Poll: Does this make me a creeper?( please read entire thing before voting)

[Hazy]

I'll jump on the "bad idea - do not do" bandwagon while I'm here.
I feel that the plethora of people before me have illustrated their points (and, in turn, my standpoint) quite clearly, so I'll leave with this: it's natural to feel like an idiot when talking to a girl you like.

That said, you'll need to interact with her in person, as the whole "notes in the locker" ordeal really only works in movies.
It seems hard at first, but gets way easier.[footnote]And you won't creep her out.[/footnote]

 

[firedfns13]

Just talk to her man. She can only do 2 things: Shoot you down or talk to you. I wouldn't just randomly walk up and ask her to the movies right away, unless it were after a conversation.

But your idea is likely to just get her to freak out and word will get around that you're kind of a weirdo.

 

[Kurokami]

Yeah so I have a bit of a situation that I really want to just deal with so I can just move on with life without fear of being thought as a lunatic.

There is this girl at school that I have a feeling really does not like me. I mean, I think that she thinks that I'm a total fucking idiot but I'm not sure. She is one of the, oh how shall I say it? Normal people. Not to mention she is surrounded by other girls that I think think I'm an complete fucking idiot.It is really fucking weird, mainly because there seems to be this aura she emits that makes me feel retarded and just afraid to see if she disdains my very presence or not. I'll admit I've got a bit of a crush on her but that's because she's the kind of girl that thinks logically and can keep their head on straight but at the same time can joke with friends and whatnot. Because of this paranoia I couldn't help but feel as if I can only communicate with her through unspoken words. Then I realized that I could in fact communicate with her without having to deal with all those friends of hers. I know where her locker is. Also I might add that our lockers all have slits in them for ventilation of whatever items they may contain. But I have reasoned that I could type a message on mic word, put in an envelope and slip it in there while shes not looking ( a study hall of mine some other class of hers). In this way I could communicate anonymously by asking simple questions in the letters and seeing if she were in fact to write back.And yes, of course I would set up a designated place for her replies that I could pick up within a month at any random time as not to be detected.


so does this idea make me a creeper? or just paranoid? or both? or just a dumbass?

Bad plan, write if you want to tell her something but don't expect from her to write back, or atleast approach it very casually. In my opinion you should approach her via classes/clubs, whatever she's into or create a situation where you bump into her for a chat.

 

[bobknowsall]

That is creepy. Either suck it up and talk to her in person, or give up. This approach will make you look creepy and/or idiotic, and I would strongly advise against it.

 

[AfroTree]

Yeah so I have a bit of a situation that I really want to just deal with so I can just move on with life without fear of being thought as a lunatic.

There is this girl at school that I have a feeling really does not like me. I mean, I think that she thinks that I'm a total fucking idiot but I'm not sure. She is one of the, oh how shall I say it? Normal people. Not to mention she is surrounded by other girls that I think think I'm an complete fucking idiot.It is really fucking weird, mainly because there seems to be this aura she emits that makes me feel retarded and just afraid to see if she disdains my very presence or not. I'll admit I've got a bit of a crush on her but that's because she's the kind of girl that thinks logically and can keep their head on straight but at the same time can joke with friends and whatnot. Because of this paranoia I couldn't help but feel as if I can only communicate with her through unspoken words. Then I realized that I could in fact communicate with her without having to deal with all those friends of hers. I know where her locker is. Also I might add that our lockers all have slits in them for ventilation of whatever items they may contain. But I have reasoned that I could type a message on mic word, put in an envelope and slip it in there while shes not looking ( a study hall of mine some other class of hers). In this way I could communicate anonymously by asking simple questions in the letters and seeing if she were in fact to write back.And yes, of course I would set up a designated place for her replies that I could pick up within a month at any random time as not to be detected.


so does this idea make me a creeper? or just paranoid? or both? or just a dumbass?

DO EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET!!

'cos..it sounds creepy..and awesome

also

YOU HAVE TO TELL ME IF IT WORKS,IF YOU DO IT

sounds smart..but in reality, makes you paranoid, and possibly awesome

Spoiler: must..post..needed picture..gah!

 

[Reenix]

Or you could just ask her out. Y'know, the normal way. Works most of the time.

 

[Sev07]

I said you're a dumb ass not because your stupid, but because you're young. Don't do letters because that is just... weird. Find her when she isn't surrounded by friends, and talk to her. If you can carry a conversation then go from there, if not, it's not worth it.

 

[spartan231490]

Little bit of a creeper, but not bad. She will prolly think it's cute, but you dont want to do that for too long, if she starts to believe that it is someone else, she could be pissed when she finds out it's you. In your shoes, I would put letters in her locker, but sign them, at least with a locker number. It gets around the akwardness her friends inspire in you. The unfortunate truth is that if you want to go anywhere with this, you will have to get over your awkwardness around her, but at least you can avoid her friends for a while.

