Nerd Boyfriends

[xDarc]

I always minimally involve any girl i date in my nerd stuff. The ones that you don't find on internet forums generally aren't interested in any of it.

I wouldn't be joking if I said I've considered getting a boyfriend so I could finally date someone who shared my interests and didn't get all their ideas of what love and romance is from movies.

 

[SantoUno]

I'm going to be honest, I love nerd guys. I find they're intelligent, helpful and generally more romantic than most people give them credit for. If you have a girlfriend, what's the most romantic thing you're done for her? If you don't, what would be the most romantic thing you would do when find her?

Well good for you I guess, so-called "nerds" aren't really repulsive or unattractive in any way. With the right clothing even they can look good I guess.

I'd rather not mention anything about what I have done with someone.

 

[tthor]

i filed down a quarter into the shape of a heart and put it on a necklace, and gave it to her
(probably illegal, but nobody cares lol)

 

[The3rdEye]

I'm not sure if i qualifies as "romantic" since that's a term with personal definitions, but in the past there were times where I would "push" my GF into taking a long bath while I made dinner (and dessert... ME!... no seriously, it was awesome cheesecake or some sort of confection), then we would eat together, followed by a massage and watching TV together. Not for any particular occasion, but it happened most often when she sounded like she was in need of some R&R and TLC.

 

[lazy_bum]

erm, i dont really do romantic much to be honest, or at least not when i'm trying, though i consider myself more geeky than nerdy. We just love each other for who we are. are compatable in every way (bar the inevitble ones due to not being exact clones of each other) and the accidental romantic gestures are just an added bonus.

 

[rokkolpo]

climbed out of a window to meet her on a bridge.....i shall leave the rest blank.

 

[The_Healer]

I know! Lets assume every guy on the escapist is a nerd!

GREAT IDEA!

I'll just be leaving then.

 

[Captain Schpack]

We exchange massages almost daily. I massage her head, face, neck, back, arms, legs and feet. She massages my penis. I feel its a fair exchange.

Anyway nerd boyfriends are usually just more desperate. It is amusing at first but kind of sad how quickly they become whipped.

your a dick. reported.

Why, give me a reason.

OT: I'd make her an amazing dinner, tell her I love her everyday, and write her 1,001 peoms. From the heart.

 

[damselgaming]

I'm not really into romance to be honest. Sure, my boyfriends done a lot for me, but I don't see the point in all that flowers, poems and chocolates business.

Also, the nerdy guys that have liked me have all just been stalkery and creepy.

Az ee dun a lot haz ee?

I myself don't really understand this whole nerd thing. What exactly constitutes a nerd? Intelligence? Why the hell wouldn't that be an admirable trait?

I don't really understand 'Az ee dun a lot haz ee?'. Why?

 

[AdambotLive]

She massages my penis

Pics or it didn't happen.

 

[hamster mk 4]

On her first birthday after we started dating, I arranged a surprise party for her starting midnight of her birthday. We were in college at the time, so we lived in separate dorms but stayed up pretty late. I got enough cake and ice-cream to feed all her friends and told them all to meet me outside her dorm room before 12:00 midnight on the day of. At midnight we knocked on her door and walked in singing happy birthday. I also took her out to the board walk later that day, but the midnight birthday party was my best romantic coup.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Im not really a nerd, so i guess i should leave this thread. But the most romantic thing ive done...Hmmm Either got strawberries (her favourite thing ever) for us on valentines night or got flowers delivered to her door.

 

[Jark212]

I would make a fine candle lite dinner for just the two of us, and stay completely loyal to her... forever. Seriously, I'm insanity loyal.

 

[Guestowel]

My girlfriend needed an upgrade, so I gave her some components out of my own computer.

 

[kannibus]

Before we got married, I told her that she was more attractive that a gravitational singularity. I also once said that if I was gay, I'd go straight for her. Finally, the most romantic thing I ever said, "You're the one person I like to lose to in everything. Can we have sex now?"

 

[D0WNT0WN]

Im sure none of us would consider ourselves nerds but anyways.

I cook meals every now and then for my Girlfriend. Pretty much everyone I cook for loves my meals. I only do it one every few weeks so it really is a treat and on the days I spend a good half of the day making really complex meals.

Im cooking Christmas dinner tonight and im planning to go all out.

 

[S4rdonyx]

I know! Lets assume every guy on the escapist is a nerd!

GREAT IDEA!

I'll just be leaving then.

Eh, no offence meant. I was being pretty general- people with nerdish tendencies then. I'm a geek I guess... mostly comes off by interests and who I hang around. Iuno.

 

[King of the N00bs]

women are beyond me although in my horoscope today it said that there is someone around me who has totally got the hots for me and my horoscope so far has never been wrong

please just have it be a chick i actually like

 

[MalloryHartevelt]

I would class my bf as nerd, however I wouldnt say he was THAT romantic. Usually I have to suggest the romance or ask first. But none the less, I love him all the same. I think as long as you really like/love someone romance is just a little perk.

 

[OpiateChicken]

Which in turn brings up the greatest moral of the story in any tale about dating: Don't go trying to love someone else until you're pretty sure of one of two things:

1) You're willing to be totally submissive and let the other person control you in a horrible cycle of codependency that only works because your low self-esteem allows it to, or

2) You are secure with yourself and know who you are in the world and are willing to be true to yourself while being true to someone else.

1) is easy. In some cases (a lot of marriages in the rural American South for example), it even works quite well. But happiness stems from 2).

Indeed, indeed.
*brandishes flask of whiskey*