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iLikeHippos said:
I don't understand Atheism. I mean, if you're going to be disobedient to the church and think 'freely' as if the term did not apply to religious people to begin with, why not take the better option from the motto of 'not giving a fuck' towards 'I'll improve the world from now on'?

I am talking about conversion towards other non-religious groups such as Buddhism and the many other varieties of non-religious beliefs with actual benefits and education.
Seriously, if every fucking Atheist converted towards a much more knowledgeable way of life, I seriously doubt this world would look gloomier than it actually is.

As it stands, I feel we just have one big boring group with little personality here. And I'm not just saying this because I am grumpy in some sort of way; it just seems like a far more logical conclusion, and as Atheists often describe themselves as highly logical I'd very much assume this theory would hit home, no?

So what's stopping you people? What's your excuse?
I'll admit I'm a little confused with what you've written here. I think the problem is that you're thinking of atheists as a homogeneous group like protestants or Shia muslims, whereas in reality the only thing that unites atheists is the lack of belief in God. Being an atheist doesn't prevent someone from having a more complicated philosophy alongside their non-theistic beliefs, humanism and nihilism are two good examples of very different philosophy's based on Atheism. Atheism's motto isn't not giving a fuck, by definition it has no motto.

From my own personal experience I'm an Atheist and I like to think I do my bit to improve the world, I try to help other people when I can and I do weekly voluntary work with my community so that's a start to improving the world, I hope.

Also just a note, Buddhists don't believe in God but they aren't non-religious as they believe in souls and reincarnation.
 

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People that like to nitpick about America and how it does things. Like our dating system.

The only difference I can see is that we use the month and day in a different order. Is that really something worth complaining about? Or am I missing something here?
 

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People who draw erotic fanart of underaged girls or, worse, make older characters appear much younger. WHY?! There's too many people doing it to just slap the paedophile label on every single one of them... so why? Same goes for fan fiction. Dear authors of Chibi-Usa's Seventh Birthday and Diamond Pokemon - please get hit by a bus.

Also every quote from a real life person as opposed to being taken from some obscure internet forum to be hosted on this site. [http://fstdt.com/Default.aspx] The fuck is wrong with those people?

scorptatious said:
The only difference I can see is that we use the month and day in a different order. Is that really something worth complaining about? Or am I missing something here?
It can get confusing if you use dates like 03/11. Am I talking about 3rd November or 11th March? And it's really weird hearing an American say "ah-LOOOM-in-um" but yeah it's just weird not really worth making a fuss over.
 

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scorptatious said:
People that like to nitpick about America and how it does things. Like our dating system.

The only difference I can see is that we use the month and day in a different order. Is that really something worth complaining about? Or am I missing something here?
It's un-intuitive. Or to me it is. It makes sense to go day/month/year. It goes in order of how specific it is. It doesn't annoy me that much but I think that way is better.

OT: I agree with the OP. It doesn't make sense to me that anyone would not like music for it's inherent value. Although I can kind of get it. I was never really that interested in any specific type of music until I was about 13 and found stuff that I liked. Pretty much everything before then just didn't resonate with me at all. But the only way I can conceive that someone just doesn't like music would be that they have never heard or gone looking for something they like.
 

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I don't understand people who don't understand what open-mindedness really means.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T69TOuqaqXI

Talking about tolerance, I don't get it why people argue over religions. It's a religion damn it, not a political conversation!
 

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I don't understand why people continually try to overreach themselves, I suppose it's human nature but I've never heard anyone say "I think I have enough," Why can't people be happy with what they've got?
 

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Yeah I don't like religion. It makes no sense to me, and it's all written hundreds of years ago by some people you can't really trust. There are no sources to verify the truth, but this book filled with contradictions and impossible things happening.
Everyone knows the Matrix is real anyway.
 

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Nimcha said:
I think I can understand most people's motives, even if I don't share them. But I will never understand people who deny themselves happiness in some way.

Well shit... this post was like dumping a cold bucket of water on my head and waking up. So few words spoken but very true.

Thank you.
 

