Poll: Do you believe in the afterlife?

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loc978

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4RM3D said:
I'm trying to find some argument that can theoretically prove the possibility of a beyond. But I am not succeeding.
Basically this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBUc_kATGgg#t=1m40s] (which states, in a comical manner, that the only reason to believe in an afterlife of any kind is fear of death). However...

4RM3D said:
The human mind is limited and this theory might go beyond our limit.
that is also a possibility. Human understanding only runs so deep, but anything beyond it... well, to understand that, you'd have to be something more than human, which we are obviously not.

4RM3D said:
Anyhow, I would see the afterlife as a destination for our soul with our body as the vessel and our life as the journey. In the same way you use a vehicle to travel from A to B. The problem with this theory (and many others) is that I can't explain the soul. Where does it come from? We are born with a soul? How does that work?
The concept of the "soul" falls along the same lines as the afterlife. There's simply no solid evidence to support its existence.

I won't say there's absolutely no such thing, but evidence within the current scope of human understanding suggests that to be the case.
 

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lunncal said:
Noun Atheist - Someone who denies the existence of god

To be an Atheist you have to actively believe that there is no god. It's still a belief, just a negative one. At least that's how I've always understood it, and that dictionary seems to agree.

Then again, Agnosticism can be a belief too (so my earlier point was pretty much wrong).

Agnostic - A person who believes that nothing is known or can be known of the existence or nature of God or of anything beyond material phenomena.
Fair enough.

lunncal said:
The point I was trying to make is that Athiests who think they are better than religious people are really bad hypocrites, and that the only thing that makes them different to those religious people is the specifics of the belief they preach.
Not just atheists. There are also religious people who think they are better, because they believe (in God). Either way, both cases are bad. I agree.
 

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Why would there be an afterlife? There's no proof of one either. So no I don't believe.

I don't get why death is so feared, is non-existence so scary? You didn't exist before you were born why is not existing after death so horrifying?
 

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Conscientiously, each of us came from nothing - so why should we continue on to something? It's has no proof, it is illogical and incomprehensible; whereas dying, followed up by nothing, is purely comprehensible. Imagine it as being like before your first memory. It will be the same when you die.

However, should you be revived (which is theoretically possible should your brain be preserved), it would feel no different to awakening from passing out. You would have no sense of how much time passed while you were "dead". But if your DNA/Brain structure is even slightly altered, or cloned - that conscience is your clones, not yours. You will still be dead. This is because your brain is a set of developing neurones exchanging electrical signals in a way that is unique to you, should that change, it is no longer "you". That is why I believe people change with time. Ask anyone if they think they're a different person to 10 years ago, and the answer will be "yes". Ask yourself, you'll find subjects you would've had one stance on years ago, you hold a completely different opinion today. you 5 minute ago before considering this post will be a different person the the You now. 99.9999999999999...% similar, bar a few neurones; but not you of now... or now... or now...
Just ask someone who suffered head truma, most say they feel like a completely different person post-accident whilst people who around them agree they behave differently. Some simply find a taste for food they hated, others have a total personality shift.

Distressing, I know. But its just what happens. Make the most of life for you and others around you, this is why I don't waste time with religion.

Fucking hell I should right a book.
 

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i dont believe in the afterlife, and find such belief's insanely arrogant, to think that humanity (and often just youre particular bit of it) is so special that the laws of physics will bend over backwards to preserve you forever speaks to me of a monsterus ego.
"oh, i cant just vanish into nothing, im SPECIAL!"
 

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4RM3D said:
lunncal said:
Fair enough.

lunncal said:
Not just atheists. There are also religious people who think they are better, because they believe (in God). Either way, both cases are bad. I agree.
Yeah, of course. I'm sure there's Agnostic people who think they're better than others too, and it's stupid in any case.

Fluffles said:
The definitions suck.
Some people go by the
Q: What's the difference between an atheist and an agnostic?

A: It has to do with the difference between what you believe and what you think you know. For any particular god that you can imagine, a "theist" is one who has a belief in that god. In contrast, an "atheist" is one who does not have a belief in the god. A "gnostic" is one who knows about the existence of god and an "agnostic" is one who thinks that god is unknowable.

