Need help!!!!! Fiancee might leave me!!!!!

[Akalistos]

Strider]Hello all. Me and my fiancee have been engaged for nearly two years now, and she also is a frequent user on this forum. She decided a few days ago we needed a break, something to do with having a (strange, unprecedented) feeling, which I do not understand. She acknowledges I did nothing wrong. What I need you fine people to do is tell her she should stay with me, she is on every day and is sure to see it, and she will be won over. If you need reasons, I am a good guy who loves her, and she says she still loves me, so it is just some phase I think she is taking too seriously.

Dude, let me blunt here. Strange and Unprecedented may (As in: there's a chance) mean she love another and your pooch is screwed. Thing is, find the source of the problem before asking help... because If I'm right and she see this, you didn't just shot yourself in the leg but you nuke yourself from here to freaking PLUTO!

But don't panic... or it gonna make this worst
You friend.
Akalistos.

 

[Canadamus Prime]

So you just want us to give you one of those really dodgy testimonials for you?
Sure.

He loves you stay with him.

Truthful: Actually this is kinda creepy and boarder line desperation/panic, you ask for a tiny bit of space and he jumps onto your nearest virtual haunt to get everyone to flaunt him in front of you.
Probably so he can think it was some quirky gesture when over all it is just a round about way of doing what he wants and not you.

Personally I think you should just give the girl the time she needs rather than gathering a pity party for yourself to do some kind of virtual Mexican wave in her direction.

Don't worry, we really are taking a break. I want to get everything in my head and heart sorted out, and I am sure he understand that(right Strider?). This is just a friendly gesture(he is new to forums so isn't very good at getting across his real point. i.e.-he doesn't actually want people to convince me to do something I don't want to do, he simply wanted to show me that even though I feel this way, he still cares and wanted to say Hi.)

Maybe next time he should just go with a greeting card and a bouquet of flowers instead.

Or he could just leave her alone for a bit. That works, too.

Not if he wanted to let her know he still cares, it doesn't.

 

[Lyri]

Strider]
Now you people go from saying "I won't tell her what to do/think" (which I did NOT ask for), to doing exactly that? Her explicitly stating it does not bother her is not good enough?

I did not tell her what to do or think, not even close.
Try not to be to obvious when flame baiting someone.

 

[Hermia]

Funny how this girl, a regular user in these forums, only has 20 posts to her name, yet has for some reason attatched an avatar to this obviously new account.

I call out a troll here, stop feeding it people.

And the pair of you, Strider and Hermia (if you are even real), stop having a private conversation in a public thread. Got on the phone and patch up your relationship, or at least take it to PMs.

'tis true I only have a few posts to my name, but I am a lurker...you can check my join date if you really wish. We are not trolls.

Although, I do think you are right on one point this thread needs to end. He was just trying to do something nice for me, we are hours away from each other seeing as how we are going through a break right now, so normal gestures of kindness do not apply. Also, due to his lack of expertise in forum language, it seemed more creepy/desperate than it needed to.

However, I got the message, and yes it made me smile, and yes we are still on break, but now I feel as though you understand and accept my decision and feelings a little more now that you are doing small harmless things like this without any expectations of the break ending. We are not children, people, we have talked all of our feelings and such over, he wanted to do something really out there and unexpected to get my attention, and I think that is nice. But seeing as how this thread is going no-where but downhill fast...lets end it[the thread] shall we?

 

[Amaury_games]

Strider]

Strider]
And here she is...... (and this is why I hate forums).

You hate them because I am here? Or because of the responses?

People just have their anti troll shields up most of the time...and in most cases these scenarios are either trolls/or whiny d-bags looking for someone to solve all of life's problems...hence the replies. They didn't know that you were just looking to make me smile.

Strider]You know what I mean I thought people could be helpful and constructive with a small thing, boy was I wrong.

That is how that should have been...

Hey! Glad to see it worked out well! You seem nice together, so congrats for making her smile and congrats for understanding your groom's intentions with this tread.

PS: Strider, you're not the only one that doesn't trust the Internet to help constructively with a small and nice thing. And what you'd know? You were right, although it did caught her attention and she seemed to like it. Well done, and be happy together when you're ready!

 

[Paksenarrion]

Strider]We had a reason, scholarship, read all the posts! We also did have a date, I should have stated that. I do not want advice. This is about a perfectly healthy relationship being held up by something intangible.

Sounds like she has just altered the deal. Pray she does not alter it any further.

 

[samaugsch]

So you just want us to give you one of those really dodgy testimonials for you?
Sure.

He loves you stay with him.

Truthful: Actually this is kinda creepy and boarder line desperation/panic, you ask for a tiny bit of space and he jumps onto your nearest virtual haunt to get everyone to flaunt him in front of you.
Probably so he can think it was some quirky gesture when over all it is just a round about way of doing what he wants and not you.

