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A couple of years ago, a father in Iraq killed his 17-year old daughter for allegedly falling in love with a British soldier. He deducted this from seeing her talk to him.

He ran up to her and brutally beat, strangled and stabbed her. 2 of her brothers joined in. They dumped her body in a hole and spat on it.

He was released from prison after spending an inordinately brief time there. The policemen standing guard spent a lot of time congratulating him on what he had done.

He shows no remorse. He thinks his daughter was a monster and deserved to die, and would like to pretend she never existed. He has also threatened to kill his two sons should they display any homosexual traits. He beat up his wife when he found out she was leaving him over this. He believes that all this is morally right and justified.

I will never, ever, ever, ever, ever understand this, no matter how much I open my mind.

"I used to keep an open mind, but my brains kept falling out." - Steven Wright
 

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People who think fighting is important, who ridicule people for not having muscles or sucking at fighting. What the heck does it matter in this civilized society of ours?
 

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OhJohnNo said:
A couple of years ago, a father in Iraq killed his 17-year old daughter for allegedly falling in love with a British soldier. He deducted this from seeing her talk to him.

He ran up to her and brutally beat, strangled and stabbed her. 2 of her brothers joined in. They dumped her body in a hole and spat on it.

He was released from prison after spending an inordinately brief time there. The policemen standing guard spent a lot of time congratulating him on what he had done.

He shows no remorse. He thinks his daughter was a monster and deserved to die, and would like to pretend she never existed. He has also threatened to kill his two sons should they display any homosexual traits. He beat up his wife when he found out she was leaving him over this. He believes that all this is morally right and justified.

I will never, ever, ever, ever, ever understand this, no matter how much I open my mind.

"I used to keep an open mind, but my brains kept falling out." - Steven Wright
This is something that I hadn't thought of, but I absolutely agree with you here. Honour killings, and well, pretty much every extremist muslim activity, is something I will never understand.
 

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The problem with this argument is that atheists also make an assertion, the assertion that no god/goddess/etc. could exist. They give no proof other than that there is no proof. The belief in spiritual beings has existed for thousands of years, it is a paradigm that atheists wish to diverge from, yet they have no evidence against it. The faithful argue on a philosophical level because, by definition, God etc. cannot be known or observed physically. Thus the lack of physical evidence is meaningless.
Ofc lack of physical evidence is meaningless - that's why i said the discussion diverges into two different things, because one side still requires it. From my position, the lack of physical evidence isn't a problem as we're talking about a supernatural being, however i do question whether the proposition that a god exists solves anything or offers anything - and i find that it really doesn't.





For one, not all religions hold that their spiritual being is omnipotent, omniscient and benevolent. There are also religions (Ancient Greek, for example) that claim that their gods are represented in nature. Regardless, the requirement of a natural proof in order to consider the possibility of a divine being that cannot be observed in nature is simply contradictory. I do not claim that they should believe in a divine being because it is possible but I don't understand the logic in denying it based on a lack of evidence that should not exist.
The example of the god i took was based of the christian one, so whether a god is capricious or jealous wouldn't change his existence, it would merely make worshipping him questionable, that's a wholly different discussion however.
The requirement of natural proof of a supernatural being is only contradictory at first glance. To a materialist, if that supernatural being has no effect on the natural world, his existence or non-existence becomes a moot question, but if he has an effect on the natural world, then there should be signs of that. The lack of natural evidence therefore is valid grounds on which to deny any effect on the natural world, and thus deny importance and/or existence.
It doesn't prove non-existence ofc, it merely proves disinterest or inability to interact with the natural world; at which point the question 'why should i follow an arbitrary set of rules for no other reason than the existence of a being that has no effect no our world' becomes valid.

I don't think I was discussing something like this in my original post but what do you mean by "The discussion can't even agree on the same topic"? Also, The denial of scientific discovery usually comes from a dogmatic, literal reading of sacred texts, for example, assuming that the story of Adam and Eve should be seen as historical fact rather than as an allegory. Without looking at the texts in such a literal way, one can better reconcile religion and modern science. Also, the idea that science can find any kind of fact, that can be proven without any doubt is dogmatic in itself. While future developments may prove a "natural fact" to be incorrect, science holds it as absolute fact that cannot be disputed.
I have 0 problems with people reconciling their faith with science -- that's why i contend debaters are often discussing 2 different issues, and merely posit that in face of proof to the contrary, science needs to prevail over faith in the field of science. That said, fans of the atheist side of the argument, especially those with a shaky understanding of science, need to understand that science doesn't explain the "why" of things, just the "how".
Evolution is a fact, evolution through random mutation & natural selection our best current model to explain that, and whoever denies that is a moron. Whether there is a god behind that pulling the strings, is not a question science is set up to answer; otoh if you posit the existence of such a being, that throws up a ton of other questions faithful so far haven't been able to answer in a satisfactory manner.
Lastly, science knows it cannot find the truth of any given unknown fact - whoever says that has little understanding of science: When we come up with a new model to explain observation X in reality, that's simply a new model, it doesn't mean the last one was necessarily wrong, it simply means this one is better, or farther in scope. Alternatively, two concurrent models can exist at the same time, because depending on which scale we look at things, one might be more practical than the other.

