DSK- said:
Pirate Kitty said:
DELTA x WOLF said:
He wasn't born with it he was given a vaccine when he was 2 years old to help him from receiving the flu, but all of the vaccines in that year had expired and had mercury inside of all of the expired bottles and effected hundreds of kids within those years.
They have disproved this SO MANY TIMES.
Drives me mad to hear it.
You get more mercury eating a single piece of tuna.
You may say that, but my brother changed dramaticall when he had his MMR injection. Before he had it he would babble away and was able to say "Kelly good girl" (we would say that to our dog when she was around him as a baby) "dada" "mmmm" and "ssss" for my parents and myself and generally acted like a 'typical' baby.
After he had his MMR jab all of this stopped. He was hyperactive. He actually learned to walk before he crawled, and later would spend most of his time running around in circles in the living room, fall down asleep and within 2 hours be up and he would do it all over again.
He was diagnosed with ADHD and learning difficulties and is currently happy (although it took a lot for him to get there) at a special school where he will be playing catch-up for the rest of his life.
tl;dr - I honestly am not sure what caused it, but I honestly believe it has something to do with the injection.
OT: Why the fuck would something like Autism be good or bad? are you seriously trying to annoy/upset people? I would never wish for something like that on anyone.
My little brother is autistic. Due to lost paperwork with the military and the fact that we were base jumping he didn't get his first vaccines until he was almost 3. He stopped talking a couple months after he turned 2. The same is true for autistic kids who never had vaccines at all. Normal development until the age of 2 is PART of autism. Some hotshot researcher just decided to twist facts to make a name for themselves and picked vaccines since kids happen to get those the same age as the visible signs of autism start. My dad proves to his math classes that their grades are dependent upon the price of tea in China, just to show them that you can bend statistics to make any coincidence look like a causality. And then everyone else jumped on the wagon with other conditions that show up at 2.
Just look at all the OBs who got sued by parents who gave birth to a child with Down Syndrome--a GENETIC condition. Some people don't care if it's nobody's fault. They just want someone to blame even if it isn't true.
Secondly, and this is just my opinion, I don't think that calling autism *bad* helps anything. It's not a disease. It's not something that can be cured because there is nothing to cure. The brain of an autistic person is simply wired differently than a 'normal' person.
Can it make things difficult? Yes. Would it be easier for the person if their brain was wired the 'normal' way? Yes. But it's not bad. It's not wrong. It's just different. My brother might be mostly socially inept but he paints these amazing oils when the subject is one of his fixations and no one in the world has more extensive knowledge of all things Mario. The metaphor I usually use is myself in that I'm gay and I live in the bible belt so this can make things generally suck. Does that mean there's something wrong with me? No. My brain is just wired differently than a 'normal' heterosexual woman.
End game: if you call autism bad then it becomes bad. If you call any disability or talent or condition bad then it becomes bad even if it's something neutral or even beneficial. My mom teaches a girl who flat out does not speak not because of anything physical but because other kids made fun of her voice so much that she can't make herself use it. There is a world of difference between someone who lost their legs and thinks of it as a challenge to overcome and the person who lost their legs and thinks of it as the end of their world. There are hundreds of people who made full recoveries from things that should have 100% killed them simply because they were too stubborn to die and plenty who just gave up and died of something totally minor.
My point is that if you view autism (or ADHD or blindness or freckles) as something inherently BAD then the person who has that condition or trait WILL pick up on it. When my brother was diagnosed my parents took up the challenge and made sure that he always knew that there was nothing wrong with him. The autistic kids with parents who take diagnosis as the end of the world and a terrible crippling thing, they statistically don't do as well as the lucky ones like my brother. And this goes for everything, like I said, from medical issues to high pitched voices.
Sorry to turn this into an essay but ever since I was 5 I've been telling people that there's nothing wrong with my brother and half the time they don't listen. So this kind of hit a sore spot. But I hope that maybe you'll reevaluate the type of language you used to describe your sibling's situation and maybe ponder what signals you're sending them unintentionally.