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NiPah

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Mortai Gravesend said:
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Vault101 said:
[i/]my veiws arent sexist!...science says so[/i] <- NO your talking BS
i'm sorry vault, but no. Of course women are self entitlited... They had over a hundred thousand years of evolutionary psychology behind there self entitlement & with pretty good reason: Because it was vital for there survival as individuals & ours as a species. Heck same group preference alone is well established by both evoultionary psychologists and biologists... Heck we still see it in species which still function under the tournament model of social behaviour (silver backs & ridge backs for instance).
Why do sexists talk about 'evolutionary psychology' but fail to cite actual papers? Can you answer that? Is it really too much to ask for you to actually back what you say up with evidence? Or is that how you just lie about whatever shit you liek?
On the topic of interesting scientific articles here's a good link (scroll down to the citing section):
http://pss.sagepub.com/content/3/4/251.short
Most of the full papers cost money for access, but the abstracts offer good information and for the most part conclusions. I haven't read any of these since I just did a quick search on http://scholar.google.com/ to find them a few minutes ago.
 

NiPah

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Mortai Gravesend said:
That is an interesting idea and all, it's just that I want him to back up the specific claims he's made. But apparently daring to question him is the same as questioning evolutionary psychology itself.
Yeah unfortunately it was tied into that whole conversation, I just wanted to provide some interesting links on journals that touched upon the issues being talked about. After completing graduate school you get to understand what hell it is to actually research and cite competent journals to make your points (hell from the few I've read most of these studies can't even find the much vaunted yet elusive difference between the sexes. The main reason I'm not getting involved in this debate is because I understand just how hard it is to find any research into these fields which can offer even hypothetical evidence to justify an argument.
 

Vault101

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matthew_lane said:
Actually both fields are taught in university, as peer reviewed science. Calling it either pseudo science or bullshit because you disagree is like complaining baout newtonian physics because you are oppossed to the existance of apples.
I'm still suspicious of anyone who uses science to justify sexist veiws...they do it all the time


[quote/]Who said more self entitled? I said self entitled.[/quote]
so your saying that women are no more self entitled than men?..then why make the gender distinction

and another thing is I'm not sure I've really seen an example of this "self entitledment" women aparetnly have..unless you think Feminism is some form of women self entitlment (if so god help us all)

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Of course you do. Seriously, take a look at any article written about women in geek culture. When was the last time you didn't see one where it didn't make women out to be victims & men out to be victimisers?[/quote]
exagerations again....

its not some straw-feminist attack on all men, saying "there are issues with women in the culture" is taking issue with those induviduals/trolls who do it....did you know you actually dont have to be female to have a problem with such things? the fact that women are on the recivening end and men on the giving is not blaming the entirity of oneside and absolving the the of blame

or should we just not talk about thease things because aparently its sayign men are monsters?

should I not talk about or have a problem with women who manipulate men because "it makes women out to be monsters?"

[quote/]Seriously, if you read any of these articles you'd think geeky men were all 7 foot tall goliaths who keep geek women chained to kitchen benches making sammiches, when not being used as sex toys.[/quote]
listening to people like you makes feminists out to be the same thing

[quote/]I'm sorry, but you can't make that statement an expect it to be taken seriously. For starters its a presuppositional statement, that presupposes in the question the answer, but beyond that it also 100% relies on an appeal to majority.[/quote]
so gain...gender has NOTHING to do with it?

Vault101 said:
An why shouldn't there be, since there are a lot of pretenders?
pretendars are part of the issue...but there are other factors too


Vault101 said:
no, there are nerds out there who do nothing but encourage that kind of crap, just as there are the ones who dont/hate it....
[quote/]No, there really isn't. no person wakes up in the morning and says "i know, i'll go online & support people who are trying to co-opt my hobby," it just doesn't happen.[/quote]
your right...human beings don;t act that way

seriously..you cant just say somthing is true because you think it is...your repetedly denying the existance of nerds who directly or indirectly encourage this kind of thing..you honestly think they all their your exact same veiws?