Science can prove some things, science can disprove some things; but science can also prove the unprovability, or disprove the provability. Math is quite a good example of that. The position that science can & eventually will find and explain everything is already proven wrong by science itself.
That said however "facts" and "proof" in science are very different things, depending on whether someone uses the words colloquially, or in the scientific sense. Gravitation is a fact; our theories about it aren't - that's where people untrained in scientific thinking often take the wrong turn. Just because gravitation is a fact doesn't mean our theories about it are. That's an error in arguing however, not an error of science.






I never really said that atheists are without morals. All I meant to say was that atheists have no reason to be think morally, considering that they believe that we just rot in a hole when we die, regardless of what we do in life. While pushing ones beliefs on others is indeed wrong, there are some times when you have to. Cannibals, serial killers, etc. often believe that what they are doing is right. I suppose it's pushing our moral beliefs on others if we arrest criminals?
That's just the point i was criticizing however. The argument that because i believe i'll rot after my death & will be eaten by worms - a proposition i consider to be true - does not automatically lead to having no reason to think and act morally, nor to amoral actions.
The existence of a supreme arbiter and reward/penalty after life is not necessary for me to behave in a decent way.
The reasons to act morally can be drawn from any number of fields, philosophy, psychology, social evolution, neurology, or even evolution through natural selection: Altruism is an advantageous tactic for a species of pack animals and cursorial hunters as we are.


The pretention that we need a god to behave in a moral way is ... pretentious at best (also, my english teacher is now turning in her grave :p ). Lack of a divine reason to act moral does not mean lack of reason to act moral - the proposition that there is a moral framework only through the existence of a supreme being is a) wrong, and b) catastrophic.


As to the discussion of punishing cannibals, serial killers, etc.. for transgression, that hasn't necessarily much to do with pushing our moral beliefs unto them, but protecting our society. It's a wholly different discussion - the morals of law vs. justice.






Many religions do not believe that their religion is the "One Truth" (Hinduism, among others). Those that do such things are usually either not going by the actual religious teachings ("thou shalt not kill", for example) or extremists who should not represent the rest of the community. That some of the religious people believe that they are right has no bearing on the argument of whether divinity exists.
I concede that bigotted or violent extremists don't represent the majority of the faithful, and i concede that the existence of someone like that doesn't disprove the existence of god.


It merely makes me wonder how, considering the fact that faith was a necessary requirement for evil actions of some, others who share their faith can hold the opinion that it is a good thing, and why they refuse to divorce themselves from factions who demonstrably aren't following the tenets of leading a good and peaceful life.


That not all religions consider themselves to be the One Truth is a given, but the reality is that many do. My Criticism is for those evangelical ones - a word i quite clearly stated in my previous post. Religious people who do not act in an evangelical way are obviously exempt.
But the inbuilt evangelism is were those religions become annoying and or dangerous - because they assert that they are the One Truth, and they need to convert others - conversionism is the very key principle of evangelism, though hardly exclusive to christian religions. That very behavior is why they go out & destroy other peoples lives, and not only people they do not know, but also people who are their (unbelieving) friends, to save their souls.
They interfere into others lives, destroy whole cultures, antagonize people who believe different than they do, based simply on the very notions that their god is the one true god, their faith is the one true faith, and that souls need saving.


Is it so far fetched that before i tolerate this, proof of existence or relevance be brought first?


As I said previously, many religions do not believe this and with those that do, most do not act on it, besides extremists and the ignorant and, as I said, it has no meaning in the argument atheists are posing.
There may be some religions that do not act on it, but many aggressively do, and cause harm to hundreds of millions. Proof of necessity remains owed.


Don't understand me wrong: i do not assert that every faithful is an evil being, not at all. I'm simply saying that if, through your faith, you decide to meddle into someone elses affairs, the burden of proof to justify this remains on you.


Atheists aren't going out there & saying condoms are bad because their faith forbids them.
Atheists aren't treating women as second rate human beings because their faith tells them so.
Atheists don't discriminate based on their faith.
etc..


