Basically this.Inverse Skies said:Yes we are. However we're also altruistic at the best of times, but for the majority of decisions they are made for our own reasons, which for the most part can be extrapolated to be selfish in some way. This isn't actually a bad thing as some people would have you to believe, there is a major difference between being selfish in your normal everyday decisions and being very selfish when it comes to larger ones. It is those choices where it's best to not be selfish and to think of others. But for normal things, people usually act in their best interests without even subconsciously realising it. It's a form of selfishness as it seeks to advance your own agenda, but it's not a bad form because it's so minor.
I believe (personal opinion and experience) that people who do in fact help other do so to fulfil a specific emotion inside themselves. To make themselves feel good. You would not call it a negative thing because they ultimately helped another for the sole reason of feeling good about oneself.