Ugh I hate feeling like I have to be extremely careful with what I say and how I say it but here goes. I think there is alot of missconceptions about homosexuality that come from both those who support it and those who are against it. I was raised and taught that homosexuality was wrong and that I should stay away from it. When I was younger I interpretted that as meaning "gays are are bad. Stay away from them or they might rape you."
After being in a non-sheltered environment, I know that gays are not the worst kind of people in the world. I have a few gay friends (that I'm aware of mind you) and I've had some great times with them. But when I make friendships I don't want every conversation we have to be about their homosexuality. That gets really annoying.
Now, while I might not have a favorable view of homosexuality, I am NOT going to call someone out on it. I feel that not condeming someone for a particular way of life speaks more than constantly telling some how wrong it is. I do NOT want to be forced to believe that it is ok or that it is wrong. Do not make me believe in what you believe in.
But I think that if you feel strongly in favor of homosexuality there are times and places that you are not going to want to say anything about it. Where you live is a strong factor in how vocal you are going to be about it. For example, I live in a place where homosexuality is looked down upon. During my highschool years, half of everyone I know thought I was gay even though I am not. Now, my reaction to that was (and would still be) to try and explain to others that I am not gay. Since, gays are looked down upon where I live I really don't want to be assosciated as one. If however, I lived in a place where homosexuality was highly accepted than I wouldn't worry about it so much. I just think that if you're to vocal about something in a particular place you're just going to stir up heep of trouble.
However, I've never understood why some people think that "God hates queers" or "Homosexuals are the worst kind of people". I mean, out of everything a person can do, why would something that homosexuality be the worst? I would think people would say, "Murderers are the worst kind of people" but whatever.