Nothing of what i wrote disproves the existence of god. But if you do anything that adversely affects others because of your faith, you better damn well be able to prove the existence of god to justify this. And thus my central argument:


The burden of proof remains with the believers, not the atheists.


If your faith makes you do good things, keeps you from doing bad things, and you don't go out of your way to interfere with other people's lives - then we don't have a problem. I may contend that all this would be possible without faith, but if the process and end result are fine, it's fairly pointless arguing the reason behind it. There are many faithful who act in such a way - those, i have no problem with, and try not to annoy with my unreligiousness :p
 

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Deviate said:
Actually, atheists doesn't make the assertion that god/goddess/whatever couldn't exist. We simply make the assertion that there's nothing to support it's existence and thus we don't believe in it. We don't state as fact that there is no god. We just point out how unlikely it is, given the complete and utter lack of any supporting evidence or even indication.
A lack of belief in religion but acknowledgement of the possibility of it's truth, however unlikely, falls under agnosticism, does it not?

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You just made a claim of fact, by the way. "God cannot be known or observed physically." First off, the Bible itself proves otherwise by manifesting God in any number of ways, including him interacting directly with the world through 'miracles'. If even one of these can be proven to come from any kind of divine source, observed in modern day and unexplained by science, we can start talking about there being indications. If you still think your statement holds validity... back it up with something.

I did not specifically mean the Christian God in this case. I admit, however, that I was making a bit of a generalization here. Some religions do believe this, even some Christians. Soren Kierkegaard saw God as a concept that cannot be understood through physical evidence, unmeasurable and only experienced through feeling. In addition, most stories in the Bible can be seen as allegory, rather than literal depictions of what God has done. In discussion of the possibility of God, it is sensible to believe that if one exists, he cannot be observed by humanity, for it is not possible currently. While this may not be true, there is no evidence against a God that cannot be proven objectively because such a God cannot be proven objectively. I should note that by "observed", I mean in an objective, scientific fashion, that is indisputable to other people. Prophets such as Jesus did not have the ability to prove the existence of God to others because they had no ability to see God objectively.
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The logic is perfectly simple: There is no indication whatsoever that it exists. Thus, there's absolutely no reason to believe in its existence. This isn't denial of its existence, but acknowledgment of it being highly unlikely and that it can't be considered a fact. I still want to know how you back up the claim that divine beings can't be observed in nature? Sure, there hasn't been one observed in nature, but this indicates its absence, not any particular property of its existence.
I don't want you to believe in its existence. It is perfectly logical to not believe while acknowledging the possibility of divinity existing, however unlikely it may seem to you but that is not atheism, it is agnosticism. Atheists believe that there is no divinity, for whatever reason they do, usually for lack of evidence. Some atheists claim that atheism is the lack of belief in a particular religion, believing it to be unlikely that the religions are true but this overlaps strongly with agnosticism.

Also, the acknowledgement that the existence of divinity cannot be considered a "fact" but is still possible implies that a lack of divinity is just as unprovable, as there is still a chance of divinity existing. This belief in the unprovability of divinity and the lack thereof is very much analogous to agnosticism rather than atheism.

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Have no reason to think morally? Odd, here I thought I was a paramedic and a rather nice person to my social circle. I certainly do have a reason to think morally and I have absolutely no need for some ridiculous notion of an afterlife to spur me towards moral actions. I act in a moral and kind fashion to the society around me because this will improve both the society itself and my own position in it. I work towards a better tomorrow because when I am gone, others will live in my place. Empathy, morals and so on have absolutely no need for fairy tales to perpetuate themselves. Your claims that we have no reason to think morally is rather telling of your inability to consider these things without the threat of some punishment beyond death. Very sad.
The lack of a reason to think morally does not mean that all atheists lack morality, they still follow the moral ideas that were taught to them by society. Most of these ideas, in western society, developed from Christianity (for instance, charity). The fact that you are a moral person has no bearing on whether atheists have a reason to be moral. Then again, your "moral" behaviour apparently is due to your wish to improve your position in society and the society itself, which is selfish, not to mention pointless as we all die in the end anyway. Those who will live in your place are irrelevant also because they will die. No one will live a moral life unless they believe in a Moral law or if living a moral life will benefit them somehow.

Deviate said:
As for arresting criminals and so on, these are concepts that fit just as much within atheism as any religious train of thought.
The difference is that, if there is no Moral law that exists beyond our world, which cannot exist without an immortal lawgiver of some kind, then all morality is subjective, so punishing criminals is an attempt to push our subjective moral beliefs upon them. Because the justice system believes in a true Moral law, they attempt to refine the justice system to be closer to it, and therefore more just.


