Well, that was a mistake. Parents will tell you "just ignore them and they'll go away" and teachers will tell you (and your parents, mostly your parents) that they don't tolerate bullying, but teachers are too busy and too few and don't give a **** about you and parents can't be bothered either and are really saying "I'm ignorign your problems until you go away" and bullies will keep going and escalate and escalate until the one and only thing that reliably stops a bully stops them.Trezu said:ps. i was bullied a lot at school but the main thing is to never resort to violence i never did at school
It's not that violence is the only language they understand. It's that fear is the only form of respect they understand. There's something about seeing the kid who was picking on you suddenly pressed against the wall a foot off the floor by someone's hand at his throat that's really gratifying, and there is, apparently, something about having a Sixth Former with eyes like murder grab him by the throat and shove him into the wall a foot off the floor that gets through to **** like that kid and persuades them that the world outside the rules is a place they do not want to be after all.