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PhantomEcho said:
Burningsok said:
This is turning into something that looks like a flame war. Hm, I for some reason, love reading all these comments regarding religion. I'm constantly trying to find new arguments made between theists and atheists. so far it's getting good :)

look... whats the point? All the debate boils down to is points that are so insanely subjective that it becomes a waste of time even attempting to use one of them as an argument. The arguments overlap each other, canceling each other out because they have little to no bearing on solid logic and reason. The only bearing they truly have are their significance to the person using the arguments "This value is more important then that value" kind of thing. How it feels to you. It becomes an opinion, and nothing more.

Religion isn't the cause of millions of deaths, it's us. We created religion. blame the people using it for selfish reasons instead of the religion itself. Religion is a blank slate, and like many other things, it can be morphed in ways that can benefit, or hurt others. We should be using it for the betterment of society, but there are a lot of people who use and abuse religion to insane levels. We are the most advanced species on the planet, and yet we are scared religion (to clarify, the extreme kind) will corrupt us all.

Now... if any escapist wishes to, reply on my stance. Would like to here if I've missed a point, or something is off. I'd also like to know if you disagree. Don't hold back :)

I've read through this entire thread, now...

... and every time I saw one of these folks bring up religion, I cringed. Religious folks, and I say this referring to -real- religious folks... not the kind that talk the good talk and then go on to use their faith to justify bigotry and persecution by treating anyone that disagrees like an uncivilized barbarian, are generally good folks. They're not deluded. They're not idiots. They're not whack jobs. They're people who believe in something because they cannot fathom things working in a different way.

I often tell people who talk to me in a civilized manner about religion that "Yes, I believe in a God. But -my- God was a scientist".

I also suspect that we were once infinitely more civilized and advanced technologically than we are now... but I don't try to ramrod that suspicion down anyone else's throat just like I wouldn't want someone to impose their faith upon me. It's good to have things to believe in. Folks can talk all they want about 'weak wills needing faith'... but faith comes from WITHIN. We have the propensity for it, because we are programmed to. Because we're wired to believe in things... to see things... to try to make meaningful connections.

For some people that's cold, hard rationality. For others... it's mysticism and belief and magic. And you know what? That's GREAT! It's a wonderful thing! It's a great big, amazing universe we live in... and if you can't cope with the scope or the size or the reality... than I don't care WHAT you have to think. Go right on ahead and think it. Because there's so much of it, if you don't want to be crushed under the weight of it all... I don't blame you.

But me, I love to absorb myself in it. I study religions. I study doctrine, and philosophy. They're all tools of the human mind.


And what I don't... what I can't... what I -refuse- to justify with thought... is the idea that people are so willfully ignorant that they can't see the roles that these things play. We don't need to abolish faith to allow reason to expand and grow. We don't need every person who THINKS to find faith.

What we need are people who know how to put their differences aside and COMMUNICATE.

All the logic, all the faith, all the understanding in the universe won't make up for the failures of communication which currently lead us down a dark road to our ultimate demise.

So hey! While the atheists and the Christians and the Muslims and the Jews... while the Scientologists and the Quakers and the... er... 'isms' over there in Asia... while all those folks' loud, obnoxious cousins are busy duking it out over the age of the world... let's find some fellow minds with a SMALL spark of imagination left in 'em, and get to work on LEAVING this damn rock! We need to get out there, and we need to make it a priority. We're squandering resources at far too great a rate to justify dragging our feet now.
See this? This post is the ONLY post that I seen here that was actually intelligent. Thank you. Thank you for writing this.
 

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...close-minded, inflexible people that are first to judge and throw stones instead of asking questions. Seriously, we live in such wonderful times, we see things that only a few decades ago were considered hard SF and still, one of most favourite words seems to be "impossible".

O Tempora, o mores...
 