Notice that the terms "atheist" and "agnostic", by these definitions, are not mutually exclusive. You could be an agnostic atheist, meaning you don't think that the existence of gods is knowable, but you don't choose to believe in one without further proof. Many people assume that atheists believe that gods can be proved not to exist, but this isn't strictly true and there is no proper word to describe this. You could call such a person an "untheist", perhaps. Or, you could just call such a person a "gnostic atheist", one who doesn't believe in a god and thinks that his non-belief can be proved.

So there are four possible ways one could be.

1. Agnostic-Theist: believes god exists, but the existence of a god is unknowable
2. Gnostic-Theist: believes in a god for which he claims knowledge
3. Agnostic-Atheist: does not believe god exists, but it can't be proved
4. Gnostic-Atheist: believes it can be proved that god does not exist

Case 3 is sometimes referred to as "weak atheism" and case 4 is sometimes referred to as "strong atheism". Only strong atheism positively asserts that there are no gods.

Finally, it should be pointed out that when a person is asked about their beliefs and replies that they are agnostic, they are avoiding the question and answering a different one. Someone who can't positively say he/she believes in a god is an atheist.

Others go by their own definitions, some by society's definitions. Some by whatever their dictionary says (which varies).

I am an atheist.
I reject belief, and I don't consider the probability of something existing of which we have absolutely no evidence to support enough to grant the slightest of belief. Using your definition I'm agnostic towards every concept, like unicorns, or the invisible dwarf playing with his penis on my shoulder.
Fair enough, I see where you're coming from, and I'd actually just count you as Agnostic by what I think of the term (i.e. that you don't believe in God, but that you also don't have a religious belief that there isn't a God).

However, the point I was originally making was against the person who claimed that people who believed in God were delusional, or some such thing. I was basically referring to "Strong Atheists" who also believe they are better than religious people, and my point was that they were basically the same apart from the specifics of their beliefs.
 

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Oh there is an Afterlife! It is one of my drives in life to see it. How cool it is to one day talk to some of the greatest folks in history like Jesus, Jefferson, Reagan, and Octavian(presumably there is a universal language).
 

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This belong in religion and politics since it is heavily tied to religion.

I believe in an afterlife because of my religion. I also don't think anyone can prove wither or not their is an afterlife as its not an issue of science.
 

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Fluffles said:
lunncal said:
4RM3D said:
lunncal said:
4RM3D said:
lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.


zehydra said:
Afterlife or reincarnation.

The truth is, "nothing happening" is not by our minds at all conceivable. It's possible, but we cannot imagine it.
Well, it's not hard. You just cease to exist. It's like sleeping without remembering your dreams, but you don't wake up. It's endless unconsciousness, it's as if we return to the state we were before we were born.
I can picture it, I can understand and comprehend it. Your blanket statement needs a little fixing.
well, not quite. You can't imagine what the experience would be like because it would be a lack of experience. A lack of experience is incomprehensible. You can't picture what inexperience would be like because what you "picture" is a subset of something which is experiential.
 

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4RM3D said:
Time for a more serious subject. Do you believe in the afterlife? And how does it affect your actions in this life? I guess believing in the afterlife is mostly tied to a religion and believing in God (one or more). But correct me if I am wrong.

Personally I am far to rational and pragmatic to flat-out believe in things without some logical argument or scientific proof.

But first off, let's say you do believe in the afterlife. The believe is all you need, because for this life is doesn't matter whether there is something beyond or not. It only matters how you act on that (dis)believe. That believe must be comforting, as no matter how shitty this life is, there is always going to be a next. [assumption incoming] And those that believe generally believe the afterlife will be better and longer (for them, at least).

But maybe it doesn't work that way for you?

I'm trying to find some argument that can theoretically prove the possibility of a beyond. But I am not succeeding. The human mind is limited and this theory might go beyond our limit. Anyhow, I would see the afterlife as a destination for our soul with our body as the vessel and our life as the journey. In the same way you use a vehicle to travel from A to B. The problem with this theory (and many others) is that I can't explain the soul. Where does it come from? We are born with a soul? How does that work?

