newfoundsky said:
I dislike the fact that people argue, instead of discuss. No one is going to change their minds based on something they read on the internet (unless they do, I'm not a fucking scientist). So discuss! Build understanding! It's not that hard. Unless it is for some people?
while i definitely know that i do sometimes do this, i try to avoid it and always discuss rather than argue, but i will definitely have to say this is true that get's my engine revved up.
a subcategory to this, is when people come in and quote people and attack them aggressively but then don't offer their opinion on the subject, they just antagonize and/or attack without giving any constructive criticism to the subject at hand. this also grates me.
maninahat said:
It drives me nuts how much some people suck at reading comprehension, because it forces you to have to put stupid qualifiers everywhere to account for their endless ability to miss the point. You have to stick a line like "I don't mind [x] in general, but...", or "it's just my opinion, but...", or "some", just to account for people who would start stupid tangential arguments (the kind that begin with "oh, so you hate [x] huh?")
while I do get your point, I think alot of people do this just because they want to attack/try and make someone look stupid, when it's clearly obvious they mean it as their opinion or such. As mentioned before earlier in my post, they are basically antagonizing/trying to fluff their e-penis
The other thing is people who come onto a thread, just to tell everyone how much they don't care about the thread's subject. If you're not fucking interested in seeing another feminist thread, why are you here telling us that? Do you really think we wanted to know how disinterested you were with our discussion? Spare us and say nothing.
EDIT: Oh, I thought of another one. People who still dismiss people with the word "sheep", or any other term that implies something to its effect ("open your eyes", "appeaser", "believer" etc.) Yes, it still happens.
do agree with this also to a point, the first part i don't mind as much if you involve some constructive criticism or suggestions, but if you come in just saying "*sigh* are people really this stupid/shallow/beneath me?" type responses, then yeah i'm going to roll my eyes at you quickly.