I don't want games to be total pushovers but it really comes down to two points for me (assuming the controls are adequate etc.): If it's a story based game of an immersive world game is that story or world compelling enough for me to want to spend a lot of time with it? If it's more of a gameplay based game do I find the gameplay addictive so that it doesn't get old too fast? That's really it, I don't care if the game is "hard." That's why I haven't picked up Demon's Souls because the selling point I keep hearing is that it's punishingly difficult. It's an adventure-fantasy/Rpg, are those qualities fleshed out or is it just hard? Keep in mind, I'm not saying it's bad, I have no idea, but all I ever hear is that it's hard.