In the end I tend not to believe in the afterlife, but I will always be holding a small glimmer of hope that is the vastness of the universe and in the complexity of life there is something more, until science proves otherwise.

Then there is also the matter of reincarnation. Maybe you don't view it as the afterlife, but as being reborn? Though, if I have to put my money or either the afterlife or reincarnation, I would have to go for afterlife in terms of logic.

Phew... that's enough for now. What are your thoughts or believes?

PS. I haven't mentioned the term 'heaven' (or 'hell') on purpose. Instead, I have used the more general term 'afterlife'. But, if you have an issue with that, please correct me.

EDIT: And I just realized, I've posted this in the wrong forum.
Well, I neither believe, nor disbelieve.

The problem lies when you try to envision, how or why an afterlife would exist, you immediately also face the question as to what life is.

Or rather, it's not a question about life, but it's a question about consciousness.

Why do I experience anything at all? What relation does my experience of the world have to anything going on in the world?
To ask what happens when you die is to ask where the subjective experience of existing comes from.
And that's a very tricky question, and ironically, also one which science is very badly equipped to handle.

Ask yourself exactly how you are supposed to find an objective answer to a question whose very nature depends on personal subjective experience.

I can infer that you are a conscious being. But how do I know this is true? My only viable point of reference is my own conscious experiences, and that you have measurable qualities and behaviours which are quite similar to qualities and behaviours of my own. (which I associate with my conciousness.)

I can't even prove conclusively that there is an actual correlation between any physical processes going on in my body (or that my body actually exists), in relation to my experience of the world.


Put it like this:

The scientific worldview leads roughly to the following ideas:

1. The world around me exists
2. I can measure this world, and reach consistent conclusions about how it works.
3. My experiences correlate with certain measurable phenomena in the world around me.
4. Therefore, my experiences must be causally related to those phenomena.


But... The only fact which anyone can actually be certain of is this:

1. I am aware of existing.



To me, the afterlife isn't something I'm concerned about with as such. Heaven and hell are amusing concepts, but they aren't significant to me.

The question that occupies my mind is consciousness itself. Where does my internal sense of 'existing' come from, and how is this related to all the sensory inputs that tell me for instance that there is a world around me, that I have a body, and that there are other people (who presumably are also aware of their own existence. - though I can't prove this in any way.)

I suppose I can't wrap my head around the idea that you can go from a state of existence to a state of non-existence, because my consciousness doesn't work that way.

I'm never unconscious.
Now, I know that sounds really odd, but think about it carefully.

In your own experience, have you ever been aware of not being aware of something? Of course not!

Consciousness, in from your own point of reference is unbroken, and continuous.
However, once you start to compare it against your sensory inputs, and this world that supposedly exists, that's when you start to question this idea.

After all, every time I fall asleep and wake up again, there seems to be a discontinuity in the world around me.

Now, as it happens, this discontinuity seems explainable as the world having continued in a consistent unbroken manner, but me having lost awareness of it for several hours.

But... From my own purely subjective viewpoint, what actually seemed to happen was not that I lost awareness for a few hours, but rather that there was a discontinuity in the world I was perceiving.

That, to me is the question that this all revolves around.

Ceasing to exist is a very odd idea to me. But... So is the idea that I would go on forever.

But then again, this becomes a question of time. According to objective external measures, the time I was asleep passed without my awareness.
According to my own internal sense of time, this period just didn't happen at all.

Which is the correct viewpoint?

And with regards to death, what would that mean, say, if I die 20 years from now, but then due to some unexplainable quirk of the universe, I exist again 3 million years from now?

On the basis of logic that seems unlikely. But... Sheer probability means it's not completely out of the question.

The thing is, what does that mean for my personal experience? If I cease to exist in the meantime, then to someone who exists continuously within this universe for that entire period, I would appear to have been dead for 3 million years, then suddenly have come back to life.

Yet from my own perspective, the most likely way for that to seem from my point of view, is simply that the intervening 3 million years just didn't happen.

However, this question as a whole becomes much more interesting if you reverse it.
Instead of asking 'what happens after you die', try the thought experiment of asking 'what happened before I was born?'

