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justnotcricket

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I'd be inclined to agree with those here who have speculated that she was flirting, but you failed to ask her out before she either got bored, or felt that you weren't interested and that continuing to flirt would just be embarrassing for her.

If the latter is true, and you like her, you still have a chance - but you're going to have to make the first move. If you do, and it turns out she just got bored, then you have to chalk it up to experience and move on.

It really depends on how keen you are on her, really - if you're keen enough you could re-ignite something, and if the idea is still fairly new and uncertain to you then you can brave rejection if it happens.
 

Kukakkau

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Feb 9, 2008
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Either you missed your window or she's doing the age old ignore them to make them want you more technique
 

TriGGeR_HaPPy

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May 22, 2008
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khaimera said:
Ummm, not really. Elevated Testosterone is not the cause of elevated fight or flight.

If this were the case, men would suffer from anxiety much more than women and this is not true. Anxiety disorders, including panic, affects a much higher percentage of men than women.
Thought I'd quickly point out that either I'm missing something, or that second paragraph of yours doesn't make sense... :S
(Here's hoping it's not the former, so that I don't end up just looking like an idiot)

OT: My advice is the same as what a few other people have said: Ask Her.
 

khaimera

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TriGGeR_HaPPy said:
khaimera said:
Ummm, not really. Elevated Testosterone is not the cause of elevated fight or flight.

If this were the case, men would suffer from anxiety much more than women and this is not true. Anxiety disorders, including panic, affects a much higher percentage of men than women.
Thought I'd quickly point out that either I'm missing something, or that second paragraph of yours doesn't make sense... :S
(Here's hoping it's not the former, so that I don't end up just looking like an idiot)

OT: My advice is the same as what a few other people have said: Ask Her.
Crap, you're so right. I meant to say women more so then men.

Thanks.

I'll fix it
 

PaintyFace

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TeeBs said:
Alright, there is this girl I liked, we used to talk a whole lot and she acted like she liked me, at least from a psychological point of veiw. You know she tried to make me notice her some times, gave me playful nicknames and was just playful in general, But out of no where she just stopped talking to me. I try to talk to her but she doesn't really converse with me if you know what I mean.

What do you think this means?
I think this means you need to grow some balls, man up and talk to her.

*WARNING - THIS METHOD COULD INVOLVE GETTING HURT*

Basically, you just need to ask her straight whats going on. Tell her you like her, you thought things were going good, then suddenly she doesn't talk to you much. So, what's up with that?

I mentioned this could get you hurt because she may just laugh it off, if she's mean and she never liked you. Or she may be insulting. Or, she could have just given up on you getting the hint.

And before you go second guessing her, assuming the worst (or the best), talk to her. Girls are still people, every one of thems different, and there is no other way of knowing what she was thinking or meaning.