Someone mentioned that 'CIS male tears' lady and I just realised my earlier comment about this guy was the opposite of what I said about her so I need to rethink my position as I may be caught in a hipocracy here.
Yeah I'm sure that happens allllll the time and just never gets remarked on. Not to mention his not notability.Queen Michael said:So he says women are oversensitive, and as a result women force him to resign? I know not all women agreed with that, but the ones who do really ought to think this through.
EDIT: Oh, and I can't recall ever seeing any single time when this happened to somebody criticizing whites, straight people, or men. Because apparently, the fact that we admittedly do have more privileges than anybody means people can say anything about you and it's okay.
Its not hypocrisy, just inconsistency. Hypocrisy is when you claim to believe something you don't, more or less. Its totally possible to hold conflicting or inconsistent beliefs without being hypocritical as long as you honestly hold those beliefs.Fieldy409 said:Someone mentioned that 'CIS male tears' lady and I just realised my earlier comment about this guy was the opposite of what I said about her so I need to rethink my position as I may be caught in a hipocracy here.
The response from the internet or the response by employers? The response by the internet seems to be similar, people crawling out of the woodwork crying about, "how dare you", acting offended until they collectively stop caring a week later, and creating petitions asking for the individual to be fired. Seems pretty similar to me, from Anita, to that London woman, to the dongle lady, the response seems pretty similar, the dongle lady did lose her job over it.Queen Michael said:So he says women are oversensitive, and as a result women force him to resign? I know not all women agreed with that, but the ones who do really ought to think this through.
EDIT: Oh, and I can't recall ever seeing any single time when this happened to somebody criticizing whites, straight people, or men. Because apparently, the fact that we admittedly do have more privileges than anybody means people can say anything about you and it's okay.
Dongle lady doesn't count. She got fired for getting somebody else fired, not for a remark.EternallyBored said:The response from the internet or the response by employers? The response by the internet seems to be similar, people crawling out of the woodwork crying about, "how dare you", acting offended until they collectively stop caring a week later, and creating petitions asking for the individual to be fired. Seems pretty similar to me, from Anita, to that London woman, to the dongle lady, the response seems pretty similar, the dongle lady did lose her job over it.Queen Michael said:So he says women are oversensitive, and as a result women force him to resign? I know not all women agreed with that, but the ones who do really ought to think this through.
EDIT: Oh, and I can't recall ever seeing any single time when this happened to somebody criticizing whites, straight people, or men. Because apparently, the fact that we admittedly do have more privileges than anybody means people can say anything about you and it's okay.
If your talking about the employers, the difference seems to be that the majority of the time when it's comments about White males, it's usually coming from bloggers or writers whose job is to write clickbaity articles, in which case they are doing their job by being inflammatory. Or it's 14 year olds and unemployed people blogging on Tumblr, in which case it's kind of hard to work up a movement for people who are either unemployed or working for minimum wage at PetSmart. The only case I can think of where someone's done this who was actually in a relevant public position would be the London lady, and the dongle lady who did get fired over the internet backlash she worked up. There was also that women's studies professor that got in trouble over stealing a pro-life protestors sign, the college originally stood behind her, but she was forced out when the internet backlash got going.
Maybe you know of more cases, but it seems more like a difference in employers and careers versus inherent protectionism, the times someone does stir up controversy in a career similar to this professor, i.e. not an internet blogger (Gawker), self-employed (Anita), flat-out unemployed (Tumblr bloggers), or in a liberal arts position surrounded by like minded people (the London lady) they get fired too.
Sure it counts, she didn't ask to get them fired, she complained about the joke, the two guys got fired, then the internet backlashed against her for her original complaint. She got fired for the controversy the remark stirred up, the two guys got fired first, but she wasn't fired because she got somebody else fired, she got fired because the company she worked for didn't want to deal with the PR backlash her remark caused, just the like the other company fired those two guys because they didn't want to deal with the original PR backlash.Queen Michael said:Dongle lady doesn't count. She got fired for getting somebody else fired, not for a remark.EternallyBored said:The response from the internet or the response by employers? The response by the internet seems to be similar, people crawling out of the woodwork crying about, "how dare you", acting offended until they collectively stop caring a week later, and creating petitions asking for the individual to be fired. Seems pretty similar to me, from Anita, to that London woman, to the dongle lady, the response seems pretty similar, the dongle lady did lose her job over it.Queen Michael said:So he says women are oversensitive, and as a result women force him to resign? I know not all women agreed with that, but the ones who do really ought to think this through.
EDIT: Oh, and I can't recall ever seeing any single time when this happened to somebody criticizing whites, straight people, or men. Because apparently, the fact that we admittedly do have more privileges than anybody means people can say anything about you and it's okay.