Because under the conventional understanding of how time works, you've already experienced that;

And since by that same conventional sense of logic, you didn't exist before you were born in much the same way you won't exist after you die, it is a very useful tool to help answer this question.

And it leads to some very interesting answers.

For instance, I have pictures of myself when I was little. Based on the accounts of others, I know it's me. And I even have stories of what I supposedly did when I was around that age.

Yet, I don't remember it at all. So, to my own understanding, it didn't actually happen.
For that matter, there are aspects of what happened yesterday which I can't remember.

Did they even happen at all?

And my experience of the here and now is quite different from any of the memories I can remember...
Are my memories real? Who or what experienced those memories, since it doesn't as such seem to be 'me', in the sense of how I experience the current moment in time.

When you start asking questions like that reality can seem to start to unravel in front of your eyes.

So... To answer anything about 'after death', you must first answer what it means to be concious. Because that in itself is a very strange thing.
 

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4RM3D said:
lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.
Atheism is not a religious belief... more a lack thereof.
Woodsey said:
Nope, and it doesn't affect my choices in life. You die and that's it; there's no reason whatsoever to believe in an afterlife beyond really quite desperately wanting to.

lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.
An absence of belief does not equate to having a belief. I'm sure the people that constantly come out with that think its very philosophical and deep, but its not.
People. People. Please watch what you say carefully with statements like these.

There's 3 statements being used here, and at least two of them are getting very muddled up.

Now, pay close attention.

Statement 1: I believe there is an afterlife.
Statement 2: I don't believe there is an afterlife.
Statement 3: I don't have a belief about the afterlife.

Statements 1 and 2 are what lunncal is referring to. 4RM3D and Woodsey are both referring to statement 3.

Ergo, you are talking past each-other, not to each-other

Now, I know people get confused when Atheism is brought up, because Atheism can be defined both as "I don't believe in god", and "I don't have a belief about god", which are not the same thing.
And one person will assume it means one statement while the other will assume other is meant.

But please try and think about this before you chew someone about about something like this hmm?
It's starting to get very irritating.
 

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The only form of afterlife that I even remotely think could possibly be available is reincarnation. The possibility that we are simply a continuing form of increasing intelligence speaks to me more than disappearing into the vapor and becoming god knows what. I'm not sure if there is anything though and considering I'll be dead I think that worrying is going to have no effect, you cannot stop it, so why fear it.
 

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CrystalShadow said:
4RM3D said:
lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.
Atheism is not a religious belief... more a lack thereof.
Woodsey said:
Nope, and it doesn't affect my choices in life. You die and that's it; there's no reason whatsoever to believe in an afterlife beyond really quite desperately wanting to.

lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.
An absence of belief does not equate to having a belief. I'm sure the people that constantly come out with that think its very philosophical and deep, but its not.
People. People. Please watch what you say carefully with statements like these.

There's 3 statements being used here, and at least two of them are getting very muddled up.

Now, pay close attention.

Statement 1: I believe there is an afterlife.
Statement 2: I don't believe there is an afterlife.
Statement 3: I don't have a belief about the afterlife.

Statements 1 and 2 are what lunncal is referring to. 4RM3D and Woodsey are both referring to statement 3.

Ergo, you are talking past each-other, not to each-other

Now, I know people get confused when Atheism is brought up, because Atheism can be defined both as "I don't believe in god", and "I don't have a belief about god", which are not the same thing.
And one person will assume it means one statement while the other will assume other is meant.

But please try and think about this before you chew someone about about something like this hmm?
It's starting to get very irritating.
Explain the difference, because as far as I'm concerned, you're making a distinction where there isn't one.

So please, could you actually bother to explain the difference instead of pretending you have, hmmm?

Its quite irritating.
 

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loc978 said:
4RM3D said:
I'm trying to find some argument that can theoretically prove the possibility of a beyond. But I am not succeeding.
Basically this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBUc_kATGgg#t=1m40s] (which states, in a comical manner, that the only reason to believe in an afterlife of any kind is fear of death). However...

4RM3D said:
The human mind is limited and this theory might go beyond our limit.
that is also a possibility. Human understanding only runs so deep, but anything beyond it... well, to understand that, you'd have to be something more than human, which we are obviously not.