Personally I think you should just give the girl the time she needs rather than gathering a pity party for yourself to do some kind of virtual Mexican wave in her direction.

Don't worry, we really are taking a break. I want to get everything in my head and heart sorted out, and I am sure he understand that(right Strider?). This is just a friendly gesture(he is new to forums so isn't very good at getting across his real point. i.e.-he doesn't actually want people to convince me to do something I don't want to do, he simply wanted to show me that even though I feel this way, he still cares and wanted to say Hi.)

Maybe next time he should just go with a greeting card and a bouquet of flowers instead.

Or he could just leave her alone for a bit. That works, too.

Not if he wanted to let her know he still cares, it doesn't.

I figured leaving her alone when she asks him to would do the job.

 

[Sandytimeman]

Give her some space I would suppose. I wouldn't know how to take that either. If she doesn't come back to you or makes a move to move on herself. I think, as I am now, I would let her do so and move on myself.

Two years is along time which makes me think the scholarship has to be for college, so I'm assuming you guys are 20-21ish. In that case, your both still kids, plenty of time for growing both together and apart.

 

[[SE]Strider]

Someone please tell me how to destroy this before it gets any more insane. I literally have no idea how to remove a thread.

 

[Lyri]

Strider]Someone please tell me how to destroy this before it gets any more insane. I literally have no idea how to remove a thread.

You don't. It will remain here forever!

*evil laugh*

True story.

 

[[SE]Strider]

Strider]We had a reason, scholarship, read all the posts! We also did have a date, I should have stated that. I do not want advice. This is about a perfectly healthy relationship being held up by something intangible.

Sounds like she has just altered the deal. Pray she does not alter it any further.

That is funny, this kind've thing would have been much better.

 

[[SE]Strider]

Strider]Someone please tell me how to destroy this before it gets any more insane. I literally have no idea how to remove a thread.

You don't. It will remain here forever!

*evil laugh*

True story.

Wow, my first foray into internet forums has been...... awesome.

 

[white_salad]

Strider]Someone please tell me how to destroy this before it gets any more insane. I literally have no idea how to remove a thread.

You don't. It will remain here forever!

*evil laugh*

Until the end of time!!!! All threads are indestructible! They can never be stopped, they are inevitable!

Or the mods will lock it, but that doesn't seem likely...

 

[[SE]Strider]

Well either this will only be until 2012, which is not so bad.... or I could spout a bunch of profanity in an attempt to remove, won't be doing any more of this here newfangled internet stuff I am sure.

 

[nukethetuna]

Strider]Well either this will only be until 2012, which is not so bad.... or I could spout a bunch of profanity in an attempt to remove, won't be doing any more of this here newfangled internet stuff I am sure.

Actually, if you do a little forum scavenging, there's a thread about how the world is going to end on May 21, 2011!
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.282888-The-world-is-going-to-end-on-May-21-2011?page=1
It has real discussion and evidence and everything!

So... honestly your timing to immortalize yourself in the form of a forum thread wasn't bad at all!

 

[Xenetethrae]

Also, the best advice I can give you, never image search "welcome to the internet" with safe search off. *shudder

Damn it. How could anyone possibly resist? The temptation is too much for mere mortals.

...

Spoiler: Seems like standard internet fare to me. Warning: do not click if you have never been exposed to internet before

image search yielded a fairly standard mix of man milking himself/nutella/cheeseburgers/stale memes/donkey porn/what appears to be a bell pepper coming out of a man's rear. Sounds like a usual Tuesday night of websurfing to me.

OT: Hope she gets a kick out of this thread, otherwise it might be awkward.

 

[Canadamus Prime]

So you just want us to give you one of those really dodgy testimonials for you?
Sure.

He loves you stay with him.

Truthful: Actually this is kinda creepy and boarder line desperation/panic, you ask for a tiny bit of space and he jumps onto your nearest virtual haunt to get everyone to flaunt him in front of you.
Probably so he can think it was some quirky gesture when over all it is just a round about way of doing what he wants and not you.

Personally I think you should just give the girl the time she needs rather than gathering a pity party for yourself to do some kind of virtual Mexican wave in her direction.

Don't worry, we really are taking a break. I want to get everything in my head and heart sorted out, and I am sure he understand that(right Strider?). This is just a friendly gesture(he is new to forums so isn't very good at getting across his real point. i.e.-he doesn't actually want people to convince me to do something I don't want to do, he simply wanted to show me that even though I feel this way, he still cares and wanted to say Hi.)

Maybe next time he should just go with a greeting card and a bouquet of flowers instead.

Or he could just leave her alone for a bit. That works, too.

Not if he wanted to let her know he still cares, it doesn't.

I figured leaving her alone when she asks him to would do the job.

Oh, I didn't think taking a break meant the same thing as "leave me alone." At least not in this case.