If your talking about the employers, the difference seems to be that the majority of the time when it's comments about White males, it's usually coming from bloggers or writers whose job is to write clickbaity articles, in which case they are doing their job by being inflammatory. Or it's 14 year olds and unemployed people blogging on Tumblr, in which case it's kind of hard to work up a movement for people who are either unemployed or working for minimum wage at PetSmart. The only case I can think of where someone's done this who was actually in a relevant public position would be the London lady, and the dongle lady who did get fired over the internet backlash she worked up. There was also that women's studies professor that got in trouble over stealing a pro-life protestors sign, the college originally stood behind her, but she was forced out when the internet backlash got going.
Maybe you know of more cases, but it seems more like a difference in employers and careers versus inherent protectionism, the times someone does stir up controversy in a career similar to this professor, i.e. not an internet blogger (Gawker), self-employed (Anita), flat-out unemployed (Tumblr bloggers), or in a liberal arts position surrounded by like minded people (the London lady) they get fired too.
You know, I keep seeing this claim that women everywhere on twitter were forcing him to resign. The biggest hash tag I know of connected to this story is #DistractinglySexy where people are mocking his comments by showing themselves at work in notoriously unsexy situations. Most of the action I'm seeing is commenting on how absolutely ridiculous his comments are.Queen Michael said:So he says women are oversensitive, and as a result women force him to resign? I know not all women agreed with that, but the ones who do really ought to think this through.
EDIT: Oh, and I can't recall ever seeing any single time when this happened to somebody criticizing whites, straight people, or men. Because apparently, the fact that we admittedly do have more privileges than anybody means people can say anything about you and it's okay.
Him doing "Something right" does not mean in any way, shape or form that his recantation of events are based in reality. For example, I know of a man who claims " she was all over me" while the reality was he asked her 7 times and was told no before she agreed to see him. LOLParadoxrifts said:That's probably because somebody held you down at some point and forcibly removed whatever section of your brain is responsible for processing and understanding humour. For what it is worth, I actually feel sorry for people like you. Comedy must be some fast diminishing resource to horded, guarded and fought over Mad Max style for people like yourself.LifeCharacter said:So because he married a woman he met at university fifty years ago, we should assume that whenever he talks about women in a university or laboratory setting, he's talking about how it was fifty years ago when he met his wife? That seems like it'd get awfully ridiculous if you applied it to situations other than the ones that let you conveniently pretend he's simply talking about the past and has said absolutely nothing wrong.Paradoxrifts said:Of course he was blissfully reminiscing, he married one of those women after all. If I was still happily married to the same woman I met in university some fifty odd years later, I'd blissfully reminisce about how it happened too.
Like I said before, he must be doing something right as he convinced one of them to marry him and have children with him. But I guess the feminist internet outrage machine isn't happy with that narrative.Lil devils x said:And he harshly judged the women he worked with over the years?This is only one side of the story, I would love the names of the women he is making these accusations of and to hear their side of the story. It very well could be his own sexism clouded his interpretation of events. " how things were from his perspective" does not mean they were actually that way.
Now granted given his age, this was an acceptable way to address and view women in his heyday, however, it is good that has passed.
Well, arguably he had that chance already, however. There was a summit in India, where he was invited to give (a rather narcissistic) account of his activities in his field of science. The thing is, part of the summit allowed women graduating into the sciences to give their talks. The accounts were horrific. Sexual assaults, open mockery by superiors, and so forth. Even if the 'apology' states it was self-deprecating humour ... meaning that despite realising that women in science have never had it as easy as he, he states he has a personal failing in treating women seriously in a laboratory environment.Kwak said:I think he meant what he said - it was both something real* that he had experienced in his time that he had drawn conclusions from, and he was joking about it by exaggerating the way he put it. So I don't think he should be presumed to be lying when he says it was a joke.
He was doing bad science by extrapolating it to all womenkind. He saw a phenomena, then decided that the main variable was the presence of a woman, therefore all women...etc.
What is really awful and wrongheaded about this apparent trend of forced public resignation after dumb public moments, is why don't people take times like these as teaching moments, moments to reach out and dialogue and *teach* the old duffer something new, and give him a new perspective? Old brains are not calcified organs like we've been taught to think.
By punishing him instead of talking to him he's hardly going to change his view, and it may have reinforced or given birth to new negative ideas on women and the appropriateness of sharing lab space with them. He deserves a chance to have his mind opened rather than slammed shut by harsh punishment and social ostracism.
*to him, in his point of view.
I have personally known 2 professor emeritus and they both ran research groups till the day they died.Azure23 said:"professor emeritus" which basically means "I do fuck all here"
Thank you for the anecdote. In this case, he was merely paid to associate with the Uni.Boris Goodenough said:I have personally known 2 professor emeritus and they both ran research groups till the day they died.Azure23 said:"professor emeritus" which basically means "I do fuck all here"
Carl Th. Pedersen (at SDU) and Christian Pedersen (at DTU), yes I am aware we might need more last names in Denmark.Azure23 said:Thank you for the anecdote. In this case, he was merely paid to associate with the Uni.