ONLINE LOVE

[similar.squirrel]

Oh, crap.

I accidentally reported this. Kind of instinctive =/. Sorry.

Um..My condolences. Next time, try to meet a girl with your body. Around objects. In real life.
That's the problem with online relationships. High chance that you're just getting screwed over. By someone who's getting married. Or a 50-something year old man.

 

[Cowabungaa]

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Very sad, but very true indeed. It's why I feel so sorry for the OP (if he's indeed telling the truth, and I think he is) as it's definitely not as easy as just leaving it behind. But then again, I don't know how much he loves her. I just hope for his sake not as much as I do.

 

[capin Rob]

he's also buying me a plane ticket to the states.

Welcome to rape-ville,, Population, YOU

 

[capin Rob]

he's also buying me a plane ticket to the states.

Welcome to rape-ville,, Population, YOU

Hey I'm open to experimentation.

lulz ^_^,

 

[JLML]

That person, does it count? Haven't actually met, but still...

 

[Ben Legend]

What is love?
Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me
No more.

On topic, nope, in fact, the only people I talk to online are male... NO, I am not gay!

 

[Obsidian Rocker]

I don't believe in online love. I think its sad people don't have enough of an outside life to fall in love with someone they've met. You can see as many photos or videos of them as you like but how can you really love someone who you haven't seen in real life?

How deliciously narrow minded

 

[Enemy Of The State]

I've made some very good friends but no love (except TEH BROMANCE)

 

[Weslebear]

Well I thought I had (now knowing what love is really like) met them in real life and had no connection, most awkward day of my life D=.

Now however met some in real life have been together almost a year and we are head over heels in love with each other =D.

 

[MorsePacific]

Nope, never fallen in love over the internet. I keep my romance and my e-career separate.

Besides, I'm the type of person who would hate never getting to physically be with the girl I loved.

 

[Kopikatsu]

I don't believe in online love. I think its sad people don't have enough of an outside life to fall in love with someone they've met. You can see as many photos or videos of them as you like but how can you really love someone who you haven't seen in real life?

You don't believe in it because they could lie about who they are...? People lie about who they are in real life. Sure, it's harder to hide your gender or some such in real life, but it's like a person who seems to be kind/respectful/quiet/etc then you marry them or get into a long-term relationship, and they turn out to be a loud, obnoxious, abusive a-hole.

I think falling in love across the internet is actually better because you don't get bogged down by how the other person looks. Unless physical is important to you, then I guess not. I met my spouse online, so...yeah.

 

[Purity_Lake]

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Maybe, but in this case, I think it's pretty much certain that it's never, ever going to happen.

Sorry if that sounds harsh, but really, it isn't a happening thing. Even if he manages to make the massive amount of money required to both fly over there in the first place and pay her dowry, if the parents are fundamentalist enough that they won't allow her to choose who she marries, then they for damn sure won't let her marry a Western non-Muslim, who's from a Christian country.

I mean, I'm all for true love, but there's some times where you just have to let it go. If the OP were to continue with his quest, it's very possible that it will lose him a lot of money, leave him disappointed, and very possibly get her physically hurt.

actually i am an atheist believe it or not

 

[Pimppeter2]

actually i am an atheist believe it or not

Have you ever heard about honor killings? [http://politicalvelcraft.org/2009/11/23/socialist-billionaires-using-islamic-barbarians-to-cause-chaos-in-america-islam-killing-maiming-islams-for-centuries/]

WARNING, violent images in the link. Including pictures of people that have had acid pourn on their face You have been warned!

"The main reasons are because they dared to reject someone in marriage or because they wanted a divorce. The 'jilted' suitors (or husbands) took their revenge in this fashion. If he can?t have her, no man will"

So maybe you should just walk away before you do something that can get her punished. Considering you may not know much about her family, future husband, and whatnot.

 

[Purity_Lake]

actually i am an atheist believe it or not

Have you ever heard about honor killings? [http://politicalvelcraft.org/2009/11/23/socialist-billionaires-using-islamic-barbarians-to-cause-chaos-in-america-islam-killing-maiming-islams-for-centuries/]

WARNING, violent images in the link. Including pictures of people that have had acid pourn on their face You have been warned!

"The main reasons are because they dared to reject someone in marriage or because they wanted a divorce. The 'jilted' suitors (or husbands) took their revenge in this fashion. If he can?t have her, no man will"

So maybe you should just walk away before you do something that can get her punished. Considering you may not know much about her family, future husband, and whatnot.

i'm not dat crazy at all now

 

[Purity_Lake]

actually i am an atheist believe it or not

Which is actually even worse. Believe me man, if you care about this girl, you'll leave her alone, otherwise she could be very badly hurt.

Basically, what PimpPeter2 said. It's not worth pursuing.

i kinda get the picture by now

 

[Mordwyl]

It's the very reason I've turned myself into a rag working to get money to meet her.