Poll: Female babysitter charged for having sex with 14-year old boy.
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There are kids at 14 that have jobs. Shit at that age I had a small gambling racket. There's people much older the 14 that don't have the correct state of mind. Morality Laws are really messed up because they really don't work because everybody is different. One kid maybe immature and naive. While the other is wise and well-informed. It goes for adults too just because one is of age doesn't mean they ready by default.Blitzwing said:
What are you talking about? I have no reason to believe that anyone in this relationship was misinformed.JordanDH said:
As flawed as it may be, what does the law say about this?
Don't know exactly where this is all going on, i assume somewhere in the USA? They must have some law stating that any sexual conduct between an adult and a non-adult is a crime or something like that? Well, it's easy then. Conviction following that law and it's precedents.
No differentiation because it's a 20-year old girl with a 14-year old boy instead of the other way around. We all know if that was the case he'd already be convicted and publicly destroyed. So why should it be any different now? It shouldn't, that's what!
Prosecute and sentence! Law is law, no exceptions should be made.
PS: I don't want to come over as some "the law is always right and should be followed to the letter"-kinda guy, but you can't go around choosing which ones are ok to follow and which are not. It's an all or nothing kind of deal.
Don't know exactly where this is all going on, i assume somewhere in the USA? They must have some law stating that any sexual conduct between an adult and a non-adult is a crime or something like that? Well, it's easy then. Conviction following that law and it's precedents.
No differentiation because it's a 20-year old girl with a 14-year old boy instead of the other way around. We all know if that was the case he'd already be convicted and publicly destroyed. So why should it be any different now? It shouldn't, that's what!
Prosecute and sentence! Law is law, no exceptions should be made.
PS: I don't want to come over as some "the law is always right and should be followed to the letter"-kinda guy, but you can't go around choosing which ones are ok to follow and which are not. It's an all or nothing kind of deal.
A real double standard but one that is not without a smidgen of merit. You see it has been proven that many (but not all) girls who become sexually active at a young age may develop cognitive and emotional issues as they develop while at the same time many (but once again not all) boys can become sexually active as young as twelve and still develop normally (but once again I will stress that this is not guaranteed). But the effects, longevity, and overall outcome is almost impossible to predict with today's knowledge and methodologies. I think Canada has the age of consent law right, at least to a limited degree. A person age 12 to 13 may have sex with someone up to two years older than them. A person 14 to 15 may have sex with someone up to 5 years older than them. At age sixteen no more rules apply. While this is not perfect I feel that it does a good enough job in protecting youth by not out right barring them but rather limiting them to an age group small enough to prevent one from having a disproportionate advantage over the other physically and mentally.TheRealCJ said:
My thoughts exactly. Weird.Valagetti said:
In any case, to not charge her would show a horrific, sexist double standard in society.
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Bah, here it goes, even if my post gets lost in this avalanche of replies.
Yes, go to jail, girl. Look, I've met some really pretty girls who can be quite deceiving. The fact of the matter is that:
-She is an adult (Older than 18 can be considered one)
-He is underage (Same as above, only opposite)
So legally, she deserves this. Not only that but, AND NO OFFENSE TO 14 YEAR OLD KIDS OUT THERE, at that age, kids are not that smart compared to a 20 year old who's probably had a couple of serious relationships. I'm talking about doing a little more than holding hands here.
I know it's only a 6 year gap between the two but at that age, I think it's safe to say the girl is more experience and smart, simply because of the age.
The kid was horny and dumb. The girl was also horny (I suppose, because what could she possibly see in that baby?), whorey and smart.
Sorry but I just can't understand how a 20 year old girl could possibly hope to have a serious relationship with a kid! Okay, let's pretend she truly loves him. He's still a kid! By the time she's ready to have kids, he's barely gonna be getting out of high school. So if she really loves him, she should have waited. Not because having sex is bad or anything, but because it's pointless.
Getting a little racy here, how pleasurable could it be to have sex with a 14 year old?
Look, I know 14 year old kids are already having sex at that age and apparently, it's quite common. it still doesn't make it okay. There's a time and an age for everything. While this girl is thinking about sex and looking for a job and stuff, the kid is thinking about Pokemon and his 360. It's just not right.
Yes, go to jail, girl. Look, I've met some really pretty girls who can be quite deceiving. The fact of the matter is that:
-She is an adult (Older than 18 can be considered one)
-He is underage (Same as above, only opposite)
So legally, she deserves this. Not only that but, AND NO OFFENSE TO 14 YEAR OLD KIDS OUT THERE, at that age, kids are not that smart compared to a 20 year old who's probably had a couple of serious relationships. I'm talking about doing a little more than holding hands here.
