Poll: Do you think Pedphilia/Ephebophilia (Sexual Attraction to Minors) is Genetic?

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Tyson765

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Novskij said:
Sexual preferances are developed while growing up(or developed in brain generally), you cant inherit homosexuality or pedophillia, and you dont really choose, it depends on how your brains develop.
You may still choose how you react to your urges.
 

maninahat

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Douk said:
I mean someone who is into kids from 12-16, anything younger is on a whole 'nother level to me. There's a difference between kiddy-diddler and jailbait-lover.[/i]
I fail to understand your understating of peodfillia.

it is possible to mistake any one at that age for an 17-18 year old, some females can look very developed at those ages and not every one bothers to check their official ID to make sure that they are the "right age"
Plus, what does it mean if you come from somewhere which has a lower age limit for consensual sex than America? Does this mean a South Korean person is in the clear for being attracted to a 14yr old?

People need to remember that although the actual physical act of paedophilia is wrong (as in, carrying out a relationship with a child), being a paedophile in the first place (as in, merely attracted to children but not acting upon it) isn't a crime and it isn't harming anyone. In that sense than yes, I am fine with paedophiles as long as they are not willing to act upon such desires.

As for whether it is genetic...I have no idea. I don't know about the genetics behind homosexuals or heterosexuals and I'm not entirely sure if sexual preference is down to genes.
 

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I would like to point out now that people suffering from Lolita Complex AKA lolicon, would never rape or sexually assault a young girl, they are attracted to them yes, but they also want the love a normal relationship brings, they will do odd things like give them presents and other stuff a pedo would do, but they would never harm them and quite honestly they would be the first to jump on anyone who did hurt a little girl. Lumping Lolita complex people with pedos is wrong and it's why the media is so over hyped about japan. (japan's laws on sex being a person at 14 can make the decision to have sexual intercourse without legal repercussions.) I will also admit right here that I am suffering ("suffering being the oddest of terms, cause I don't feel any pain ect) from Lolita complex, I like little girls, some times sexually, and more often than not I get a boner and can't help it, but I know it's wrong. Raping a child is a choice, I can't help that my body reacts to little children, I can however stop myself from being a pervert and touching them inappropriately. I can not speak for pedos because I'm not a pedophile, I can speak for the real lolita complex sufferers out there, and let me say, we are PISSED! that people lump us and pedos together. Most often the guys you hear screaming about how pedos should be burned alive are people with lolita complex, we love little girls, and like a normal human being we want love in return, harming people doesn't bring about love, and anyone who calls themselves a human being knows it.
*removes flame proof suit and awaits the coming tide of hate and flame, prepared to bare the scars of his cause*
A wall of text where are my paragraphs. ;P

No flame coming from here.

Seriously though I never knew that was the name for it and now knowing I that I don't have to use the term I used to I can happily admit to being one myself. and I completely agree with you and see your point of veiw as it is my own.
Once again though I point out my happy relationship with my girlfriend and say that it is all choice even though there is that complex there.
 

WINDOWCLEAN2

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Heres a little known fact:

The term Pedophile is techiniclly incorrect as the it comes from the the word PHILOS Which is mutual love and respect, So a Pedophile is actually someone who respects a child and has mutual love for them (Eg a Parent)

The correct word that should be used it Pedoerotic as it comes from EROTICA which means sexual relations, (Eg someone who has sex with children)


PS: The 'Pedo' Bit means child if you didn't know.


I hope i have helped
 
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I think it might be a mix between the two as you usually have some sort of similar taste in the opposite sex as your Dad/Mum as I think studies showed you usually end with someone like them at least personality wise. No one wants someone who looks like their parents as that is a whole different kettle of fish..... While I do think it is a bit genetic in this respect it is also a choice as you can choose whether or not to do it. Same as being straight. I could turn around tomorrow and decide to be gay same as a gay guy could do or I could decide to be bi(which I think is a bit of a cop out but thats besides the point).

In short I think it is a mixture of the two.
 

Tellaris

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Alrighty. As far as I'm aware, there is little evidence pointing to a genetic cause of homosexuality, as well as pedophilia, no one is really sure why either arises. A plausible theory I heard of was that it might be due to teratogenic activity during pregnancy, though what and how that causes this, is unknown. The brain is rather complicated, and cannot be completely coded for by genetics, at least, not where every single neuron ends up, as well as where the connections occur. This results in a lot of variation in the organization of a brain, causing a lot of different behaviors to show up, though there are identifiable regions in the brain that perform specific tasks, and exist in everybody, but their activities differ from person to person. It could even be just random chance, and boom. Pedophile.
A more recent estimate of biological determination of behavior is somewhere between 20 and 50%.
As for Pedophila being used as an excuse for a person's actions, in other words, I think the States has the same thing, the insanity defense. However, the insanity defense requires a major point. "the defendant [must be] incapable of distinguishing between right and wrong at the time of the offense."
I don't know if a pedophile has yet tried to use this as a defense. But I do know of a different disorder, that is entirely biological, yet this defense was rejected. Psychopathy, at least here in Canada. Court ruled that the requirement of being incapable of determining right from wrong was not held in this case. A Psychopath is taught right and wrong from their parents and society, just like everyone else. The mitigating factors in their biology have been shown to not affect their ability to tell right from wrong, it only removes their ability to feel guilt, and thus remorse for wrong doing. Pedophiles don't even have this to hide behind. There is no legal justification for their behavior.

