Oh, sweet jesus why has this gone to 31 pages? It's pretty basic probability, the question is made to show how probability can give counter-intuitive, but still correct, results, much like the Monty Hall problem, which has likely been mentioned at least once per page so far. The whole thread is just a battle between people who understand it and have thought through the possibilities, and those who just go with their gut, and are willing to argue it. It's like all those thousands of threads about whether 0.999... repeating equals 1 (it does), or who'd win in a fight, Alien or Predator (Predator, obviously), or indeed the once again posted CoD vs Halo (incomparable).
just give it a rest people, if you dont get why the answer is 1/3, try starting from scratch without any presumptions (ie "Male-Female is the same as Female-Male", easily disproven: if you're a guy, imagine you have a sister; that is clearly not the same as if you were female and she were male, becoming female would not make you into the female your sister would be. Just switch that round if you're a gal)
Damn, poor mathematics gets me angry...