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lotr rocks 0 said:
It is illogical for one to assert belief in something when there is no evidence backing up said belief. It is not illogical to be skeptical of a claim brought forth which has no evidence to back it up. In fact, disbelief is the default position.
Atheism is also a position, the position that divinity cannot exist. This claim has the same amount of evidence as that of religion, as such, the default position is not disbelief but indecision.

lotr rocks 0 said:
The burden of proof lies on the person making the claim, they need to prove to others why their claim is true, not the reverse. you can never, ever prove conclusively that something does not exist, but you can prove that something does exist, and so it is on the person making the claim to prove that their claim exists. If they don't give good enough evidence, then people are justified in not believing the claim.
How would one prove conclusively and unquestionably that something exists?

lotr rocks 0 said:
I can't speak for other atheists, but personally, I don't "assume" that religions are false, I look at the evidence that I can see, and I make a judgement on whether I think they have any merit or not. And so far, every religion presented to me has failed to pass my standard of truth, with either blatant contradiction, or just plain lack of evidence. If you can prove to me that your religion is true then I will convert to your religion. I am not closed to the possibility of a God existing, I just know that the gods of today's modern religions cannot exist, because their holy books and their sects are all extremely vague and contradictory on what their God actually is.

If you do not believe in a spiritual being but acknowledge the possibility of one, you are not atheist but agnostic.

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Also it is extremely naive to think that some two thousand year old book written over the course of hundreds of years is the only source of morality. Morality is socially constructed, it is not divinely constructed.
If there is no God, god, goddess, etc. then there can be no all encompassing moral truth. This means that, since after we die according to atheism, we all end up as nothing, there is no point to being moral because we all end up the same in the end. Now, I am not saying that the Bible, the Quran or whatever other holy book's morality is the truth. It is that the acknowledgement of a moral truth that exists beyond human understanding makes us strive to be as moral as possible. Moral laws are created by society as a direct response to our yearning for an ultimate moral law, so while this moral law may not exist, if we do not acknowledge it's existence, our laws are meaningless.
 

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Honestly, I've been trying to find something to post for several days, and I have had a problem. While I generally don't use the ability much, I have the ability to understand someone else's point of view on almost anything. I almost universally disagree with them, but I can wrap my head around it.

So, several days of thinking later, I have finally figured out the one thing that I just cannot wrap my head around no matter how hard I try. Normally, I wouldn't even post it, but I think that it is particularly applicable to many of you here on the escapist.

I cannot wrap my head around atheism. I cannot understand the belief that there is no supreme power. I see evidence of the divine every single day, I see evidence of the divine in science, not proof, never proof, but always evidence. Agnostics, I understand, but to actively say that there is nothing, and that there couldn't be, I just can't wrap my head around it.
 

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I don't understand when people outright refuse to try something they have never heard of. It's both insulting and narrow-minded.
Whenever someone mentions anything I haven't heard of, I listen to them, do some research and then decide.
 

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theemporer said:
lotr rocks 0 said:
It is illogical for one to assert belief in something when there is no evidence backing up said belief. It is not illogical to be skeptical of a claim brought forth which has no evidence to back it up. In fact, disbelief is the default position.
Atheism is also a position, the position that divinity cannot exist. This claim has the same amount of evidence as that of religion, as such, the default position is not disbelief but indecision.
Atheism says that there is no point in believing in something that has no evidence to support it. Atheism does not say that god definitely 100% with absolute certainty does not exist.
 

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theemporer said:
The problem with this argument is that atheists also make an assertion, the assertion that no god/goddess/etc. could exist. They give no proof other than that there is no proof. The belief in spiritual beings has existed for thousands of years, it is a paradigm that atheists wish to diverge from, yet they have no evidence against it. The faithful argue on a philosophical level because, by definition, God etc. cannot be known or observed physically. Thus the lack of physical evidence is meaningless.

For one, not all religions hold that their spiritual being is omnipotent, omniscient and benevolent. There are also religions (Ancient Greek, for example) that claim that their gods are represented in nature. Regardless, the requirement of a natural proof in order to consider the possibility of a divine being that cannot be observed in nature is simply contradictory. I do not claim that they should believe in a divine being because it is possible but I don't understand the logic in denying it based on a lack of evidence that should not exist.

I don't think I was discussing something like this in my original post but what do you mean by "The discussion can't even agree on the same topic"? Also, The denial of scientific discovery usually comes from a dogmatic, literal reading of sacred texts, for example, assuming that the story of Adam and Eve should be seen as historical fact rather than as an allegory. Without looking at the texts in such a literal way, one can better reconcile religion and modern science. Also, the idea that science can find any kind of fact, that can be proven without any doubt is dogmatic in itself. While future developments may prove a "natural fact" to be incorrect, science holds it as absolute fact that cannot be disputed.