[quote/]/facepalm, by the same standard i put together a list of other things that by extension are geeky
- Money
- Shoes
- Lights
- Security Guards
- The Floor
- Etc etc [/quote]

this seems a subective/how you look at it issue

[quote/]An to be fair there is nothing controversial about Booth Babes. A booth babe is a company employee paid to look pretty & appeal to a male demographic. Thats not controvercial, its a paradigm older then conventions themselves. In fact its done at most conventions that large companies have booths at, including the male equiviliant at wedding/bridal expo's.[/quote]
is your head burried in the sand now? its controversial because some people feel that booth babes re-enforce the steryotype of "gawking nerds/horny man-children" and create the kind of environemnt that some feel isnt welcoming to females (not my veiws but ones shared by others on the otherside of the argument)

again, like before your rejecting the Idea that the argument as another side

[quote/]Except that i would get no such data, because that fails to take into account the "fundemental attribution error" cognitive bias that comes into play with any group, let alone one with a built in victim mentality.[/quote]

so you think theres a victm mentality at play? "built in" too?.....*sigh*

again..fucking typical "I see no problem, therefore there is no problem"

[quote/]Some women write these articles, then some women read these articles & then some women get geek checked out of an actual interest to see where ones interests lie... An then said woman says "oh i was attacked by a bad man" instead of "that guy was interested in where my interest lay."[/quote]

oh of coarse...the complaints by the fairer sex and their treatment has NEVER been valid has it? your making up some scenario and convinced it applys to every case

and being accused unfairly of being a poser is not harmless "checking out" of coarse acording to your logic that NEVER happens because it all works the way you think it does/should


[quote/]Sure & you chances are if he's calling you a pretender, its because you are. You have been geek checked & found lacking.[/quote]
refer to the last thing I said

[quote/]Nope. You aren't actually arguing against anything. You are scrambelling for a foot hold, having just been shown exactly where you are doing something you thought you weren't doing.[/quote]

I took issue with your comment first and foremost because of the "entitlment" thing..like I said alarm bells

[quote/]Please don't try to retroactive change what you "meant" to say:[/quote]

[/i]"Who said more self entitled? I said self entitled[/i] <- because you werent making any gender distiction whatsoever amiright?

[quote/]You made a statment that clearly painted your own previous statements as being self entitled,[/quote]
self entitles?

what the fuck have I said that has made me self entitled?

if I belive I am being treated unfairly in some content that not NOT make me self entitled

[quote/]in that they came from a stance of social privilege: Embrace the fact that you are socially privileged & understand that that privilege only extends to the location where common sense pushes back... This is that place.[/quote]

you know what this somes up?...people like you

your on the other end of things, as I said all of this "geek culutre" is catered to you, so when somone comes along and says theres a problem..you don't get it and you see attempt to draw attention to the problem as an attack

[img/]http://themetapicture.com/media/funny-gif-table-flip.gif[/img]

I'm fucking done....good day
 

THeFraz

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El Danny said:
Basically, there are people who find the Big Bang Theory funny.

Then there's the rest of us.

Bottom line, Geek and Nerdy is currently a fad, it'll pass.
I'm with you on that one... the Big Bang Theory thing.
 

Kathinka

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misunderstood meme is misunderstood.

it should be more along the lines of "i love pc games!" - plays farmville all day

it's in no way an attempt of attacking girls in the geeky subculture. just those that inject themselves into those subcultures and then proceed to rub their gender in every ones face for the sake of getting male attention. which they often easily get because of the lack of female competence in the field, while in other subcultures with a larger female portion they'd be just in the middle field of interesting.

so yes, that part of matthew_lane's posts i fully agree with: if you're a gamer, play your game and don't go "teehee, i'ma gurl!! <3". not saying that you should hide your gender, nothing wrong with not pretending to be a guy. just don't make a big deal out if it, or you'll be called out as the attention seeker that you are.

[/rage fueled rant]

i play games since the early nineties, played online since it became a thing. i've never made a secret about my gender, but i also didn't bring it up pointlessly. in those 20+ years i have NOT ONCE been attacked or been discriminated against or treated unfairly because of my gender. every butthurt "gamer gurl" should think about that for a minute.
 

