I have told my girlfriend not to see or talk to her ex-boyfriend or I'd break up with her for multiple reasons. (not forbid read the edit #2) I gave her that choice and she agreed to it she said that if she sees him again than she doesn't blame me for assuming the worst and breaking up with her. You people really need to see that I'm giving her a choice a CHOICE!!! C-H-I-O-C-E
1. Hes a total asshole and he still loves her
2. She cheated on me with him about 12 days in to our relationship but then told me a month later.
That took a lot in me not to break up with her for that. They only went to second base and she stopped after a minute and realized what she was doing. When they were together they were not even kidding sex addicts so I sort of saw it as old habits die hard and at the time me and her weren't talking because she was with her friends and etc. Either way with everything that was presented to me it was still a coin toss and i decided that I would miss her way too much and after awhile I would want her back so its better to work through the shit then just break up and get back together. Now this isn't a forum where I want people saying "Its not worth it dude just break up with her blah blah blah." cause I'm not breaking up with her. Her friend thinks I'm being overly controlling in not letting her see her ex (who i usually refer to in the very mature form of Douchey McGee.) She herself knows the whole situation. I say that shes my girlfriend and i still don't trust either of them together. My girlfriend has agreed to these terms and has for the past 2 months been faithful and less retarded. So tell me do you think I'm being controlling? Have any stories of some one cheating on you?
[Edit] alright when i put that i don't trust her that was sort of a lie its that i don't trust him to make a move because he is the one who did last time.
[Edit#2] I never officially said forbid i said to her "If you ever see him again than i am breaking up with you" The word forbid was never used i see that i made it seem like that but no not what i said sorry for the confusion. Its still her choice if she wants to see him than I don't want to see her. She has chosen me over him anyways. She doesn't even want to talk to him anymore.
[Edit #3] I told her that she can do what ever she wants if she wants to talk to him or see him or what ever she can and i wont break up with her as long she doesn't cheat on me. She responded with alright now ask me if i want to talk to him. so i asked and she just responded no i really dont. I dont want to talk to him I want to talk to you i want to forget about him. so happy ending for now.
1. Hes a total asshole and he still loves her
2. She cheated on me with him about 12 days in to our relationship but then told me a month later.
That took a lot in me not to break up with her for that. They only went to second base and she stopped after a minute and realized what she was doing. When they were together they were not even kidding sex addicts so I sort of saw it as old habits die hard and at the time me and her weren't talking because she was with her friends and etc. Either way with everything that was presented to me it was still a coin toss and i decided that I would miss her way too much and after awhile I would want her back so its better to work through the shit then just break up and get back together. Now this isn't a forum where I want people saying "Its not worth it dude just break up with her blah blah blah." cause I'm not breaking up with her. Her friend thinks I'm being overly controlling in not letting her see her ex (who i usually refer to in the very mature form of Douchey McGee.) She herself knows the whole situation. I say that shes my girlfriend and i still don't trust either of them together. My girlfriend has agreed to these terms and has for the past 2 months been faithful and less retarded. So tell me do you think I'm being controlling? Have any stories of some one cheating on you?
[Edit] alright when i put that i don't trust her that was sort of a lie its that i don't trust him to make a move because he is the one who did last time.
[Edit#2] I never officially said forbid i said to her "If you ever see him again than i am breaking up with you" The word forbid was never used i see that i made it seem like that but no not what i said sorry for the confusion. Its still her choice if she wants to see him than I don't want to see her. She has chosen me over him anyways. She doesn't even want to talk to him anymore.
[Edit #3] I told her that she can do what ever she wants if she wants to talk to him or see him or what ever she can and i wont break up with her as long she doesn't cheat on me. She responded with alright now ask me if i want to talk to him. so i asked and she just responded no i really dont. I dont want to talk to him I want to talk to you i want to forget about him. so happy ending for now.