I know it's only a 6 year gap between the two but at that age, I think it's safe to say the girl is more experience and smart, simply because of the age.
The kid was horny and dumb. The girl was also horny (I suppose, because what could she possibly see in that baby?), whorey and smart.
Sorry but I just can't understand how a 20 year old girl could possibly hope to have a serious relationship with a kid! Okay, let's pretend she truly loves him. He's still a kid! By the time she's ready to have kids, he's barely gonna be getting out of high school. So if she really loves him, she should have waited. Not because having sex is bad or anything, but because it's pointless.
Getting a little racy here, how pleasurable could it be to have sex with a 14 year old?
Look, I know 14 year old kids are already having sex at that age and apparently, it's quite common. it still doesn't make it okay. There's a time and an age for everything. While this girl is thinking about sex and looking for a job and stuff, the kid is thinking about Pokemon and his 360. It's just not right.
Quoted for truth. And that's part of the reason that an adult having sex with a child is wrong; she is in a position of authority over him and he is not old enough to realistically protect himself. Two 14-year-olds having sex is a different situation because there isn't such a power differential between them; it's far less likely that one of them could easily exploit the other. C'mon, that kid isn't even old enough to drive yet, but people are trying to pretend he's a mature adult who is wholly responsible for his actions, and who would feel comfortable telling an adult babysitter (who his parents told him to obey, presumably!) not to have sex with him? That's putting a lot on the shoulders of someone whose voice just started to change.Blitzwing said:
And no, it's not enough for him to say he wanted it because one thing about kids is they can be easily influenced by adults to say things they don't actually agree with. You could probably find a 5-year-old who swears up and down they liked being molested too; doesn't mean it's defensible. In a case of statutory rape the victim is legally unable to consent, even if they never said "no" to the rapist, because part of what our legal system does is protect children and teenagers from predatory adults like this woman, who could otherwise weasel a "yes" out of any child they please.
If it was a guy he would go to jail. So if anyone wants to pretend there's any degree of gender equality in the world they'll say "send her to jail" as well.
As far as the law's concerned you cannot consent to sex if you're 14. She should know this. Hell they should both know this. She's either a complete idiot or she had sex with him knowing it was illegal and she could be prosecutred for it.
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. If she didn't think jail time was worth the risk then she shouldn't have done it plain and simple, regardless of whether or not the boy actually wanted it.
As far as the law's concerned you cannot consent to sex if you're 14. She should know this. Hell they should both know this. She's either a complete idiot or she had sex with him knowing it was illegal and she could be prosecutred for it.
Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. If she didn't think jail time was worth the risk then she shouldn't have done it plain and simple, regardless of whether or not the boy actually wanted it.
Call me out for double standards all you want, but I would tap that (the babysitter, not the 14 year old)
My reaction to the whole relationship can be summed up in one word...
ALRIGHT FINE! I'll be an adult and admit that the age difference and him being 14 is not right. But let's admit it gentlemen, when we were all fourteen we were all fantasizing about women that were even older than her.
ALRIGHT FINE! I'll be an adult and admit that the age difference and him being 14 is not right. But let's admit it gentlemen, when we were all fourteen we were all fantasizing about women that were even older than her.
if anyone ever took the chance to miss the point at every turn it is you sir i have heard the argument you just made TWICE in this thread already as replys to what i have said and my anwser remains the same, most men bow to social presure like this:JacobShaftoe said:
1:HAVING MORE SEX MAKES YOU COOLER
2: HAVING SEX WITH MULTIPLE PARTNERS MAKES YOU COOLER
3:AS A MAN YOUR EXPECTED TO JUMP AT GOOD LOOKING GIRLS
to name but a few, if you are a parent that would explain your atatude to this whole thing as studies show parents are among the most represed people in the world. in general if a woman goes up to a man and offers sex and she looks good he says yes and marriage does nothing to stop this as the number of men having cheating on their partners is just going up, all facts show that, most MALES LOVE SEX, if none of this applys to you you will find i have included in my other posts to poeople who said the same kind of thing you said that MOST males not ALL of course there is going to be some that dont bow to social presure and say no to sex but thats not you, well it is now BUT BY YOUR OWN ADMISSION you have lived the life of somone who says yes to random sex, telling me that if at fourteen a really hot girl had said she wanted to sleep with you you would have said yes.
and btw i am in university and will be making 66k a year as of next june