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PhantomEcho said:
Burningsok said:
This is turning into something that looks like a flame war. Hm, I for some reason, love reading all these comments regarding religion. I'm constantly trying to find new arguments made between theists and atheists. so far it's getting good :)

look... whats the point? All the debate boils down to is points that are so insanely subjective that it becomes a waste of time even attempting to use one of them as an argument. The arguments overlap each other, canceling each other out because they have little to no bearing on solid logic and reason. The only bearing they truly have are their significance to the person using the arguments "This value is more important then that value" kind of thing. How it feels to you. It becomes an opinion, and nothing more.

Religion isn't the cause of millions of deaths, it's us. We created religion. blame the people using it for selfish reasons instead of the religion itself. Religion is a blank slate, and like many other things, it can be morphed in ways that can benefit, or hurt others. We should be using it for the betterment of society, but there are a lot of people who use and abuse religion to insane levels. We are the most advanced species on the planet, and yet we are scared religion (to clarify, the extreme kind) will corrupt us all.

Now... if any escapist wishes to, reply on my stance. Would like to here if I've missed a point, or something is off. I'd also like to know if you disagree. Don't hold back :)

I've read through this entire thread, now...

... and every time I saw one of these folks bring up religion, I cringed. Religious folks, and I say this referring to -real- religious folks... not the kind that talk the good talk and then go on to use their faith to justify bigotry and persecution by treating anyone that disagrees like an uncivilized barbarian, are generally good folks. They're not deluded. They're not idiots. They're not whack jobs. They're people who believe in something because they cannot fathom things working in a different way.

I often tell people who talk to me in a civilized manner about religion that "Yes, I believe in a God. But -my- God was a scientist".

I also suspect that we were once infinitely more civilized and advanced technologically than we are now... but I don't try to ramrod that suspicion down anyone else's throat just like I wouldn't want someone to impose their faith upon me. It's good to have things to believe in. Folks can talk all they want about 'weak wills needing faith'... but faith comes from WITHIN. We have the propensity for it, because we are programmed to. Because we're wired to believe in things... to see things... to try to make meaningful connections.

For some people that's cold, hard rationality. For others... it's mysticism and belief and magic. And you know what? That's GREAT! It's a wonderful thing! It's a great big, amazing universe we live in... and if you can't cope with the scope or the size or the reality... than I don't care WHAT you have to think. Go right on ahead and think it. Because there's so much of it, if you don't want to be crushed under the weight of it all... I don't blame you.

But me, I love to absorb myself in it. I study religions. I study doctrine, and philosophy. They're all tools of the human mind.


And what I don't... what I can't... what I -refuse- to justify with thought... is the idea that people are so willfully ignorant that they can't see the roles that these things play. We don't need to abolish faith to allow reason to expand and grow. We don't need every person who THINKS to find faith.

What we need are people who know how to put their differences aside and COMMUNICATE.

All the logic, all the faith, all the understanding in the universe won't make up for the failures of communication which currently lead us down a dark road to our ultimate demise.

So hey! While the atheists and the Christians and the Muslims and the Jews... while the Scientologists and the Quakers and the... er... 'isms' over there in Asia... while all those folks' loud, obnoxious cousins are busy duking it out over the age of the world... let's find some fellow minds with a SMALL spark of imagination left in 'em, and get to work on LEAVING this damn rock! We need to get out there, and we need to make it a priority. We're squandering resources at far too great a rate to justify dragging our feet now.
I... don't think I could of said it any better :)
 
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Ooh. Look at all of the lovely little Social Darwinists on here.

Personally, I don't understand two things: Not being able to articulate your opinions or views, and the debate as to whether God/the Afterlife exists.

But it's the debate that really gets me. On one side, the religious: Their proof of His/Its existence is their scripture, beliefs, and oral traditions; and they patently refuse to either accept the possibility of being incorrect, plug their ears and go lalala whenever someone says something rational that contravenes one of their many beliefs. On the other, Atheists: They run on rationalism, proof, and scientific method (and no, that scripture doesn't count, you smelly caveman skyworshiper); and patently refuse to acknowledge that there is no way to disprove the Divine and that no matter how infinitesimally small the probability of the Divine's existence, it is not disprovable, plug their ears and go lalala whenever the religious are doing things other than molesting children and fighting the infidels.
 