 

[Reenix]

Little bit of a creeper, but not bad. She will prolly think it's cute, but you dont want to do that for too long, if she starts to believe that it is someone else, she could be pissed when she finds out it's you. In your shoes, I would put letters in her locker, but sign them, at least with a locker number. It gets around the akwardness her friends inspire in you. The unfortunate truth is that if you want to go anywhere with this, you will have to get over your awkwardness around her, but at least you can avoid her friends for a while.

BAD IDEA.

Maybe in the old days before cliché took over, this would have been a good idea. But now finding notes in one's locker sets off the 'stalker' alarm bells and in this day and age, you can never be sure what's behind it. Seriously, the best thing to do is either talk to her - and if you still think she won't like you for who you are then it's time for some home improvements.

 

[RamirezDoEverything]

Seems like a cool plan, you gave me no option other than stupid things.

Kinda like that movie with Butler... PS I SPARTA?

 

[rsvp42]

What's the worst that could happen if you just go up and talk to her? If need be, find an excuse to talk to her, even if it just starts off as like homework questions or whatever. Basically, you're worrying about everything that could go wrong, but the worst that would happen is that her or her friends get on your case. Is that so bad? At least then you'd know she was lame and not worth your time. Or hell maybe it would just mean you have to try harder.

The alternative is you send her stupid/creepy "Do you like me? Check yes or no" letters and then she has a real, concrete reason to dislike you instead of right now where she simply doesn't know you. If you really don't want to simply go up and say hi (always the better option when trying to meet someone new), then just go on with your life and maybe the perfect opportunity will show up later. Better yet, if you go on with your life, you may meet someone else you like better and don't have to be a creeper to talk to. Some girls just aren't worth the effort.

 

[The_Healer]

Wow.

You really have low self esteem.
Go to the gym or something to make yourself feel more manly and ask her out.

 

[Limzz]

Just talk to her. High school doesn't mean shit you'll look back and think wow, I should have sang Gilbert and Sullivan completely tanked at the talent show! She's probably not interested but go ahead and try. Be confident though, if you're really shy your chances go way down.

Oh yeah, what the guy above me said. Go get like, noob-level jacked at the gym. It's not much but most high school kids are scrawny.

 

[Srkkl]

You seem to be making a big hassle out of somthing that could be so simple. I would just try and talk to her, fuck her friends.

 

[KaiRai]

Honestly, that is a little creepy. Just try and get yourself in a normal situation with her, like lunch queue or something. You'd be surprised as to how well that works.

 

[ucciolord1]

It makes you a human being, just a slightly more interesting one.

 

[Yureina]

Yeah so I have a bit of a situation that I really want to just deal with so I can just move on with life without fear of being thought as a lunatic.

There is this girl at school that I have a feeling really does not like me. I mean, I think that she thinks that I'm a total fucking idiot but I'm not sure. She is one of the, oh how shall I say it? Normal people. Not to mention she is surrounded by other girls that I think think I'm an complete fucking idiot.It is really fucking weird, mainly because there seems to be this aura she emits that makes me feel retarded and just afraid to see if she disdains my very presence or not. I'll admit I've got a bit of a crush on her but that's because she's the kind of girl that thinks logically and can keep their head on straight but at the same time can joke with friends and whatnot. Because of this paranoia I couldn't help but feel as if I can only communicate with her through unspoken words. Then I realized that I could in fact communicate with her without having to deal with all those friends of hers. I know where her locker is. Also I might add that our lockers all have slits in them for ventilation of whatever items they may contain. But I have reasoned that I could type a message on mic word, put in an envelope and slip it in there while shes not looking ( a study hall of mine some other class of hers). In this way I could communicate anonymously by asking simple questions in the letters and seeing if she were in fact to write back.And yes, of course I would set up a designated place for her replies that I could pick up within a month at any random time as not to be detected.


so does this idea make me a creeper? or just paranoid? or both? or just a dumbass?

Both.

But seriously, you should get away from these people as soon as possible. During my teen years, I had a few male friends who had similar things going on who ended up following through on this road. The results didn't end in jail time for them or anything that serious, but it did end in some VERY serious psychological damage that I don't think they are still recovered from.

Get away from these people before its too late and don't look back. You do NOT want to go down the road that you have described in that OP. This is not a life-lesson you want to learn.

 

[Dreey]

Go to the same party as her , get drunk, talk to her. the rest will come naturally.

PS! She must be drunk too. All girls are sluts when they are drunk. No exception!