and my little brother is 13, so that's hard to imagine) but, as pathetic of me it is to say it, you shouldn't have married her in the first place. Personally I won't consider marrying before I'm -at least- 25 years old, and having had dated a girl till the entire fuzzly-butterfly feeling of love have vaned. Why? If you still enjoy each others company more so than others even after that feeling have faded, the lights should be clear to propose. (I quote someone who have far more insight than me on the matter)
Personally I don't even believe in marriage in the first place. I'd only marry if whomever I'm with really wanted to marry. Otherwise, why not stay at the engagement part.
To me, marriage is more of a money-drain invented by organised religion than anything else.
I want to apologise for sounding like a dick and off-tracking there, but I don't really have much more to say. So please forgive me for coming off a bit rashly.
Think it through. Talk to someone in person. It's hard to say what to do, unless you're in the situation itself.
I'm sure you already know this, but you made a massive mistake marrying her so early on. Your brother's probably going to end up making the same mistake too.
Firstly, the get away and gather your throughts option is probably best to follow through. Spend time with your freinds and talk to them about it. If your family is failing you, you have your friends for support. Watch some comedy as well, and when i say comedy, good comedy. That kind of helps. Also, as someone said before, see a lawyer about seeing your daughter. It is ridiculous how inequal men are before the law when against a woman, but there is no harm in a consultation.
Chances are, her marrage to your brother will not last, hopefully before a child is produced. That will then only leave you with the problem of seeing your daughter. As time goes on, as she get's older, i imagine it would be easier for you to see her, after all then she can start making descions for herself. Also, eventually you'll find someone else, and hopefully you can draw some happiness from that special person.
Firstly, the get away and gather your throughts option is probably best to follow through. Spend time with your freinds and talk to them about it. If your family is failing you, you have your friends for support. Watch some comedy as well, and when i say comedy, good comedy. That kind of helps. Also, as someone said before, see a lawyer about seeing your daughter. It is ridiculous how inequal men are before the law when against a woman, but there is no harm in a consultation.
Chances are, her marrage to your brother will not last, hopefully before a child is produced. That will then only leave you with the problem of seeing your daughter. As time goes on, as she get's older, i imagine it would be easier for you to see her, after all then she can start making descions for herself. Also, eventually you'll find someone else, and hopefully you can draw some happiness from that special person.
well I've heard of "Bros before Hoes" but your brother clearly makes that non existent, but why in god would you marry a woman in under 3 weeks? For that though you kinda dug your own grave. She only got to know you a bit and over time liked your brother more. Not to sound harsh but you dug that hole yourself for getting married in such an impatient time.
Heres your solution, kill the ***** with fire, kill her now. CLEANSING FIRE, acually thats all i got but i fear of getting cleansed by the almighty banhammer[sup]and i don't think my syciatrist would like that[/sup].
Seriosly that ***** is just trying to destry your life, if you still remeber her Social Security number then i say you ring up some bills, see how she likes her life getting thrown in the gutters.
Seriosly that ***** is just trying to destry your life, if you still remeber her Social Security number then i say you ring up some bills, see how she likes her life getting thrown in the gutters.
You have an awful family. You don't need that. But what about friends? Do you have anyone to lean upon?
You can come over to my place for Christmas, we'll sort you out.
You can come over to my place for Christmas, we'll sort you out.