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Nimcha said:
I think I can understand most people's motives, even if I don't share them. But I will never understand people who deny themselves happiness in some way.
I can speak for this one.

Being one of these people and having a friend who's the same its mostly self esteem or some sort of self hatred. Occasionally its also the fact that some people seriously love being unhappy.

Necron_warrior said:
I don't understand people who do things 'out of the goodness of their heart'. There's no profit for the doer, unless the doer has the ideas of favours in mind, it just seems illogical to me.
Understandable but for those of us who do that we do get something out of it, the idea that you made someone happier.

OT: I don't understand any of the ists. Racist, sexist, or homophobic (Not an ist technically but shut up) we are all people, why should anyone be treated like less then a person for being who they are? (I'm looking at you Rick Perry)
 

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PhantomEcho said:
Burningsok said:
This is turning into something that looks like a flame war. Hm, I for some reason, love reading all these comments regarding religion. I'm constantly trying to find new arguments made between theists and atheists. so far it's getting good :)

look... whats the point? All the debate boils down to is points that are so insanely subjective that it becomes a waste of time even attempting to use one of them as an argument. The arguments overlap each other, canceling each other out because they have little to no bearing on solid logic and reason. The only bearing they truly have are their significance to the person using the arguments "This value is more important then that value" kind of thing. How it feels to you. It becomes an opinion, and nothing more.

Religion isn't the cause of millions of deaths, it's us. We created religion. blame the people using it for selfish reasons instead of the religion itself. Religion is a blank slate, and like many other things, it can be morphed in ways that can benefit, or hurt others. We should be using it for the betterment of society, but there are a lot of people who use and abuse religion to insane levels. We are the most advanced species on the planet, and yet we are scared religion (to clarify, the extreme kind) will corrupt us all.

Now... if any escapist wishes to, reply on my stance. Would like to here if I've missed a point, or something is off. I'd also like to know if you disagree. Don't hold back :)

I've read through this entire thread, now...

... and every time I saw one of these folks bring up religion, I cringed. Religious folks, and I say this referring to -real- religious folks... not the kind that talk the good talk and then go on to use their faith to justify bigotry and persecution by treating anyone that disagrees like an uncivilized barbarian, are generally good folks. They're not deluded. They're not idiots. They're not whack jobs. They're people who believe in something because they cannot fathom things working in a different way.

I often tell people who talk to me in a civilized manner about religion that "Yes, I believe in a God. But -my- God was a scientist".

I also suspect that we were once infinitely more civilized and advanced technologically than we are now... but I don't try to ramrod that suspicion down anyone else's throat just like I wouldn't want someone to impose their faith upon me. It's good to have things to believe in. Folks can talk all they want about 'weak wills needing faith'... but faith comes from WITHIN. We have the propensity for it, because we are programmed to. Because we're wired to believe in things... to see things... to try to make meaningful connections.

For some people that's cold, hard rationality. For others... it's mysticism and belief and magic. And you know what? That's GREAT! It's a wonderful thing! It's a great big, amazing universe we live in... and if you can't cope with the scope or the size or the reality... than I don't care WHAT you have to think. Go right on ahead and think it. Because there's so much of it, if you don't want to be crushed under the weight of it all... I don't blame you.

But me, I love to absorb myself in it. I study religions. I study doctrine, and philosophy. They're all tools of the human mind.


And what I don't... what I can't... what I -refuse- to justify with thought... is the idea that people are so willfully ignorant that they can't see the roles that these things play. We don't need to abolish faith to allow reason to expand and grow. We don't need every person who THINKS to find faith.

What we need are people who know how to put their differences aside and COMMUNICATE.

All the logic, all the faith, all the understanding in the universe won't make up for the failures of communication which currently lead us down a dark road to our ultimate demise.