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Shdwrnr said:
Bronies are the current male equivilent on the internet I'd say. For women, the claim is that they're attention whores and for men, the claim is that they're gay. The insults are a bit different, but the sentiment is the same.

As far as hostile geek circles, I think the best example is the MOBA scene. Doesn't matter what your race, gender, creed, etc is; you step into a game of League of Legends, Heroes of Newerth, or Defense of the Ancients as a new player and just let the hate wash over you.
MOBA's are the new counter strike, but what i find most amusing is the people who rag on others are never anything special themselves, it's like either they are playing on a new account in which case no shit your going to get paired with people weaker than yourself. Or you can't be that great if your being paired with these people so don't rag on them focus on your own game.

I had a friend who used to do this with dota 2, over the past 2 weeks he has finally pulled his head out his ass stopped ragging on others and spent some time learning the game. Suddenly he is able to carry teams and is at the point where he is with better players.

wow i went off topic there...

Uh yeah, on topic:

It's can be hard for female gamers to be passionate about gaming, as they community can be dicks accusing them of being posers etc. Whilst i can appreciate some girls do, do this for attention unfortunate is tarnishes those that just love gaming and want to show off about it and be passionate.

As i have said before, if you play a game be it farm ville or call of duty if you enjoy it and like to chat about it with others in my eyes you're a gamer, just be willing to have people make suggestions and try new things.
 

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I'm annoyed by anyone who pretends to be a part of a culture they're not. If you want to get involved in a culture, all well and good, go for it and I wish you the best, but don't pretend to be a part of something just for attention.

I think the problem is that a lot of so-called 'geek culture' is based on a person's 'geek cred', which makes it really transparent when a person doesn't know what they're talking about vs someone who is a geek. I think it's the same in every culture or fandom- I don't know much about sports, but if I walked around pretending I knew about sports, it'd become painfully obvious very fast that I didn't have a clue what I was on about and I'd be laughed out of the room.

I also think there's this permeating idea, particularly in geek culture, of keeping it 'segregated' from non-members. Rather than being accepting of newer members, some geeks have a habit of looking down on those who aren't up to their level. If someone is genuinely interested in learning about games, comics, whatever, we should be making a more concerted effort to educate and welcome them rather than ridicule and ostracise them.
 

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This is hatred of a hipster because hipsters are annoying to everyone but hipsters. It is my understanding, however limited, that nerd girls do exist but aren't the type to post pictures on Facebook with big rimmed black glasses.

In response to the question... Yes men can be fake gamers but we just call them cod fans and halo players.
 

Rastien

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matthew_lane said:
Rastien said:
As i have said before, if you play a game be it farm ville or call of duty if you enjoy it and like to chat about it with others in my eyes you're a gamer
Mate if you are playing farmville & like talking about it a lot, that doesn't make you a gamer, it makes you a lot of things but gamer isn't one of them. Same goes for people who only play fruit ninja or angry birds.

Same as how me shooting a couple of hoops with a mate in the park doesn't make me an athlete.
Why not? if you play a game your a gamer, like if you play rugby at a local level your still a rugby player but not a professional ^^

I can't see the need to take it so seriously, they may not be professional gamers getting paid to play, like the people playing local rugby aren't professional players but they are still rugby players.

Why alienate people from a community what does it serve?
 

Thoric485

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It mocks a very real phenomenon, so I don't see a problem.

I'll keep enjoying the CIS white male privilege of not having my nerd cred doubted, even though it was a negative male-specific stereotype for a long time, and partially still is.
 

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Zachary Amaranth said:
RhombusHatesYou said:
Zachary Amaranth said:
If it doesn't matter, why even post?
Same reason as why you replied.
Except I didn't say it doesn't matter. I merely applied your logic. So I ask again: If it doesn't matter, why did you post?
Answer doesn't change just because you can't understand it.
 

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RhombusHatesYou said:
Zachary Amaranth said:
I used to have a lot of fun with "goths" over this. I am not a goth, but I love being called out as judgmental for views that are not my own by people rebelling against intolerance.
If you want a real laugh, tell a young punk that your favourite punk band is Blink 182.
It's even better if you bait and switch them by pulling out something pre-Ramones afterwards.