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Legend of J

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rokkolpo said:
Legend of J said:
rokkolpo said:
Legend of J said:
(next week 11th of may day before mine :/)
hey same birthday, 12th of may!
yay for nothing significant YAY!

YAY rhymes with MAY YAY!
Only true legends were born on may the 12th :D they don't call me the legend of jay for nothing.
true that......and JAY rhymes with YAAAAAY!

Rick rhymes with............dammit
Rick the smick? XD sounds like a mafia name lol.

But im called james but everyone called me jay for short so i guess it stuck and the J was a case of maybe i want to be like L from death note but if he can be L then i can be J but nothing accepts just J so i called myself a legend (its yet to be written but keep watchin youtube around my birthday next week and hopefully somethink might appear).
 

Julianking93

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It depends.

Is she hot?

Seriously though, no not really unless they're not close friends.

Hell I forget my parent's birthdays.

Fuck, I even forget my own birthday sometimes much less someone else's.
 

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Julianking93 said:
It depends.

Is she hot?

Seriously though, no not really unless they're not close friends.

Hell I forget my parent's birthdays.

Fuck, I even forget my own birthday sometimes much less someone else's.
I kinda forget my own birthday in passing i was filling out a job application and i forgot.

And yeah shes pretty hot lol.
 

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dragon_of_red said:
Maybe holding it against people is a dickhead move, but you sorta deserve it by not telling people.

I dont know any of my friends birthdays. Hell, i need to really think ot just remember my parents and bothers!
This. It took me about 20 years to remember my brothers birthdays. I cant remember my dad or grandparents, and it an epic battle each year to remember my girlfriends (4 years relationship and going strong). I dont really celebrate mine...and I couldnt care less about presents. If people send me an sms or even call, its nice...but if they dont...I care very little.

If she thinks its important for people to remember her birthday, not reminding them is NOT gonna help. Both remind them, and more importantly she should explain to her closest ones that this is something that means a lot to her. Its a bit easier to remember for them if they know she cares a lot. But they probably do...
 

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Legend of J said:
Julianking93 said:
It depends.

Is she hot?

Seriously though, no not really unless they're not close friends.

Hell I forget my parent's birthdays.

Fuck, I even forget my own birthday sometimes much less someone else's.
I kinda forget my own birthday in passing i was filling out a job application and i forgot.

And yeah shes pretty hot lol.
One time one of my mom's friends asked me how old I was and I was just like "Uh....14 I think?"

I'm 16 :p

And if she's hot, who cares?

Totally kidding about that last part
 

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Well the fact that she's forgotten yours (if she has?) is very lame whilst complaining about people forgetting hers. But that's all I have to say on the matter. I wouldn't exactly say either of you are being a dick but, would be nice if she was less self absorbed. I have no idea whether or not she is self absorbed but I don't have much to work with!
 

Legend of J

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Nivag the Owl said:
Well the fact that she's forgotten yours (if she has?) is very lame whilst complaining about people forgetting hers. But that's all I have to say on the matter. I wouldn't exactly say either of you are being a dick but, would be nice if she was less self absorbed. I have no idea whether or not she is self absorbed but I don't have much to work with!
She is pretty much into the whole world revolves around me when she got finished by her last boy friend we didn't hear the end of it for weeks.
 

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Julianking93 said:
Legend of J said:
Julianking93 said:
It depends.

Is she hot?

Seriously though, no not really unless they're not close friends.

Hell I forget my parent's birthdays.

Fuck, I even forget my own birthday sometimes much less someone else's.
I kinda forget my own birthday in passing i was filling out a job application and i forgot.

And yeah shes pretty hot lol.
One time one of my mom's friends asked me how old I was and I was just like "Uh....14 I think?"

I'm 16 :p

And if she's hot, who cares?

Totally kidding about that last part
Lol its better than saying nothing lol
 

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godzilla494 said:
Why did most people choose the is she hot option?
You know im thinkin the same question if it goes up to a 1000 posts then ill post a pic lol. Nothing naked.
 

Legend of J

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tzimize said:
dragon_of_red said:
Maybe holding it against people is a dickhead move, but you sorta deserve it by not telling people.

I dont know any of my friends birthdays. Hell, i need to really think ot just remember my parents and bothers!
This. It took me about 20 years to remember my brothers birthdays. I cant remember my dad or grandparents, and it an epic battle each year to remember my girlfriends (4 years relationship and going strong). I dont really celebrate mine...and I couldnt care less about presents. If people send me an sms or even call, its nice...but if they dont...I care very little.

If she thinks its important for people to remember her birthday, not reminding them is NOT gonna help. Both remind them, and more importantly she should explain to her closest ones that this is something that means a lot to her. Its a bit easier to remember for them if they know she cares a lot. But they probably do...
Funny enough that is a good point if i get time later ill try and ask one of the others to have there own personal opinion.
 

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Legend of J said:
Funny enough that is a good point if i get time later ill try and ask one of the others to have there own personal opinion.
Good grief I just saw what a disaster area my post was grammatically. A friend of mine sometimes say the only trouble he has is that his mind goes faster than his mouth so when he talks sometimes it will be gibberish because his tongue hasnt caught up yet...I might have that with my fingers :<
 

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Legend of J said:
Funny enough that is a good point if i get time later ill try and ask one of the others to have there own personal opinion.
Good grief I just saw what a disaster area my post was grammatically. A friend of mine sometimes say the only trouble he has is that his mind goes faster than his mouth so when he talks sometimes it will be gibberish because his tongue hasnt caught up yet...I might have that with my fingers :<
I try with my grammer and its almost always shit unless i take well a good long time on it. (dyslexic abit of a ***** isn't it lol).
 

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Coming from someone (Me) that has had their birthday missed 7 times, no it does not make her a dick.
 

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chozo_hybrid said:
Coming from someone (Me) that has had their birthday missed 7 times, no it does not make her a dick.
Sorry to hear that but i bet you didn't make a scene cause it was missed.
 

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Legend of J said:
chozo_hybrid said:
Coming from someone (Me) that has had their birthday missed 7 times, no it does not make her a dick.
Sorry to hear that but i bet you didn't make a scene cause it was missed.
Well, my birthday is Dec 23, everyone remembered Christmas but forgot mine, the first time it happened I was 5, so yeah I made a scene then. But on my 18th I just decided not to give them their Christmas gifts until they apologized.
 

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Legend of J said:
Nivag the Owl said:
Well the fact that she's forgotten yours (if she has?) is very lame whilst complaining about people forgetting hers. But that's all I have to say on the matter. I wouldn't exactly say either of you are being a dick but, would be nice if she was less self absorbed. I have no idea whether or not she is self absorbed but I don't have much to work with!
She is pretty much into the whole world revolves around me when she got finished by her last boy friend we didn't hear the end of it for weeks.
Personally I would have just reminded her there and then by saying something along the lines of "... You do realise it's my birthday the day after, right?" mainly because that's the only chance you're going to get for her to be realise the situation and be sympathetic without it either making too much of an impact on the friendship or not making enough of an impact on the situation. Not to mention that it would have all been sorted out sooner.

But I'm losing the point, um, yeah, she's a little bit of a jerk. But it's ok for friends to be jerks sometimes. The best thing I can think of to do is just promote your own birthday and not hers?