So hey! While the atheists and the Christians and the Muslims and the Jews... while the Scientologists and the Quakers and the... er... 'isms' over there in Asia... while all those folks' loud, obnoxious cousins are busy duking it out over the age of the world... let's find some fellow minds with a SMALL spark of imagination left in 'em, and get to work on LEAVING this damn rock! We need to get out there, and we need to make it a priority. We're squandering resources at far too great a rate to justify dragging our feet now.
A great post, and a good answer!
Faith, or lack of it, is just one way ot understand the world. For in the end, it all boils down to all induviduals beeing different.
I myself am an atheist, a follower of what you call "cold" realism, and while I might never truly understand religious people, I know and have the uttermost respect for my fellow humans.
For that is what they are, firstly humans and then people of faith.
Example: I have always been standing for my point of view, and in the heat of discussion prehaps fallen to riddiculing my opponents views. (Never on religion, but on other forms of superstition).
But on the same time I know and greatly respect my local priest, having discussed with him and agreeing on some things.

I don't understand them, but that does not make them any less worth.
But if I have to hear another word from my classmates explaining natural phenomenoms with gosts, I will stand for my view, same as they with my flameshield raised high and my own flamethrower laying at the ready.
For only throught arguing might we find the other.
 

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People who liked The Big Lebowski. I've seen it more than once, on and off drugs, still just don't get it.
 

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I can't for the life of me understand why video games companies (and I'm being very loose in using the term), keep releasing all that shovelware you see taking up most of the shelf space at your local game retailer. Who actually buys them, and are they really selling enough to keep making more of them? The world may never know...
 

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Ultra-Chronic Monstah said:
-KC- said:
Gudrests said:
Ultra-Chronic Monstah said:

One thing I failed to make very clear (which many of you picked up on) is that the sort of crime I was reffering to is crime that is done PURELY for personal gain, such as theft, with no selfless intentions. Furhtermore, the kind of thing I had in mind was crime commited where it wasn't neccesarrily needed, where the criminal was just trying to get a bit more money or satisfaction even though they may not have needed it. I shouldn't have overlooked the desperation argument so hastily before posting, I understand your point, but it was a stupid mistake of me not to make it clear what i really meant. "Selfishness" is probably what I should have said I didn't understand, to make it more specific.

jonnosferatu said:
Going to get suspended for this, but you're a moron.
So, you made an offensive quote for no constructive reason despite realising that doing so would net you a ban... and I'm the moron?

I can see why you would think my post to be stupid, it was a mistake on my part to overlook so many good and plainly obvious counter arguments, but there's no need to be childish about it.
 

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orangeban said:
People who think fighting is important, who ridicule people for not having muscles or sucking at fighting. What the heck does it matter in this civilized society of ours?
I matters a lot, actually, because our society is not civilized. At least, it has not yet reached that level of civilization where violence does not happen. We are still as fractious and violent as we have always been. Understand that even in the most mellow city on the planet, there will be people that will turn to violence to solve their problems.

It is highly probable that at some point in a person's life, that person will have to deal with a violent situation they cannot get out of with good sense or a quick mind. If that person cannot respond physically, they will not come out on top. That is why being able to fight is important.

I'm sorry, but to state that people don't have to or shouldn't have to fight bespeaks a naive mind or a lack of understanding of our species. I, too, wish an end to violence, but I have accepted that it will never happen, at least in my lifetime.
 

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Stekepanne5 said:
PhantomEcho said:
Burningsok said:
This is turning into something that looks like a flame war. Hm, I for some reason, love reading all these comments regarding religion. I'm constantly trying to find new arguments made between theists and atheists. so far it's getting good :)

look... whats the point? All the debate boils down to is points that are so insanely subjective that it becomes a waste of time even attempting to use one of them as an argument. The arguments overlap each other, canceling each other out because they have little to no bearing on solid logic and reason. The only bearing they truly have are their significance to the person using the arguments "This value is more important then that value" kind of thing. How it feels to you. It becomes an opinion, and nothing more.

Religion isn't the cause of millions of deaths, it's us. We created religion. blame the people using it for selfish reasons instead of the religion itself. Religion is a blank slate, and like many other things, it can be morphed in ways that can benefit, or hurt others. We should be using it for the betterment of society, but there are a lot of people who use and abuse religion to insane levels. We are the most advanced species on the planet, and yet we are scared religion (to clarify, the extreme kind) will corrupt us all.

