My Girlfriend Left Me

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Get active with something, take your mind off it.

The more you dwell on it, the more depressed or bitter you will become.
 

quiet_samurai

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Maybe she didn't mean what she said and you flipped out on her? Sometimes when people are mad they say shit that isn't true. Talk to her, tell her you didn't mean it... because obviously you didn't. Maybe she feels the same.

or

She meant every word, if she doesn't try and reconcile with you soon then that's probably the case. If so, move on... you'll get over it, trust me.
 
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Don't sit around crying! Do things you like but she frowned upon, take up a sport, DO SOMETHING.

It's not the end of the world, get over it.
 

thevillageidiot13

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quiet_samurai said:
Maybe she didn't mean what she said and you flipped out on her? Sometimes when people are mad they say shit that isn't true. Talk to her, tell her you didn't mean it... because obviously you didn't. Maybe she feels the same.

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She meant every word, if she doesn't try and reconcile with you soon then that's probably the case. If so, move on... you'll get over it, trust me.
... Should I wait it out and see if she tells me she didn't mean it?
 

thevillageidiot13

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KAPTAINmORGANnWo4life said:
Don't sit around crying! Do things you like but she frowned upon, take up a sport, DO SOMETHING.

It's not the end of the world, get over it.
She didn't frown upon anything I did. That's part of why I liked her so much X_X
 

kotorfan04

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Sorry being 18 years single has kind of drained my sympathy for people who complain about relationship problems. So unless you are going to cough up her number or make it start raining naked ladies (With Parachutes otherwise things could get messy) I am going to have to say deal with it and cry yourself to sle... NO! End Sentence begin anew. I am sorry for your loss and it is statistically likely that there is another lady with simillar characteristics to her within a one hundred mile radius of you and that most likely she will find something decent about you as your first girlfriend reacted in much the same manner.

Also divorce =/= girlfriend dumping you.
 

NickIsCool

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from the sounds of it, the relationship ran its course

if she thinks your controlling just wanting to know where she is, think of how bad it would have gotten later

i think its for the best that you ended it now

i think if you would have tried to make it work, she might have started having rather negative feelings towards you, leading to the relationship degrading to the point of her either breaking it off, or just being there because she feels she has to be, not because she wants to be

i know its hard right now, but you'll get over her

if she really thought you where being controlling wanting to know where she was, then you can find a girl whos better

hope i helped
 

Tazz Azreal

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hey man i had the exact same problem as you, there was only one diference, my girlfriend tried forcing her religion on me so i ended it. I looked back at a ll the good times and sure i cried once then realised that she was not worth the tears. Just keep lookin for the right one dude.
 

quiet_samurai

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thevillageidiot13 said:
quiet_samurai said:
Maybe she didn't mean what she said and you flipped out on her? Sometimes when people are mad they say shit that isn't true. Talk to her, tell her you didn't mean it... because obviously you didn't. Maybe she feels the same.

or

She meant every word, if she doesn't try and reconcile with you soon then that's probably the case. If so, move on... you'll get over it, trust me.
... Should I wait it out and see if she tells me she didn't mean it?
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I don't know man. I know nothing about either of you. Just do what you think you should do. Even if you don't think it's right just go with what you want and try to make it so. If you want to talk to her... then do it. What's the worst that could happen? You obviously can't feel any more miserable about the whole thing then you are now.

And waiting it out.... that's tricky. Because maybe space is the best thing, but waiting too long could be a bad thing as well. It's all in your court dude.

Man relationships are fun.....
 
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thevillageidiot13 said:
KAPTAINmORGANnWo4life said:
Don't sit around crying! Do things you like but she frowned upon, take up a sport, DO SOMETHING.

It's not the end of the world, get over it.
She didn't frown upon anything I did. That's part of why I liked her so much X_X

Well then you didn't have a very progressive relationship. If there is no constructive criticism, then you never advance to a more stable position. And therin lies the problem.

Why didn't she ever tell you when you did something stupid? Did she not really care for your well-being? Personally, if my significant other was actually concirned with my well-being, I wouldn't view it as a problem like she did. Maybe you just matured faster than she did.



Oh, and like kotorfan04 said,

kotorfan04 said:
Also divorce =/= girlfriend dumping you.
Also, you're droning on like a kid who lost his first crush. This leads me to believe it wasn't meant to last anyway.
 

Aardvark

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Nail her best friend, sister and/or mother. Won't stop the hurt, but it'll make you feel better about it.

Bonus points for getting all three at once.
 

thevillageidiot13

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so.... it's perfectly normal to ask your girlfriend where she is, as long as you dont try to keep her from living her normal life?
 

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Loop Stricken said:
Wow.

... you had a girlfriend!
Ahah, so true.

You are one of the rare ones around here in a relationship. Sorry to you my friend and dont get to down on yourself! If it makes you feel better I am still to big of a pussy to ask any girls out.
 

thevillageidiot13

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Shapsters said:
Loop Stricken said:
Wow.

... you had a girlfriend!
Ahah, so true.

You are one of the rare ones around here in a relationship. Sorry to you my friend and dont get to down on yourself! If it makes you feel better I am still to big of a pussy to ask any girls out.
HAHAHA If it makes you feel any better, she was the one who asked me out. Although, I would've asked her out if she'd given me the chance.
 

Harold Donchee

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Its called life. Get over it and move on. Bitching about it isnt going to help. My advice is get a bottle of vodka. That'll be your new bestfriend.