Opinion's on how a girl thinks.
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I love the girls that drop just enough hints to seem like a tease then get upset that you didn't ask them out. If you want to go out with me either ask me out yourself or get over your tease shit.
Good luck to you OP whatever your choice is. Girls tend to think with their upper brain, while we males tend to think with a mix of lower and upper. That is why they confuse us.
Good luck to you OP whatever your choice is. Girls tend to think with their upper brain, while we males tend to think with a mix of lower and upper. That is why they confuse us.
Well, she either thought she was dropping you obvious hints you never responded to and got outraged and whatnot; she was using you for something and now doesn't need you or really want to associate with you anymore; or she simply stopped thinking you were someone cool to hang out with (Maybe what she values in friends changed).TeeBs said:
Any way you slice it, it's kind of pointless pursuing that platonic relationship at this point.
Yeah, but some girls have been brought up in the mindset implicitly, if not explicitly, that guys are supposed to be the ones asking them out. They might think that if they ask the guy out, it's a recipe for disaster/rejection, or it might just have never occurred to them to ask a guy out. Or maybe still it's culturally unacceptable for her to ask a guy out.2fish said:
Yeah, this coy shit tends to get in the way of relationships, but it's hardly ever the girl's fault. (No, I'm not saying girls are never at fault about anything, I'm saying there isn't often fault to assign. Shit happens and then you die.)
Um, it's impossible for anyone to answer this question based on what little info you've provided. There could be many, many different reasons.
Maybe because you use apostrophes incorrectly?
Maybe because you use apostrophes incorrectly?
i have devised a theory that either naturally or culturally, women adhere to a very complex pattern of emotional and temperamental shifts mathematically formulated to be impossible for men to ever figure out.
pretty much just accept the fact that women will sometimes do things that dont make any sense; im sure some women could say the same thing about men, just some basic neuro-chemical differences betwixt the 2 genders.
pretty much just accept the fact that women will sometimes do things that dont make any sense; im sure some women could say the same thing about men, just some basic neuro-chemical differences betwixt the 2 genders.
I can understand the fear of breaking social norms, however I respect those who do their own thing. I know I am a minority in this so I won't plant my flag and draw lines in the sand about who can ask who out.conflictofinterests said:
I agree with you it is not always the girls fault, but we need to find a middle ground between girls mixed/subtle signals and guys being thick. Ideas?
Actually shit happens then you use the TP and flush.
But all people are puzzles and females do act differently from males. Which is what makes it harder for us to understand them.RaphaelsRedemption said:
Clearly she had an interest in you, but as it didn't progress she moved to someone else.
If you don't press the matter you have a good chance of getting back in her partner choice circulation, but it will take quite some time.
And someone mentioned the good old "she was just being friendly", well that is true but that always comes with a reason, so don't let opportunities like this slide.
If you don't press the matter you have a good chance of getting back in her partner choice circulation, but it will take quite some time.
And someone mentioned the good old "she was just being friendly", well that is true but that always comes with a reason, so don't let opportunities like this slide.
Ummm, not really. Elevated Testosterone is not the cause of elevated fight or flight.Pirate Kitty said:
If this were the case, men would suffer from anxiety much more than women and this is not true. Anxiety disorders, including panic, affects a much higher percentage of women than men. Depression too. By nearly 4-1.
We need to be careful not to take an overly biological take on behavior. Any hormone, neurotransmitter, etc, does much more than science knows. We are in the infancy stages of understanding these concepts. It bothers me to see overly simplified views on what different chemicals in our bodies do. It ends up doing more damage than good.
OT: Any question asking how women think is a waste of time. People are people, end of story. The girl just isn't that into you.
Well my friend did this thing to a girl once, he was really talkative and would always talk to her and vice versa but then one day he just cut off all communication for just under a week so she'd start worrying about him and realise how much she liked him(I think he started this because she started talking about her ex to him).
No matter how cruel it was it worked and their still going strong.
Maybe it's that.
No matter how cruel it was it worked and their still going strong.
Maybe it's that.
Honestly, I find women just as confusing as me. Sometimes, I will say, "Why did I just do that?" I don't understand what I am thinking or doing sometimes. So it is not a matter of gender per se, but why people do what they do.
Mostly, it is passive-aggressive behavior. Trying to pick you up without making it look like a pick-up. Why?
I blame society for that mostly. Men are supposed to initiate and
women reciprocate, yes or no. So then what does a woman supposed to do when she has feelings for a guy that doesn't notice her? Enter Passive-aggressive behavior. Unfortunately, most guys are not built to understand that. It needs to be clear, black and white mostly.
The flip side, so let's say a woman does what a man does. Initiates conversation and does the asking out. Again, men are not built to express their feelings with words(say yes or no to the asking out). Men express their feelings by doing something. So most of the time, I bet when a women asks a man out, he is automatically thinking this chick wants to have sex with me. Sad, but true, I think.
Mostly, it is passive-aggressive behavior. Trying to pick you up without making it look like a pick-up. Why?
I blame society for that mostly. Men are supposed to initiate and
women reciprocate, yes or no. So then what does a woman supposed to do when she has feelings for a guy that doesn't notice her? Enter Passive-aggressive behavior. Unfortunately, most guys are not built to understand that. It needs to be clear, black and white mostly.
The flip side, so let's say a woman does what a man does. Initiates conversation and does the asking out. Again, men are not built to express their feelings with words(say yes or no to the asking out). Men express their feelings by doing something. So most of the time, I bet when a women asks a man out, he is automatically thinking this chick wants to have sex with me. Sad, but true, I think.
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