4RM3D said:
Anyhow, I would see the afterlife as a destination for our soul with our body as the vessel and our life as the journey. In the same way you use a vehicle to travel from A to B. The problem with this theory (and many others) is that I can't explain the soul. Where does it come from? We are born with a soul? How does that work?
The concept of the "soul" falls along the same lines as the afterlife. There's simply no solid evidence to support its existence.

I won't say there's absolutely no such thing, but evidence within the current scope of human understanding suggests that to be the case.
The soul is an ill-defined concept at best, so arguing about evidence for or against runs into some serious problems.

A better question would be to ask about consciousness, since that presents a far more awkward problem. There is evidence for it's existence, (everyone who is conscious knows they are), but for some reason it can't be measured by any objective means.
(Eg. I can trivially prove my own consciousness - by the ultimate in subjective means, but can't even begin to devise a method for proving the consciousness of another in any meaningful way. - Eg. A total failure of objective measurements.)

Bvenged said:
Conscientiously, each of us came from nothing - so why should we continue on to something? It's has no proof, it is illogical and incomprehensible; whereas dying, followed up by nothing, is purely comprehensible. Imagine it as being like before your first memory. It will be the same when you die.

However, should you be revived (which is theoretically possible should your brain be preserved), it would feel no different to awakening from passing out. You would have no sense of how much time passed while you were "dead". But if your DNA/Brain structure is even slightly altered, or cloned - that conscience is your clones, not yours. You will still be dead. This is because your brain is a set of developing neurones exchanging electrical signals in a way that is unique to you, should that change, it is no longer "you". That is why I believe people change with time. Ask anyone if they think they're a different person to 10 years ago, and the answer will be "yes". Ask yourself, you'll find subjects you would've had one stance on years ago, you hold a completely different opinion today. you 5 minute ago before considering this post will be a different person the the You now. 99.9999999999999...% similar, bar a few neurones; but not you of now... or now... or now...
Just ask someone who suffered head truma, most say they feel like a completely different person post-accident whilst people who around them agree they behave differently. Some simply find a taste for food they hated, others have a total personality shift.

Distressing, I know. But its just what happens. Make the most of life for you and others around you, this is why I don't waste time with religion.

Fucking hell I should right a book.
I don't know about that. Are you a different person? Yes and no. The thing is, my memories don't have the same character to them as my immediate experiences.
This means I can't deduce meaningfully if my memories happened to 'me', or some other entity.

My consciousness is something I experience as something wholly detached from my physical being. It clearly has some relation to it, but it isn't experientially speaking a product of my body.

The other thing of note here, is I literally am not aware of any moment during which I didn't exist.

I can infer those moments based on external evidence, but since I can't verify the validity of that evidence in any way, all I can say is there is that there is existence... And that's it.

Non-existence is not an understandable concept, which is where the problem comes from.

Ask yourself what it was like before your first memory and you don't come up with anything that you can in any way relate to what you are currently experiencing.

So... To say what it was like before I am aware of existing is like asking what was before time. - It's not a question that makes any kind of sense.

That's also why ceasing to exist is such a difficult problem to wrap your head around.

If you cease to exist when you die... That's incompatible with any known experience I've ever had.

I literally have never not existed as far as my own subjective view of reality goes.

The only way in which I can envision this, is by trying to reverse my view of the world, and assume the external sensory inputs I experience somehow have an independent existence.

Now, I know that is the very definition of objective measurement, but it is an alien perspective to use when trying to understand your own conciousness.

You're basically trying to answer the question:

What happens to my awareness when I stop being aware of my awareness.

Well, I'd have to say, awareness can't stop, because it never started.

Yes, in terms of the 'objective universe', there's a starting point and an end point. But that has no direct relation to what my subjective awareness tells me about my own existence.

I don't have any experience of not existing. And I never will, because it's a logical contradiction to have experience of not having experience of something.

It's... All a matter of perspective, and the answer 'you cease to exist', depends on you using an external reference point which bears no relation to how you actually experience the world to begin with.

Or something. There's so many logical contradictions inherent in this question that it's very difficult to describe in a rational manner.
 