I never really said that atheists are without morals. All I meant to say was that atheists have no reason to be think morally, considering that they believe that we just rot in a hole when we die, regardless of what we do in life. While pushing ones beliefs on others is indeed wrong, there are some times when you have to. Cannibals, serial killers, etc. often believe that what they are doing is right. I suppose it's pushing our moral beliefs on others if we arrest criminals?
Wow there's lots to counter in this post. I will focus on the statements that I bolded in your text.

1. There are two primary stances on atheism. There are the so called "strong" atheists, which do posit that it would be impossible for a god or supreme being to exist. And then there are also the so called "weak atheists" or agnostic atheists which simply lack a belief that a God exists. They have not been given sufficient evidence that would indicate that such a god exists, and therefore they stick to the default position one should always take when given spectacular claims without proof: lack of belief. the majority of atheists are agnostic atheists, including myself. I don't state outright that a god does not exist, I have just not been given sufficient evidence to prove to me that one does. If today someone gave me absolute irrefutable proof that their god existed then I would convert to their religion. That said, I am 99% certain that the God of the Christian bible does not exist, because that book is so contradictory that it's logically impossible for this God to exist.

2. As a scientist and rational human being, I "believe", for lack of a better word, that any phenomena that occurs in the natural world can be explained through natural means. Over the last few centuries, science has found natural explanations for nearly every single phenomena that previously was only explained by religion. Religion really just has no more ground to stand on anymore. If your God exists, then what is he doing?? He's not causing any miracles, he's not doing anything that couldn't already be explained by natural laws of the universe, he's not answering prayers or helping the sick get better, he's not healing amputees. What is your God doing, and why should I believe in him if there is not a shred of evidence that he's making any impact on the natural world? I'm not even asking to SEE your god, just any sign that he may actually be making changes to the world. I have not been given any evidence of any kind that shows that he is doing anything, if he exists, so I choose not to believe that he exists. It's simple, really.

3. On using the bible as allegory. This is a slippery slope you're going down. The Bible is supposed to be the perfect and unaltered word of God, and it is supposed to be infallible and completely true, correct? So then why are you taking bits of the Bible as allegory, and others as literal truth, when there is no way to infer which ones are true and which are "just pretend". Was Jesus an allegory? The 10 commandments? Any story within the bible could be seen as an allegory, and yet religious people tend to assume that some of them are true, historical events, and others are just made up to make a point. They do this because some of the stories are so batshit crazy that they cannot justify it to others or themselves as truth, so they assume it was made up. But there is no basis within the bible that would indicate which stories are true or not, they are all presented as absolutely true and infallible. Is the quote saying that disobedient children should be stoned to death just an allegory? Is the one that says that a father has a right to sell his daughter into slavery one? Christians neglect and explain away all the uncomfortable parts of their religion, but they wholly accept the warm fuzzy parts as literal truth, even though they are just as believable as the parts they rationalize away.

4. If a new discovery proves a scientific theory "wrong" then the theory is adapted to accomodate the new evidence. That's kind of how science works... Science doesnt just ignore new evidence and stick their fingers in their ears and shout "LALALALALA I CANT HEAR YOU!" That's religion's job.

5. Atheists absolutely have reasons to act morally. Morality is NOT divinely constructed. Morals are built based on social norms. Humans are social animals. We need each other to survive and to be happy. Sure, as an atheist there's no incentive for me beyond this life to be a good boy so that I get my present in heaven. But there is absolutely incentive for me to behave in order to get the most out of the life that I do have. If I went around murdering and raping random people, I'd be thrown in jail or killed for it, which is bad for me living happily. Also I am a human being, I care for other people and their wellbeing, I want to help them and I want everyone to be happy as much as possible. Why would I want to harm another person for no reason? I am not being nice as a way to get to heaven, I'm being nice because in a small way, it makes the world a better place to live in, and makes other people, and myself happier. And since we all have to live together, that's a good thing.
 

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It's more of a fact that the mere possibility of religion is far more viable as a method for making decisions than an abstract sense of societal guilt which is usually derived from religious beliefs anyway. The only way to truly form any sort of grounded morality is to create an artificial one, such as Immanuel Kant's categorical imperative. Even in that sense, it only truly works if everyone follows it. Murder is bad for the sake of being bad is not a justifiable argument, but murder as a sin defined by a higher being is a point of reference which can always be relied upon. To believe in God and to disbelieve him is an argument which I believe is swayed far more to the latter (as to the reason of my agnosticism) but it doesn't actually legitimise any of my actions. With this in mind, believing in a religion can be logical for practical reasons.

