I don't want to count out anyone who hasn't had sex so this is quite a general topic. I was thinking about sex the other day, no real reason, just wishing I was having some at the moment. And I had a bit of a revelation. I understand that the human mind is somewhat geared towards sex. I've heard the male mind is cued up to think about sex every ten seconds or so. But what if you could turn that off? What if you decided to completely cut out sex from your life. How would your life improve and how would it get worse. Think about that. No sex drive at all. No thoughts, no urges, no need for sex. Nothing. How will it change your life.
I began thinking about this question from a bit of a logical standpoint. A lot more money in my pocket because of no sex. I thought about the amount of money I had spent in the last year simply going out to clubs hoping to get lucky that night. I thought about the money for dates, cabs and condoms. I thought about long distance calls to old flames, or new booty. Let me tell you, I spent a lot and really didn't get much sex in return. So without sex in my life I'd be a richer man. Though I once heard a great little quote "I've spent 90% on liquor and women, and the other 10% I waste". I don't plan on ever being rich because I ignore the fairer sex. And that isn't going to change.
Moving on, I thought about time. Time spent stressing over a girl I liked. The time spent making plans, hanging out, and the amount of time in the bedroom (Which, compared to the other two, is hardly worth mentioning). This one is a little odd to me though, cause without the time in the bedroom, it's a lot like making a new friend. So without the sex, there is no change to my time. It's neither better nor worse from the hypothetical standpoint.
Lastly I've thought about motivation. What kinds of things have I done that have been motivated partly or entirely by sex? Well, I've driven over 30 hours in one weekend to see a girl. I've learned how to surf, play guitar, and sing all in an effort to impress various individuals. I've fought and won fights, I've also been a gracious looser of a majority of them too. All because someone was offended that I would ever talk to their lady. I've moved to a new city twice in one year. I've seen a concert of a lifetime I would have never gone to had my interest not wanted me to go. I've watched the sunset three times in the last year next to someone important. Maybe those things aren't all about sex, but it had something to do with it. And I'd never give up any of those moments. So no sex, would really make my life miserable.
So I want to hear your thoughts. Make it short, or make it long. Just be honest
I began thinking about this question from a bit of a logical standpoint. A lot more money in my pocket because of no sex. I thought about the amount of money I had spent in the last year simply going out to clubs hoping to get lucky that night. I thought about the money for dates, cabs and condoms. I thought about long distance calls to old flames, or new booty. Let me tell you, I spent a lot and really didn't get much sex in return. So without sex in my life I'd be a richer man. Though I once heard a great little quote "I've spent 90% on liquor and women, and the other 10% I waste". I don't plan on ever being rich because I ignore the fairer sex. And that isn't going to change.
Moving on, I thought about time. Time spent stressing over a girl I liked. The time spent making plans, hanging out, and the amount of time in the bedroom (Which, compared to the other two, is hardly worth mentioning). This one is a little odd to me though, cause without the time in the bedroom, it's a lot like making a new friend. So without the sex, there is no change to my time. It's neither better nor worse from the hypothetical standpoint.
Lastly I've thought about motivation. What kinds of things have I done that have been motivated partly or entirely by sex? Well, I've driven over 30 hours in one weekend to see a girl. I've learned how to surf, play guitar, and sing all in an effort to impress various individuals. I've fought and won fights, I've also been a gracious looser of a majority of them too. All because someone was offended that I would ever talk to their lady. I've moved to a new city twice in one year. I've seen a concert of a lifetime I would have never gone to had my interest not wanted me to go. I've watched the sunset three times in the last year next to someone important. Maybe those things aren't all about sex, but it had something to do with it. And I'd never give up any of those moments. So no sex, would really make my life miserable.
So I want to hear your thoughts. Make it short, or make it long. Just be honest
