Have you tried meditating? I had the same problem, my teacher taught me to relax.metacree said:When i used to get into fights I would sorta lose myself in a torrential rage. I have studied several martial arts, but after a fight i was in a year ago nothing seems to be able to control this. I seem to always resort to "slam their head in the fucking pavement until they stop moving" kinda tactic. No matter what I learn I seem to resort to this baser self. However, if I'm in a friendly spar, I am able to utilize actual technique.
yes, unfortunately i have tried this. I have also participated in several energetic based styles, but to no avail. I have long since stopped fighting since I don't like the results.zauxz said:Have you tried meditating? I had the same problem, my teacher helped me relax.metacree said:When i used to get into fights I would sorta lose myself in a torrential rage. I have studied several martial arts, but after a fight i was in a year ago nothing seems to be able to control this. I seem to always resort to "slam their head in the fucking pavement until they stop moving" kinda tactic. No matter what I learn I seem to resort to this baser self. However, if I'm in a friendly spar, I am able to utilize actual technique.
Have you tried learning to control your Chi? If you have, then send more chi to your mind, and less to the muscles. This helped me.metacree said:yes, unfortunately i have tried this. I have also participated in several energetic based styles, but to no avail. I have long since stopped fighting since I don't like the results.zauxz said:Have you tried meditating? I had the same problem, my teacher helped me relax.metacree said:When i used to get into fights I would sorta lose myself in a torrential rage. I have studied several martial arts, but after a fight i was in a year ago nothing seems to be able to control this. I seem to always resort to "slam their head in the fucking pavement until they stop moving" kinda tactic. No matter what I learn I seem to resort to this baser self. However, if I'm in a friendly spar, I am able to utilize actual technique.
Ah, a fellow Shorinji kenshi. Didn't know there were more of us on here.Summerstorm said:Well... i am trained... Shaolin Kempo Karate mainly but also i am very interested in other styles and techniques. But i am more of a fighting theoretecist(spelling?). I have near to zero combat experience, but i know how to hurt people.
So it depends. Against idiots i can protect myself... but against any experienced fighter i am dead meat. *g*
No idea. Never tried. I just like to think I could. But it's more likely I'd just get shot.ElTigreSantiago said:Um how do you do that exactly?Mezzamine said:I prefer to outsmart opponents.
couldnt be put better...but there are people who cant or refuse to be reasoned with. if you can pick this up before then it would just be easier to knock him cold (not dead or incapacitated) and just leave it at that. dont you agree?bluepilot said:I play martial arts and I believe in fighting without violence.
I follow the `learning martial arts so you never have to use them` path. It is about being, confident, staying cool, and learning to react.
If someone wants to hurt you, you should use your words to try and calm them down, give them warning (not a threat, warning, softly), that if they force you to, you will end up hurting them, and try to find a way to resolve any differeces without resorting to violence.
If they then attacked, to protect myself, I would try to move out the way, put them in a hold if needs be, and try to get them to calm down. I do not think that using my martial arts to hurt them or incapacitate them is cool or hardcore. I think it is immature and stupid.
Martial arts is not a tool for anger or revenge. Just because you can break a board with your fist, does not mean that you should employ that technique on someone`s spine.
Words are the most potent weapon.