An argument like this:

Togs said:
The religious, I dont get how people can overlook the barbarity and outmoded moral concepts thats rife throughout religion. I dont get how these people can then say they hold the moral high ground, that as an atheist Im spiritually dead and morally suspect.
If Im totally honest it makes me very angry.
doesn't make sense to me at all. The morality isn't barbaric in its practices without a comparison and there simply isn't any. Religion is followed because of many reasons such as what I've stated or for any other number of reasons, such as peace of mind with conformity, and to "not be able to comprehend why people would follow a religion," just doesn't make sense. I could see why people might see following a religion through a logical process is a bit of a stretch, but there's arguments on both sides for that which make perfect sense. Religion provides answers to the unknown and as long as there's something which we don't know, there'll always be a reason for it.
So what I hear you saying is that no ethical theory is correct, but a person who believes in Divine Command theory has the "moral high ground" over a person espousing Kantian theory (or some other non-religiously based ethical theory). There's a tension here. Kantian theory is not based on "an abstract sense of societal guilt," and it does not require that everyone follow it for one person to follow it. The same can be said of Contractarianism and Utilitarianism. I fail to see how Divine Command theory is better in any way, if we assume they're all wrong.

The other part I was arguing against was your statement that "we can't actually know any facts about the universe." That's what I was responding to will all that business about Tim Minchin and talking to your cat. You don't seem to have made any comment about that at all here. So would you please respond to that?

Now, I understand you discontent with that argument you quoted, but I want you to see how that only makes sense if you believe there are no absolute moral standards. Then a religious belief that it's wrong to get a life-saving blood transfusion for your son is a-ok, because it's neither right nor wrong for that child to die an easily preventable death. However, most people do not believe that. Most people have an idea or two about what constitutes a good action as opposed to a bad one, and they further believe that most other people share some very similar core beliefs. For instance, one of their core beliefs might be that preserving innocent lives where it is feasible is good, and they would probably think that other people believe that too. Thus, it is very confusing when they hear a story about a Jehovah's Witness parent letting her kid die because they won't get them a blood transfusion. The reason they give for their action is based on a highly dubious objective assertion - that God exists and he says not to give blood transfusions. That's the part that's confusing - why would someone go out of their way to accept a baseless assertion when the most significant result of that assertion is that your kid has to die?

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well, in the area of objective fact i might try to correct you.
Ah, but this is my point. Is the existence of God not an objective question? Even if you were an agnostic (or a "weak" atheist) and thought you could never know what it is, certainly you would think there's a fact of the matter. And since you seem to be of the opinion that God does not exist, then I'd assume you think you have good reasons to believe that. So if that's all true, then someone who believes in God is wrong in the exact same way that they would be wrong to think that sin(pi/2) is 0. It would be a simple matter of showing them their error, then.

...Unless there's more to this God thing?
 

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People who are motivated by fearmongers and are willing to give up various rights just for fake safety, i.e. people who are gung-ho for gun control, or thought the Patriot Act was a good idea, etc.
 

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I love how this thread has gone from what people can't comprehend to them talking about what they dislike.Mind you the title does make it sound more like tolerance then understanding.

If I had to pick one thing it would be this, hatedoms about films/musicians. I get hate, it's fun, it's theurputic to diss that thing you hate. But to actually keep on with it and spend so mcuh time I don't get. Fro me it's a coping mechanism, not somethign good in of itself.
 

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CrashBang said:
...you try to be, there's always that one thing you can't wrap your head around.

For me, it's people who aren't moved by music, people who are fine with listening to the radio or club music because it's easy to dance to or it's simple, people who don't go looking for music that inspires them or brings out all manner of emotion/feeling to the surface (be it joy, excitement, anger, passion etc). These are the things I can't accept/understand, no matter how wide I open my mind.

So what's your one thing that you can't grasp?
Well you wouldn't understand me then because I don't listen to any music unless it has a direct link with something else that im interested in like gaming (e.g. miracle of sound).

Strangely enough though I played flute up until grade 4 and I reckon with a bit of practice I could easily play grade 5 songs
 

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Piorn said:
I don't understand when people outright refuse to try something they have never heard of. It's both insulting and narrow-minded.
Whenever someone mentions anything I haven't heard of, I listen to them, do some research and then decide.
Yet a simple "I don't feel like it" should be enough. I'm not gonna waste my time researching something I never really wanted to do in the first place. When it comes down to trying new foods you never heard off before it's a better off not trying it then trying it and getting sick. Also you gotta be considerate that some people just don't like being forced to do something they haven't done before.