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I believe their is a heaven but people don't go their. I beleve everyone will be reborn during the Resurrection.
 

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Not at all. The only reason afterlife myths came about is because people, now that they're conscious and alive, have no clue what it's like to be not so, and thus conclude that you never aren't.

After death is exactly like before you were born. There's less than nothing; your brain does not work, and you don't have a soul. You rot in the ground, and I'm okay with that.

The only opposition I face when proposing the absence of an afterlife is people saying "But... that's depressing." Which is a stupid thing to say. A lot about life is depressing. You either get over it, or die early. Belief in the supernatural does nothing but convince people that life is fair somehow, which is just setting yourself up for a boatload of disappointment and halted growth.
 

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Woodsey said:
CrystalShadow said:
4RM3D said:
lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.
Atheism is not a religious belief... more a lack thereof.
Woodsey said:
Nope, and it doesn't affect my choices in life. You die and that's it; there's no reason whatsoever to believe in an afterlife beyond really quite desperately wanting to.

lunncal said:
... And yes, not believing in an afterlife is just as much a religious belief as believing in one.
An absence of belief does not equate to having a belief. I'm sure the people that constantly come out with that think its very philosophical and deep, but its not.
People. People. Please watch what you say carefully with statements like these.

There's 3 statements being used here, and at least two of them are getting very muddled up.

Now, pay close attention.

Statement 1: I believe there is an afterlife.
Statement 2: I don't believe there is an afterlife.
Statement 3: I don't have a belief about the afterlife.

Statements 1 and 2 are what lunncal is referring to. 4RM3D and Woodsey are both referring to statement 3.

Ergo, you are talking past each-other, not to each-other

Now, I know people get confused when Atheism is brought up, because Atheism can be defined both as "I don't believe in god", and "I don't have a belief about god", which are not the same thing.
And one person will assume it means one statement while the other will assume other is meant.

But please try and think about this before you chew someone about about something like this hmm?
It's starting to get very irritating.
Explain the difference, because as far as I'm concerned, you're making a distinction where there isn't one.

So please, could you actually bother to explain the difference instead of pretending you have, hmmm?

Its quite irritating.
You really don't see it? Or are you being facetious?

It really shouldn't be that complicated.

When faced with a question for which there is basically no identifiable evidence, you can take one of 3 positions.

1. - There's no evidence, but I think it's true.
2. - There's no evidence, but I think it's false.
3. - There's no evidence, so I don't think it's appropriate to try and give you an answer.

If you think cases 2 and 3 are identical, then you're confusing yourself, because it's self-evidently cases 1 and 2 which are identical.
(Eg. Believing something without evidence.)

The inverse of believing in god's existence, is believing in god's non-existence.

But both cases are equivalent, because asserting something's non-existence is merely the logical inverse of asserting it's existence.

case 3 is admitting that it's pointless to give an answer to something which has no evidence either way.

Note that this is easy to get confused when arguing about religion because for instance religions frequently make assertions about the world which contradict science (amongst others).
But all that tells you with any certainty, is that one of the statements that are in direct conflict must be wrong.
It doesn't prove anything either way about any other statements made.

Consider some examples:

I believe the sky is blue
I don't believe the sky is blue
I don't know if the sky is blue

I believe there's an invisible, intangible dog sitting in my room
I don't believe there is an invisible, intangible dog sitting in my room.
I don't know if there is an invisible, intangible dog sitting in my room.

Do you get it yet, or do I need to continue with this?

Two out of these 3 statements make unsubstantiated claims. One doesn't actually make any claim whatsoever.

You however, seem to be implying that making the unsubstantiated claim that (to stick with the original statement), NOT believing in the existence of an afterlife, is equivalent to not making any claim about it's existence or non-existence whatsoever.

While the person you were responding to, was pointing out (maybe not for quite the most appropriate of reasons), that making the unsubstantiated claim that there is an afterlife, is more or less equivalent to making the unsubstantiated claim that there isn't.

The key point being unsubstantiated

If there is some meaningful evidence one way or the other, then of course it's not equivalent. But this is rarely the case with most such arguments.