Now... if any escapist wishes to, reply on my stance. Would like to here if I've missed a point, or something is off. I'd also like to know if you disagree. Don't hold back :)

I've read through this entire thread, now...

... and every time I saw one of these folks bring up religion, I cringed. Religious folks, and I say this referring to -real- religious folks... not the kind that talk the good talk and then go on to use their faith to justify bigotry and persecution by treating anyone that disagrees like an uncivilized barbarian, are generally good folks. They're not deluded. They're not idiots. They're not whack jobs. They're people who believe in something because they cannot fathom things working in a different way.

I often tell people who talk to me in a civilized manner about religion that "Yes, I believe in a God. But -my- God was a scientist".

I also suspect that we were once infinitely more civilized and advanced technologically than we are now... but I don't try to ramrod that suspicion down anyone else's throat just like I wouldn't want someone to impose their faith upon me. It's good to have things to believe in. Folks can talk all they want about 'weak wills needing faith'... but faith comes from WITHIN. We have the propensity for it, because we are programmed to. Because we're wired to believe in things... to see things... to try to make meaningful connections.

For some people that's cold, hard rationality. For others... it's mysticism and belief and magic. And you know what? That's GREAT! It's a wonderful thing! It's a great big, amazing universe we live in... and if you can't cope with the scope or the size or the reality... than I don't care WHAT you have to think. Go right on ahead and think it. Because there's so much of it, if you don't want to be crushed under the weight of it all... I don't blame you.

But me, I love to absorb myself in it. I study religions. I study doctrine, and philosophy. They're all tools of the human mind.


And what I don't... what I can't... what I -refuse- to justify with thought... is the idea that people are so willfully ignorant that they can't see the roles that these things play. We don't need to abolish faith to allow reason to expand and grow. We don't need every person who THINKS to find faith.

What we need are people who know how to put their differences aside and COMMUNICATE.

All the logic, all the faith, all the understanding in the universe won't make up for the failures of communication which currently lead us down a dark road to our ultimate demise.

So hey! While the atheists and the Christians and the Muslims and the Jews... while the Scientologists and the Quakers and the... er... 'isms' over there in Asia... while all those folks' loud, obnoxious cousins are busy duking it out over the age of the world... let's find some fellow minds with a SMALL spark of imagination left in 'em, and get to work on LEAVING this damn rock! We need to get out there, and we need to make it a priority. We're squandering resources at far too great a rate to justify dragging our feet now.
A great post, and a good answer!
Faith, or lack of it, is just one way ot understand the world. For in the end, it all boils down to all induviduals beeing different.
I myself am an atheist, a follower of what you call "cold" realism, and while I might never truly understand religious people, I know and have the uttermost respect for my fellow humans.
For that is what they are, firstly humans and then people of faith.
Example: I have always been standing for my point of view, and in the heat of discussion prehaps fallen to riddiculing my opponents views. (Never on religion, but on other forms of superstition).
But on the same time I know and greatly respect my local priest, having discussed with him and agreeing on some things.

I don't understand them, but that does not make them any less worth.
But if I have to hear another word from my classmates explaining natural phenomenoms with gosts, I will stand for my view, same as they with my flameshield raised high and my own flamethrower laying at the ready.
For only throught arguing might we find the other.

Haha, I wanted to comment on this post of yours (and a few other folks who praised my response) by condensing my original thought into a smaller, more concise one. Ironically enough, the act of replying to your post by quoting it... and subsequently my own, actually only served to make the post larger.

That being said, here is the best way to put it.

"It doesn't take a God, or faith, to make a man a zealot."

We've all got a zealot in us... just waiting for the right cause to support. Some of us, thankfully, never find it. Others turn to faith. Others turn to a lack of faith. Others turn to XBOX. Others turn to PS3. The list is too numerous to count.

But when that zealot comes out, it redefines us. We become defined by our ideals and ideology rather than our actions and our merits. We begin associating ourselves with a cause, rather than as a stand-up individual.

And lastly, we stop listening to what other people have to say as scholars.

Instead, we 'hear them out' as the opposition, before launching a counter.
 