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Oh but it does, because all of them can't be right. Odd isn't it, that there's so many different claims of 'The One Truth' if there's just one truth? You'd think the 'right' one would have been dominant somehow. The thing is, whether or not religions believe they are 'the one truth' or whether or not the harm comes from extremists... it's all rooted in religion and was the primary motivator for whichever atrocity one points at at the time. Remove one part of that equation and a hundred excuses for atrocities disappear.
Hinduism sees different religions as differing ways of reaching divinity and claims that they are all right. In relation to your "remove one part" idea, if you had a class of schoolchildren who were on a field trip and one student, out of around a hundred does something that is obviously dangerous and wrong, would you take the entire class back from the trip? If they hadn't gone on the trip, the child wouldn't have done it. Does that justify removing all 99 other students' right to go on a trip? Obviously not. If you had a scientist who had a theory that could, if correct, be extraordinary, but in his study of the theory, he goes to far with an experiment and someone gets hurt. Does this cause the theory to be any less viable? No. The cruelty of some members of religions does not factor into whether religion is correct or not, nor should it cause other members of the religion to be criticised for their belief.
 

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Close-minded people are my problem. I just don't get why my being non-christian or democrat suddenly means that I'm going to h*** or that I'm evil and eat puppies for breakfast.
Welcome to America, land of the paranoid conservative. But if you think it's bad being a non-Christian, try being an Atheist like me.
To tell the truth, I am as well, but I tend not to reveal it too often because the second greatest problem I have with open-mindedness is people who just don't understand that there are people out there who are non-religious that DON'T want to be converted!
 

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Atheism doesn't make sense to me at all. I don't think there's any way that the universe was just created at random and that everything's just the result of chance. Seems silly to me.
 

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For me, it's people who either attack or defend religion without having done any study of the history of said religion to understand its origins, and why it was so important at conception. On the same note, people who decide to attack the faith, rather than the morons causing the anger in the first place. This extends to conservative Christians attacking Islam, and Atheists attacking Christianity. In the words of someone far cooler than I, "Hate the players, not the game!"
 

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Incest is the only thing i can think that people practice without remorse that i find completly wrong.
oh and the pony fandom.
 

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Deviate said:
Religion. I can't wrap my head around willful delusions like that. Yes, I know it's not the popular stance to take, nor politically correct, but I just can't look at any of the religions I know and figure out why people believe in it. It's got the same factual weight as santa claus and makes about as much sense from any logical perspective and yet these religions are not only widespread beliefs but it's political and at times even social suicide to speak against them.

It's mindboggling to me. There's no scientifically backed indication of any of it having even a nugget of truth to it and yet it's 'narrowminded' or 'hateful' to point out the ridiculousness of it all.

I'll of course respect anyone's right to believe in these things, but the most aneurysm inducing part of it all is that there's no respect given to those who believe religion holds about as much water as a sieve.
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Togs said:
The religious, I dont get how people can overlook the barbarity and outmoded moral concepts thats rife throughout religion. I dont get how these people can then say they hold the moral high ground, that as an atheist Im spiritually dead and morally suspect.
If Im totally honest it makes me very angry.
Seems to me that you have only met one kind of religious person.

Mine would be those who refuse to have an open mind or consider others at any point. Street Preachers are amongst the worst, they turn up and try to convert as many as possible and condemn those who don't believe. As a Christian, it makes me feel quite embarassed and ashamed that my beliefs are even similar to their own. But it's also the ignorant that I can't understand, surely it isn't THAT hard to look from another's point of view once in a blue moon?
Agreed! it annoys me when people like that decide to force there religion onto others for whatever reason. It's a belief!! They should stop throwing it at people like it's a fact. Let people seek religion out for themselves. Better, start proving to people the positive things that religious people can do and bring like charity raising awareness on some sickness. There are a lot of good religious people out there. Hell I'm kinda one of them, very, VERY casual mind you. But still, it pisses me off when I get lumped in with those arrogant zealots. This goes for atheists as well. Stop trying to convince people God doesn't exist. You're just doing the same thing the religious nut jobs do, trying to change someone's beliefs.
 

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Togs said:
The religious, I dont get how people can overlook the barbarity and outmoded moral concepts thats rife throughout religion. I dont get how these people can then say they hold the moral high ground, that as an atheist Im spiritually dead and morally suspect.
If Im totally honest it makes me very angry.
This, so much this.