Tyson765 said:
You may still choose how you react to your urges.
Not everyone actually can do so well. Due to poor parenting usually, which isn't entirely their fault. Its why the DSM includes an "Impulse Control Disorders" section on Axis 2 I think it is, beside the personality disorders.
 

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maninahat said:
Paksenarrion said:
Paedophilia: The only time when it is inappropriate to yell out "RELEASE THE KRAKEN!"
Oh shit, really? My bad.
You're not supposed to yell it out.

You're only supposed to think about yelling it out.

Only.

ONLY.
 
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Hurr Durr Derp said:
Gonna quote what I wrote in the other thread...

I don't think it's either. If sexual preference was genetic that would suggest that it's inheritable, which as far as I know isn't true. It's not a conscious choice either because there are plenty of people with 'abnormal' sexual preferences who don't want to be abnormal. Some pedophiles seek professional help because they don't want to have sex with children but they still get that urge. Some homosexuals spend their entire lives trying to be straight, but they're still gay. That tells me that they simply are what they are and that they can't help it. Of course if those urges tell them to do something illegal (like in the case of pedophilia) and they act on those urges they deserve to be punished, but just having those urges is not something I think they can do anything about.

I personally think it's more akin to a mental affliction. It doesn't sound very PC to say that, and I don't mean to say that any sexual preference that's different from the norm is automatically a Bad Thing, but I do think it has more to do with the person's mind than any kind of genetic aberration or personal choice.
Agreed. For that matter...do we ever actually choose to like anything? I couldn't explain my musical preferences, I don't think I chose them...

Homosexuality is strongly believed to be the result of varying hormone levels in the womb. Which means it's not genetic, just...sort of...naturally occuring phenomena. I've read nothing on the subject that would suggest we could choose sexuality, or that it is genetic.

It's unfortunate(for everyone)when such anti-social sexualities(I'm referring to paedophilia...not homosexuality) are formed...
 

Tyson765

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But Philosophically speaking if the law acknowledges this how can they prosecute someone who says they "Couldn't help themselves?"

It would be like jailing a bank teller for aiding and abetting robbery because he put the money in the gunman's bags as he held a gun to his head.

I do see your point of poor parentage and that is true I guess.
Without a sense of other people being valuable you will choose to use them however you would like to regardless of the damage it would do.
 

NoNameMcgee

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I don't think they can help having the attraction and urges, and because of this I would never judge someone for feelings they cannot control. However, giving up and acting on the urges is very very wrong and should be punished for the same reasons the OP stated.
 

Zyxx

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Like with most aspects of human behavior, (I believe) the answer isn't nearly so clear-cut as "genetics or choice".
There is a nearly-endless range of potential influences on a person's sexuality. Genetics is factor, but familial and cultural values, traumatic or impression-forming experiences, maybe even things like diet and environment all make their impact. In the end, it's impossible to tell where a particular preference "comes from", and even if you do figure it out for one person, the history probably won't hold true for the next. The same variation applies as to whether the condition is "treatable" or not. (Whether or not such an attempt should be made is another question.)

I generally agree with the notion that the urges aren't a choice, but the actions are. However, I think most of us can recall a time when we felt an urge so strongly that resisting it seemed quite impossible. This is not a justification for any sort of crime, of course - a child molester must still be prevented from causing further harm - merely a reminder not to be too hasty in judging others by presuming their mental workings.
 

dagens24

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I don't think it's a choice, but it's still fucking wrong. There are people out there who murder because their brains are genetically wired that way, but that doesn't mean their actions are condonable.

If you're naturally attracted to little kids then I'm sorry but that fucking sucks for you, stay the hell away from little kids and get some help.
 

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It's always choice. Sure, there are urges, and these urges may be caused by genetics, but it's how you react to these urges that count. I have urges to kill 90% of the people I meet on the internet, that doesn't mean I do it.
 

The_Graff

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mix of the two. even if a person were to have an attraction to the "delicious flat chest" that does not neccesarily manifest as kidnapping schoolgirls. so genetic predisposition followed by active choice to engage in the act. you know like all the rest of human sexuality.