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People who dye their hair.

I can handle nose rings, nipple piercings, earrings, belly-button rings, and tattoos, but dying your hair, or altering any aspect of your body that you were born with just doesn't feel right.

Same with any cosmetic surgery.
Piercings, why would you want to stab little holes in yourself to insert shiny things?
 

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Zio_IV said:
I can't for the life of me understand why video games companies (and I'm being very loose in using the term), keep releasing all that shovelware you see taking up most of the shelf space at your local game retailer. Who actually buys them, and are they really selling enough to keep making more of them? The world may never know...
If it wouldn't sell, why would it take up most of the shelf space? ;)
 

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Foot, and scat fetishists. I have NO clue what people find attractive about these things, and I have no intention of ever finding out.
 

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Metal, I just can't understand what's so amazing about it and I can't get into it.

I know this place used to have a lot of metalheads, not sure about now though.
 

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People who hate and degrade women. I can't wrap my head around someone who belittles another person because she possesses a vagina. I don't get guys who yell at their girlfriends / wives / moms. I don't understand slut shaming. Really pisses me off when I hear of a guy doing it and it lowers my opinion of him to nothing.
 

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The thought of having empathy, sympathy, and generally caring for your fellow man I just don't understand what the point is, if my feelings and actions are not going to benefit me then why have those feelings or do those actions that is something I just can't comprehend.
 

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Those of you who say they can't understand religious people who have no evidence for their faith, neither do I. That's because there are a small selection of religious people who fit this bill, the others have sense. There is an entire field of study known as apologetics that deals with evidence for the Christian faith. I can't explain all of it now, because comments are limited in scope and open to misunderstandings. Look it up.

And for those of you who claim religion is stupid, or for the weak who need a crutch of comfort, I ask that you do some research, rather than deciding what you want to be true.

A simple point of apologetics as an example. Creation is a belief system that predicts many unrelated dead fossils. Evolution is a faith system that predicts infinite connecting fossils using an as of yet undefined mechanism to improve upon DNA through harmful mutations.

I dunno if my email address is available to those who view this comment, but answers are readily available online. If you won't ask the questions, don't claim there isn't an answer.
 

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summerof2010 said:
Regarding the categorical imperative, I think I expressed it poorly.

I meant to say that the standard, non-religious ideology of people come from an "instinct" to preserve their race and what they've been told by society. That in it of itself has no basis for decision making. You bring up the Jehovah's witness situation but who's to say that death is wrong? It's natural, surely, so why is it so stigmatised? On the other hand, those who create some sort of artificial ruleset are, while logically sound in its sense of reason, don't actually have a proper basis. When you consider the whole universe and the laws of physics it follows, you would could only come to the conclusion that without a higher being, there's simply no general intent for our creation. A random sequence of events that happened to spawn life, which are still restricted by the same physics they were made by. Ethics are purely artificial for this reason but they're necessary in a society where complex thought processes are made. My point was that by following a religion, there's rules that can be relied upon for peace of mind or decision making. Whether someone believes in the religion or not is irrelevant because you must at least acknowledge the possibility of it, and that possibility grants more logical reasoning. Utilitarianism is an interesting concept, but there's even less reason to follow it than religion. These kind of things dwindle down to:

Killing is bad because society will collapse
Society must be strong or else people will suffer
Suffering is bad because ...
Suffering is bad because I don't like it.

As for the Tim Minchin thing, I suppose there isn't really a reason to live. But in contrast, there isn't a reason to die, either (sorry if I misinterpreted it, I just woke up). What happens in the universe is a sequence of events where (possibly) the only truly random things in the universe are radioactive decay and other quantum physics phenomenons. People will make decisions based on their past and knowledge, which have already been determined by the randomness of the universe and the initial big bang. I'm not completely sure as to whether the human thought process allows people to have free will, and without a deep knowledge of neurological science, I probably won't ever know, but acts which people do have no good, bad, right or wrong.

And in case you're wondering, I believe that humanity should try and balance a functional society which optimises happiness and wellbeing of not only humans but the environment and animals. That's just the way I was brought up, I suppose.