Every time I poke a huge whole in how BS a religion is (I don't actively do this btw) people I know just shrug and say "that's what I believe".
Problem is, religion is inherently irrational. You cannot say it's BS objectively, because there's nothing to prove or disprove it. Science is the complete opposite--a rational, evidence and observation based discipline.

Just a note: I don't mean "rational" in the sense of "correct". I mean that Religion is accepting something for which there is no concrete scientific evidence on faith alone, while science cannot work that way.
 

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...you try to be, there's always that one thing you can't wrap your head around.

For me, it's people who aren't moved by music, people who are fine with listening to the radio or club music because it's easy to dance to or it's simple, people who don't go looking for music that inspires them or brings out all manner of emotion/feeling to the surface (be it joy, excitement, anger, passion etc). These are the things I can't accept/understand, no matter how wide I open my mind.

So what's your one thing that you can't grasp?
This would be one of the things I don't understand. Music plays such an important part of my life (no pun intended).
 

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Suicide.

I can't wrap my head around people who cannot find any scrap of a reason to continue living and the only solution they feel they can turn to is taking their own life.

A wise man once said: "A suicide isn't painless, if you leave everyone in pain."

As an offshoot of suicide, I'll say that self-harming is definitely another thing that I cannot grasp. I genuinely find it hard to take pity on people who hurt themselves as a way of dealing with their problems. There's enough people trying to hurt us in this world without successfully doing it ourselves....
Well some self harming behaviour is compulsive.

I dont really see a problem with suicide. Its PersonX's life. If they want to end it they should be allowed to. Not everyone gets the happy-go-lucky life. If the hand your holding is never going to win...is it really so wrong to fold?

I discourage suicide because if a person is suicidal due to depression they may just need medication to correct a chemical imbalance in their brain which isnt really their fault.

But if a person isnt clinically depressed and wants to kill themselves...well...i have no right to stop them.


And i cant stand: Homophobes and people who dislike religion/religious people...and nazis i guess. Thats about it.
 

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Togs said:
outmoded moral concepts
I'd say many religious moral concepts, particularly the core ones, are still relevant


Tips_of_Fingers said:
Suicide.

I can't wrap my head around people who cannot find any scrap of a reason to continue living and the only solution they feel they can turn to is taking their own life.

A wise man once said: "A suicide isn't painless, if you leave everyone in pain."

As an offshoot of suicide, I'll say that self-harming is definitely another thing that I cannot grasp. I genuinely find it hard to take pity on people who hurt themselves as a way of dealing with their problems. There's enough people trying to hurt us in this world without successfully doing it ourselves....
People who don't understand why people commit suicide are practically always people who've never experienced the emotion that suicidal people feel. You'd understand if you did. Self harming is often cathartic for the people who do it.

Personally, I don't understand people who don't listen to music, homophobes, probably a few others that I can't think of right now.
 

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People who think fighting is important, who ridicule people for not having muscles or sucking at fighting. What the heck does it matter in this civilized society of ours?
Even in this civil society, there's a place for civilized sparring. It helps keep you fit and strong, teaches you how to defend yourself if you're attacked, and it's a great way of getting out aggressive energy in a non-harmful way. Plus, it's kinda fun.

It's an unfortunate stereotype that a friendly, smart individual can't also be athletic. I think physical health is just as essential to happiness as mental and spiritual health; in fact, the different kinds of health are mostly symbiotic.
 

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Semudara said:
orangeban said:
People who think fighting is important, who ridicule people for not having muscles or sucking at fighting. What the heck does it matter in this civilized society of ours?
Even in this civil society, there's a place for civilized sparring. It helps keep you fit and strong, teaches you how to defend yourself if you're attacked, and it's a great way of getting out aggressive energy in a non-harmful way. Plus, it's kinda fun.

It's an unfortunate stereotype that a friendly, smart individual can't also be athletic. I think physical health is just as essential to happiness and mental and spiritual health; in fact, the different kinds of health are mostly symbiotic.
Oh, I didn't deny that there was a space for fighting in society, what frustrates and confuses me are the kind of people who think that being good at fighting is more important than, say, chess, and the kind of people who insult people because they suck at fighting.
 

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i cannot understand people that so passionately align with racist/homophobic/sexist ideology's. i'm talking fox news republicans, and my neighbors (burn).
 

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How narrow minded, and short sighted, most people are. In short, how many people lack a sense of perspective beyond their everyday lives, coupled with their unwillingness to change or accept change. Bigotry is essentially the worlds only problem (sure overpopulation, and dwindling resources are big, but if we got over it they would fall into place easily), and the fact that people don't seem to realize that is shocking to me.