RafaelNegrus said:
The thing is that there is no such thing as a "person" divided separately from everything else that they are, and gender plays a big role in that.
Leaving aside the "big role" bit just because I don't imagine that going anywhere but us trying to measure what "big" means in this instance and that's a waste of your time and mine, I'm just annoyed at what you're choosing to emphasize. Women are more like men than dissimilar to us, and claiming that their differences make it too hard to write female characters is a cop-out.
RafaelNegrus said:
And writing a character that is incredibly sincere takes more than just looking at them honestly, it takes a degree of understanding [snip]
I think you and I are talking about the same thing. Honesty in observation--that is, paying attention to what you see instead of what you want, expect, or are afraid to see--is how you understand things.
RafaelNegrus said:
And like it or not, men an women are different, down to some of the very basic brain chemistry.
What chemistry?
RafaelNegrus said:
This is not speculation; this is scientific fact and is not something that can just be written off as "constructed."
Okay, but that's not what I'm talking about. What's being artificially constructed is this segregation; this idea that we can't have a meeting of the minds unless our genitals match.
RafaelNegrus said:
Also, from what I understand, the biological difference between men and women is much larger than the difference between the races.
Maybe. Honest to god, the only way I know black people differ from white people, biologically speaking, is that their skin continues to build scars whereas a white person's skin tends to smooth them out. But ignore biology and go to the cultures, which you did mention in your previous post. You said part of the reason you can't or won't write women is because you can't understand what it's like to have the social expectations a woman has. Do you feel the same way about black people? Or how about non-Americans?
Lonewolfm16 said:
Is using characters like Dante to make people want to buy the game exploitative?
Okay, dude, I don't mean to be all catty about this, but seriously, you've got to start using paragraph breaks. Your wall of text is an exhausting chore to wade through.
Anyway, to your point: I've never played a
Devil May Cry game, so you're going to have to explain what "like Dante" means.
Lonewolfm16 said:
As for women being harmed by exploitation, they aren't even real!
I think you understand I am not talking about Ivy or Sakura or Rikku being oppressed, so please don't do that. I'm talking about games convincing people that it's okay to expect women to emphasize their sexuality at all times for the appreciation of men watching. Women in the real world are affected by the attitudes fostered by video games (and other media, but bugger that, let's deal with one front at a time).
Lonewolfm16 said:
How about booth babes? I am sure you would label this exploitation but they get paid and choose to be there.
Yup. It's their choice to make, not mine; and I wouldn't make it for them if I could. I'm not interested in playing God. That they have the right to make that choice doesn't mean I have to agree with it, though; and that they are women does not mean they are somehow incapable of contributing to an atmosphere of exploitation.
Lonewolfm16 said:
As for it contributing to a culture where women are judged by appearance, men like to look at sexy women.
And women like to be judged by the content of their character rather than the shape of their body, but tough shit for them, huh?