Legend of J said:
Nivag the Owl said:
Well the fact that she's forgotten yours (if she has?) is very lame whilst complaining about people forgetting hers. But that's all I have to say on the matter. I wouldn't exactly say either of you are being a dick but, would be nice if she was less self absorbed. I have no idea whether or not she is self absorbed but I don't have much to work with!
She is pretty much into the whole world revolves around me when she got finished by her last boy friend we didn't hear the end of it for weeks.
Personally I would have just reminded her there and then by saying something along the lines of "... You do realise it's my birthday the day after, right?" mainly because that's the only chance you're going to get for her to be realise the situation and be sympathetic without it either making too much of an impact on the friendship or not making
enough of an impact on the situation. Not to mention that it would have all been sorted out sooner.
But I'm losing the point, um, yeah, she's a little bit of a jerk. But it's ok for friends to be jerks sometimes. The bets thing I can think of to do is just promote your own birthday and not hers?